Indlela yokuphucula izakhono zabantwana ekuhlaleni

Ubuhlobo babantwana

Ubuchule bentlalontle buvumela abantwana ukuba banandiphe ulwalamano oluhle noontanga babo. Kodwa iingenelo zidlulela ngaphaya kokwamkelwa koluntu. Abantwana abanobuchule obungcono ekuhlaleni banokufumana iingenelo ezingakumbi kwixesha elifutshane. Ngokomzekelo, olunye uhlolisiso lwabonisa ukuba Ubuchule bentlalontle bunokunciphisa uxinzelelo ebantwaneni abakwi nursery.

Izakhono zentlalo kufuneka ziqhubeke ziphuculwa njengoko abantwana bekhula. Aziyonto umntwana anayo okanye angenayo. Ezi zakhono zinokufundwa kwaye zomelezwe ngomgudu kunye nokuziqhelanisa.. Ezinye izakhono zentlalo zintsonkothile, njengokuqonda ukuba kubalulekile ukuzibamba kwimeko enzima okanye ukuhlala uthe cwaka xa uthetha akuyi kuzenza ngcono izinto.

Indlela yokuphucula izakhono zentlalo?

Zimbalwa izinto ezinokukhathaza ngakumbi kunokubukela umntwana wakho esokola ukwenza abahlobo okanye abe nobunzima bokuziqhelanisa neendawo ezithile zentlalo. Kunjalo ngoba, Abazali kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo athile ukuvumela abantwana babo ukuba baphucule izakhono zabo zentlalo. Makhe sibone ukuba yintoni esinokuyenza njengabazali.

Yiba nomdla koko akuthandayo

Iqela labahlobo

Ukonwaba kwabanye kuyinto eqhelekileyo xa umntwana esenza into ayithandayo. Kunjalo ngoba, bakhuthaze ukuba baphuhlise izinto abazithandayo. Nokuba kukuziqhelanisa nomdlalo owuthandayo, ukudlala isixhobo somculo okanye ukuba yinxalenye yeklabhu oyithandayo, eli linyathelo lokuqala lokwakha. izakhono zentlalo. Ukujikelezwa ngabantu abanomdla ofanayo kuya kuba linyathelo lokuqala lokuqalisa ukuziva ukhululekile kwiindawo zentlalo.

Nangona kubalulekile ukukwazi ukunxulumana nabantu abanomdla kunye nezinto ezithandayo ezahlukeneyo, Ukuqala ngabantwana abanengqondo efanayo yindlela entle yokuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo ngokulula ngakumbi. Njengoko benxulumana nabantwana abafanayo, baya kuqalisa ukufumanisa ukuba kukwakho nezinto abangadibaniyo ngazo.

Banokufunda ukubuza imibuzo

Ngamanye amaxesha Xa abantwana besoyika banokuba ngakumbi ii-introverts, kwaye ngenxa yoko, banokuba nobunzima kwiimeko zentlalo ezizayo. Kodwa kukho iindlela ezininzi abantwana abanokuqalisa baze bazigcine iincoko ezakhayo nabanye. Eyona ndlela ibalulekileyo kukubuza imibuzo.

Eyona ndlela ingcono yokwazi abanye kwaye wenze unxibelelwano kukubuza imibuzo ebhekisa ngqo kulo mntu athetha naye umntwana. Ngoko khuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba babuze imibuzo entsonkothileyo engaphendulwanga ngoewe okanye uhayi olula. Ngale ndlela, abanye abantwana baya kubona ukuba abantwana bakho banomdla kubo, yaye ubuhlobo obuluqilima buya kuqalisa ukwakha.

fundisa uvelwano

Ukuba abantwana bayiqonda bhetele indlela abanye abavakalelwa ngayo, kukhulu kungenzeka ukuba uzive uqhagamshelwe kwabanye abantu kwaye wenze amaqhina alungileyo. Abazali bakhulisa uvelwano xa bethetha ngeemeko neemeko ezahlukeneyo nabantwana babo. Buza abantwana bakho ukuba abanye abantu banokuziva njani kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. 

Inxalenye yokufundisa uvelwano nceda abantwana bafunde indlela yokuphulaphula abanye ngenkuthalo. Oku kuquka ukunikel’ ingqalelo koko abanye bakuthethayo uze ucinge ngoko bakuthethileyo yakuba iphelile incoko.

Yazi imida yomntwana wakho

amantombazana amancinci abahlobo


Abanye abantwana banobuhlobo ngakumbi kunabanye, ngoko nawe akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubanyanzele. Umntwana oneentloni, ongenamdla akufuneki alindeleke ukuba anxibelelane ngendlela efanayo nomntwana okhutshiweyo. Ngendalo. Abanye abantwana baziva bekhululekile kwiindawo ezinkulu, ngelixa abanye bekufumanisa kulula ukunxulumana noontanga babo xa bengamaqela amancinane. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuqonda imida yexesha lomntwana. Abantwana abancinci kunye nabo banayo iimfuno ezikhethekileyo vele uzive ukhululekile ukunxulumana iyure okanye ezimbini.

Yiba ngumzekelo omhle

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela indlela osebenzisana ngayo nabanye xa abantwana bakho bekujongile. Buza imibuzo kwaye umamele ngenkuthalo kananjalo. Bonisa uvelwano kubahlobo nakwintsapho yakho. Akusoloko kulula ukuba ngumzekelo omhle ebantwaneni bakho., kufuna umgudu kunye nokubona izinto kusengaphambili. Kodwa asimele silibale ukuba abantwana bahlala bejonga abantu abadala ababangqongileyo, kwaye bazama ukufana nabo.


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