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NdinguMaría José Roldán, umfundisi ozinikeleyo wezonyango kunye ne-psychopedagogue, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, umama onekratshi. Abantwana bam abapheleli ekubeni bandikhuthaze kakhulu, kodwa bakwangootishala bam babalaseleyo. Yonke imihla ndifunda kubo kwaye bandifundisa ukubona ihlabathi ngamehlo amatsha, ukundizalisa ngothando, uvuyo kunye neemfundiso ezixabisekileyo. Ukuba ngumama kuye kwaba yintsikelelo yam enkulu kunye nenjini eqhuba ukukhula kwam rhoqo. Nangona isenokuba yindinisa maxa wambi, ayize isilele ukundinika ulonwabo nolwaneliseko. Ukuba ngumama kundiguqulile, kundenze ndanomonde, ndiqonda kwaye ndinovelwano. Ukongeza kuthando lwam lobumama, ndikwanomdla wokubhala kunye nokunxibelelana. Ndiyakholelwa kumandla wamagama okudibanisa, ukukhuthaza kunye nokuguqula ubomi. Imfundo kunye nothando ziyadibana ukudala ubomi obupheleleyo nobunenjongo.

NdinguAlicia, ndithanda kakhulu ukuba ngumama kunye nokupheka. Ndizinikela ekubeni ngumyili nomhleli womxholo, enkosi kwiimfundiso zam kunye nesidanga senkosi yam ekubhaleni ngobuchule. Ndiyakuthanda ukumamela abantwana kwaye ndonwabela konke ukukhula kwabo, yiyo loo nto umdla wam ngabo undenze ndakwazi ukubhala phantsi naziphi na iingcebiso ezinokunikelwa njengomama. Ukongeza, ndingutitshala wokupheka kubantwana abancinci kwaye ndenza iindibano zocweyo ngenzuzo yokukwazi ukufunda kunye.

Ndinesidanga kwi-English Philology, umsebenzi endiwukhethileyo ngenxa yokuthanda iilwimi, uncwadi kunye nenkcubeko kumazwe ahlukeneyo. Ndikwathanda ukonwabela umculo omnandi wazo zonke iindidi kunye namaxesha, ukusuka kwirock yakudala ukuya kwipop yangoku. Oko ndandimncinane kakhulu, ndandisoloko ndinobizo lokuba ngumfundisi-ntsapho, kwaye ndiziva ndinethamsanqa kuba ndiye ndakwazi ukuzinikela kulo msebenzi iminyaka. Ndiyakuthanda ukuhambisa ulwazi lwam kunye nokubona indlela abafundi bam abafunda ngayo kwaye bakhula ngayo. Kodwa ubomi bam abuphelelanga kwinkalo yemfundo. Ndikwangumbhali womxholo kwimixholo eyahlukeneyo, ngakumbi ubumama. Eli lelinye lawona mava angcono obomi asinika wona, kodwa nelinye lawona mngeni mkhulu. Ukuba ngumama kuthetha ukujamelana nehlabathi elinzima eligcwele amathandabuzo, apho kungekho zimpendulo ezilula okanye eziqhelekileyo. Ngoko ke, ndicinga ukuba kubalulekile ukwabelana ngamava ethu, iingcebiso kunye nokucamngca nabanye oomama abakwimeko efanayo. Sikwinkqubo yokufunda rhoqo ebulela abancinci, abasinika amava angcono kwaye basifundisa ukubona ubomi ngamehlo ahlukeneyo.

NdinguMaría, ibhinqa elithanda amazwi nobomi. Oko ndandisemncinci ndandikuthanda ukufunda nokubhala amabali, kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha ndaye ndafumanisa ukuba ndandikuthanda nokukhathalela abanye. Nangona ndingazange ndibenabantwana abam, kodwa ndiye ndafana nomama wesibini kumakhwenkwe namantombazana amaninzi endiye ndanethamsanqa lokwazi nokuwakhapha ekukhuleni kwawo. Ngoko ke, xa babendinika ithuba lokuba ndibhale Madres Hoy, andizange ndithandabuze okomzuzwana. Ndiyifumene iyindlela emangalisayo yokwabelana nabanye abafazi ngamava am, iingcebiso zam, amathandabuzo am kunye nokufunda kwam malunga nokuba ngumama kunye nayo yonke into eyingqongileyo.

NdinguJenny, onomdla ngembali yobugcisa, ukubuyisela kunye nolondolozo. Ndifunde ezi zifundo eyunivesithi kwaye ukusukela ngoko ndiye ndasebenza njengomkhokeli wabakhenkethi, ndibonisa abakhenkethi izinto ezimangalisayo zesixeko sam. Kodwa ukongeza kumsebenzi wam, ndinezinye izinto endizithandayo ezigcwalisa ubomi bam ngovuyo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ndithandana nendalo kunye nezilwanyana, ndinamahashe kunye nezinja endibelana nazo ngexesha lam lokuphumla. Ngamanye amaxesha bandinika ngaphezu kwentloko ebuhlungu, kodwa andizange ndibatshintshe nantoni na. Ndiyayithanda indalo, kokubini okusingqongileyo kunye noko sikuphethe ngaphakathi. Umzimba womntu ngumatshini omangalisayo esisele siwufumene. Kodwa ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ndiyathanda ukubhala, ukufunda izinto ezintsha, ukuhambisa nokuthetha ngembali, ubugcisa kunye nezinto ezinomdla. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ndizinikela ekubhaleni amanqaku amalunga nokuba ngumama, umxholo onomdla kum ngokukodwa kuba ndingumama wabantwana ababini abahle.

Uhambo lwam kwilizwe lobumama lwaqala ngokuzalwa komntwana wam wokuqala. Ngequbuliso, ndazifumana ndihamba kulwandlekazi lwamathandabuzo kunye nolonwabo, apho iliza ngalinye leza nento entsha efunyenweyo. Ndafunda ukuba ukuba ngumama kungaphezulu kunokunyamekela ubomi; kukubumba ikamva ngezijekulo ezincinci zemihla ngemihla. Kwinyathelo ngalinye endalithabathayo, umdla wam wawukhula. Bendizijul’ ijacu ezincwadini, ndizimase iindibano zocweyo, ndimamele amava abanye oomama. Ndandiqonda ukuba ukukhulisa umzali ngentlonipho akuyofashoni, kodwa yindlela yokufundisa esekelwe kuthando, ukuqondana nokuhloniphana. Le ntanda-bulumko yaba yikhampasi ekhokela umsebenzi wam njengomama nanjengombhali. Namhlanje, ndabelana ngamava am kunye nolwazi ngokubhala kwam, ngethemba lokuba kukukhanya kwabanye oomama abathi, njengam, bafune ukulingana phakathi kwe-intuition kunye nolwazi. NdinguTony, umama kunye nomhleli, kwaye igama ngalinye endilibhalayo liqhekeza lomphefumlo wam endilinikela esibingelelweni somama.

Njengososayensi wengqondo okhethekileyo kwi-Emotional Intelligence kunye nophuhliso lomntu, ubizo lwam kukukhokela iintsapho kwindlela yazo eya kwintlalontle yeemvakalelo. Ugxininiso lwam lusekomelezeni amaqhina osapho kunye nokukhuthaza iindlela ezintle zobuzali ezikhuthaza ulonwabo nemvisiswano ekhaya. Ndizinikezele ekudaleni iindawo ezikhuselekileyo apho abazali nabantwana banokufunda kwaye bakhule kunye, ukoyisa imingeni yemihla ngemihla ngothando nokuqonda. Ndikholelwa ngokungagungqiyo ukuba intsapho emanyeneyo isisiseko soluntu olunamandla, olunovelwano ngakumbi, yaye ndizama yonke imihla ukwenza le nto ifanelekileyo ibe yinyani ebambekayo kubo bonke abo bafuna icebiso lam.

Ndiyingcali yengqondo, ingcali kwi-Emotional Intelligence kunye nophuhliso lomntu. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, ndandithabathekile lihlabathi lengqondo yomntu nendlela eliyichaphazela ngayo impilo-ntle yethu. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ndagqiba ekubeni ndizinikele kulo msebenzi, ondivumela ukuba ndincede abantu bazi ngcono, balawule iimvakalelo zabo kwaye bafezekise iinjongo zabo. Ukuthanda kwam ipsychology kuye kwaqatsela oko ndaba ngumama. Ndifumanise ukuba ukuba ngumama ngamava amnandi, kodwa kugcwele imiceli mngeni kunye nobunzima. Ngoko ke, ndiyathanda ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze abantwana kunye nabazali babo baphile kakuhle, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu: bayavuya, kuba akukho nto enhle ngaphezu kokubona intsapho edibeneyo.

Ndingutata wabantwana ababini abamangalisayo, abangabo ubomi bam kunye nomthombo wam omkhulu wenkuthazo. Oko beza ehlabathini, ndiye ndazijula ​​ngokupheleleyo kwindalo yonke yobuzali, ndihlola zonke iinkalo zokufundisa nemfundo. Ndinomdla wokufumanisa kunye nokwabelana ngeendlela ezintsha ezikhuthaza uphuhliso olubanzi lwabantwana. Bhalela Madres Hoy Lithuba lokunxibelelana nabanye ootata noomama, ukutshintshiselana ngamava kwaye ndinike imbono yam eyodwa njengotata. Kuyo yonke le minyaka, ndiye ndaqokelela intaphane zamabali, ukufunda kunye namaxesha endingawalibalekiyo nosapho lwam, endiluthatha njengobutyebi obuxabisekileyo. Kwinqaku ngalinye endilibhalayo, ndizama ukubamba bonke ubulumko nothando endiye ndaluhlakulela kwindima yam yokuba ngutata. Injongo yam kukukhuthaza, ukukhokela kunye nokukhapha abanye kuhambo lwabo oluhle ngokuba ngumama kunye nokuba ngutata, rhoqo ukusuka kwimbono enyanisekileyo kunye novelwano.

Phantse kwiminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu eyadlulayo, ubomi bam batshintsha ngonaphakade xa ndadibana notitshala wam obalaseleyo, unyana wam wokuqala. Ukufika kwakhe kwandifundisa okuninzi ngobomi kunayo nayiphi na incwadi okanye umfundisi-ntsapho owayengaphambi kwakhe. Kwiminyaka emibini kamva, intsapho yakhula ngokufika kukaSofia, intombazana engaphili nje ngegama lakhe, elithetha ubulumko, kodwa lizisa ukukhanya okutsha ebomini bethu. Njengombhali ongumama, ndichulumancile ukwabelana nani ngolonwabo nemingeni yolu hambo. Ngoko ke ndiyakumema ukuba uhlanganyele nam kolu tshintshiselwano lobulumko, amava kunye nenkxaso. Kuba ukuba kukho into enye endiyifundileyo, kukuba kubumama, njengasebomini, singabafundi banaphakade.

Igama lam ndinguMaría José, ndihlala eArgentina, yaye ndinesidanga kwezoNxibelelwano kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke ndingumama wabantwana ababini abenza ubomi bam bube nemibala engakumbi. Bendisoloko ndibathanda abancinci kwaye yiyo loo nto ndikwangumfundisi-ntsapho, ngoko ke ukuba kunye nabantwana kulula kwaye kuyonwabisa kum. Ndiyathanda ukusasaza, ukufundisa, ukufunda nokuphulaphula. Ingakumbi ukuba ibandakanya abantwana. Ewe, nokubhala ngolu hlobo kulapho ndifaka khona usiba lwam kubani na ofuna ukundifunda. Ndiyabuthanda ubumama nayo yonke into ebungqongileyo. Ndiyakuthanda ukwabelana ngamava am, iingcebiso, amathandabuzo kunye nokucamngca ngolu hambo lumnandi lokuba ngumama. Ndikholelwa ukuba umama ngamnye unendlela yakhe yokukhulisa nokufundisa abantwana bakhe, kwaye sonke sinokufunda omnye komnye. Ngoko ke, ndiyathanda ukufunda nokubhala malunga nezihloko ezinxulumene nokuba ngumzali, impilo, imfundo, isondlo, ukuzonwabisa kunye nempilo yabantwana kunye noomama.

Ndazalelwa eBonn, isixeko saseJamani esinobutyebi obuninzi benkcubeko, ngowe-1984. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, ndakhulela kwikhaya elizele luthando nezithethe zaseGalicia, ngenxa yabazali bam, abafudukayo bekhangela ikamva elilunge ngakumbi. Ukukhula kwam kwaphawulwa luvuyo nentsini yabantwana ababendijikelezile, nto leyo eyabangela ukuba ndifumanise ukuthanda kwam imfundo nophuhliso lwabantwana. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, umdla wam wokuqonda nokuba negalelo ekukhuleni kwabancinci waba lubizo lwam. Ngesi sizathu, ndigqibe kwelokuba ndifunde iPedagogy, umsebenzi ondivumeleyo ukuba ndiphonononge ubunzulu bokufunda kunye nesayikholoji yabantwana. Ngethuba leminyaka yam yaseyunivesithi, andizange ndifumane ulwazi lwethiyori kuphela, kodwa ndafumana nethuba lokulusebenzisa ekusebenzeni, ndisebenza njengomgcini womntwana kunye nomfundisi wabucala. La mava andifundise ukubaluleka komonde, uvelwano kunye nobuchule kwimfundo.

Ndingumama wabantwana ababini abalungileyo abangoyena mthombo wam wokufunda nolonwabo. Yonke imihla ecaleni kwakho luhambo olundivumela ukuba ndikhule ngokobuqu nangokweemvakalelo. Uthando lwam ngabo lulo olundikhokelele ekubeni ndamkele ngokuzingca isibizo esithi “mama,” endisigqala njengesona sibalulekileyo ebomini bam. Ukuthanda kwam ubomi kunye nokuba sempilweni kwandikhokelela ekubeni ndifumane isidanga sam sebhayoloji kwiBhayoloji, kunye nesidanga sam seSondlo kunye neDietetics Technician. Ngaphaya koko, ukuzibophelela kwam ekuxhaseni ngexesha lenkqubo yobumama kwandikhokelela ekubeni ndiqeqeshe njengeDoula, amava athe atyebisa umbono wam wokuzalwa nokuba ngumzali. Ndiyalithanda ilizwe lobumama nayo yonke into elibandakanya yona. Ndichitha ixesha lam elininzi ekufundeni nasekuphandeni inkqubela phambili kunye neendlela zamva nje kweli candelo, ndihlala ndinenjongo yokubonelela ngenkxaso kunye nolwazi olungcono kwiintsapho endisebenza nazo.

Ukuthanda kwam ikhemesti kwaqala ebutsheni bam, ndiphefumlelwe ngumnqweno wokuqonda ukuba izinto zendalo zinokunegalelo njani kwimpilo nakwintlalontle yethu. Emva kokufumana isidanga sam kwi-Pharmacy kwiDyunivesithi yase-Barcelona ngo-2009, ndazinikela ekuphononongeni ulungelelwaniso olugqibeleleyo phakathi kwamayeza endalo kunye nenkqubela phambili kwikhemistri yamayeza. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, umdla wam wanda waba ngumama kunye nonyango lwabantwana, iindawo endizithatha njengesiseko kuphuhliso loluntu olunempilo. Amava am obuqu nawomsebenzi andifundise ukubaluleka kokungazikhathaleli isiqu sakho kuphela, kodwa nakwizizukulwana ezitsha. Njengomama noqeqeshelwe umsebenzi, ndiyayiqonda imingeni kunye nolonwabo oluza nokukhulisa abantwana. Ndikholelwa ngokuqinileyo ukuba uthando, indawo enempilo ibalulekile ekukhuleni kwabantwana kunye nolonwabo, kwaye ndizama ukukhuthaza lo myalezo ngomsebenzi wam kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla.

Mholo! Ndiyakuthanda ukubhala kwaye ndizimisele ngokuyila kunye nokufundisa, iinkalo ezimbini endithe ndazamkela zombini ngobizo nangoqeqesho. Njengomama, ndifumanise ukuba le miba ibalulekile ekuhambeni kweli hlabathi limangalisayo kodwa linomngeni lobumama. Yonke imihla, ndifunda iindlela ezintsha zokuvuselela intelekelelo yabantwana bam kwaye ndikhokele ukufunda kwabo, ndiguqula umzuzu ngamnye ube lithuba lokufundisa nokufunda kunye. Uhambo lwam njengomama lundenze ingcaphephe yokwenyani yokujongana noxanduva kunye nokufumana umlingo kwimihla ngemihla, izakhono endizibambileyo ngoku ekubhaleni kwam ukukhuthaza nokuxhasa abanye oomama kuhambo lwabo.

Ukususela oko ndandisazi ukuba umama uzakuba yinxalenye yohambo lwam, umhlaba wam watshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Uthando olungenammiselo oluvakalelwa kwezo zidalwa zincinci zizalise indlu ngovuyo kunye nesiphithiphithi yinto enokuqondwa kuphela ngokuphila ngayo. Yonke imihla, njengoko ndibhala malunga neengozi kunye nemiceli mngeni yobuzali, ndintywila kulwandle lweemvakalelo kunye namava ekwabelwana ngawo. Ngamazwi am, Ndizama ukunxibelelana nabanye ootata noomama, ndibanika intuthuzelo, inkuthazo kunye nelizwi elinobubele kuhambo lobuzali. Kum, ukuba ngumbhali ongumama ayingomsebenzi nje, ngumnqweno. Lithuba lokukhula ecaleni kwenu, bafundi bam, njengoko sijonga kumanzi anengxaki yobuzali. Sikunye, siyafunda, siyahleka kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, siye sikhale, kodwa sisoloko siqinisekile ukuba amava ngamnye ayasityebisa kwaye asidibanise ngakumbi nolo thando lukhulu luncinci lobomi bethu.

Ndingumdlezane, umama kwaye ixesha elide ndibhala iblogi malunga namava am kunye neengcinga zam. Ndinomdla kuyo yonke into enxulumene nokuba ngumama, ukukhulisa abantwana, kunye nokukhula kobuqu kwabasetyhini. Ndikholelwa ukuba kubalulekile ukuba nolwazi olufanelekileyo kwaye uxhotyiswe ukuba uthathe isigqibo malunga nokuba yintoni esilungele thina kunye nosapho lwethu. Kwiblogi yam ndabelana ngeengcebiso, izibonelelo, ubungqina kunye nezimvo kwizihloko ezinjengokukhulelwa, ukuzalwa komntwana, ukuncelisa, imfundo, impilo, ubulili kunye nokuphila kakuhle. Injongo yam kukudala uluntu loomama abaxhasayo, abakhuthazayo, kunye nokuzonwabisa kunye.

Ndingumama wesibane esikhuthazayo esikhanyisa yonke imihla yobomi bam. Unyana wam lolona khuthazo lwam lokuqhubeka ndifunda kwaye ndikhule njengomntu nanjengengcali. Ndifunda i-pedagogy, kuba ndiyithanda kakhulu imfundo kunye nophuhliso lwabantwana. Ndifuna ukufaka isandla ekudaleni ihlabathi elingcono lezizukulwana ezizayo. Ngokuthanda imfundo, umculo kunye nobomi ngokubanzi. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba yonke into inecala elihle kwaye ukuba ayinjalo, ndiyayikhathalela ukuyidala. Ndingumntu okholelwa kwi-positivist kwi-extremis, kuba ndicinga ukuba ngethemba kunye nobunzima besimo sinokoyiswa. Ecaleni komncinci wam, yonke into ilula kakhulu, kuba undinika amandla kunye novuyo endiludingayo ukuqhubela phambili.

Ndiyingcali yengqondo kunye nombhali, okhethekileyo kwicandelo lobumama kunye nobuntwana. Oko ndandisemncinci ndandikuthanda ukufunda nokubhala amabali, kwaye ndandisoloko ndisazi ukuba ndifuna ukuzinikela kuwo. Ndikwanomdla ngabantwana, indlela yabo yokubona ihlabathi, ubuchule babo kunye nokungabi msulwa kwabo. Yiyo loo nto ndiye ndagqiba ekubeni ndifunde i-psychology kwaye ndiqeqeshe ekukhuleni komntwana. Umsebenzi wam uquka ukunceda abantwana kunye neentsapho zabo ukuba baphucule izakhono zabo ezisisiseko, ezinjengokunxibelelana, ukuhoywa, ukukhumbula, iimvakalelo kunye nokuhlalisana. Ndibanika izixhobo kunye nezicwangciso zokuziqhelanisa neli hlabathi lintsonkothileyo neliguqukayo, kwaye bafunde ukonwaba, ukuzimela nokuzimela. Ukusebenza nabo kuyi-adventure emangalisayo engapheliyo, kuba umntwana ngamnye uyingqayizivele kwaye ukhethekile.

Ndingumama oqeqeshwayo, okonwabelayo ukurekhoda iividiyo zikaYouTube xa ndinexesha lokuphumla. NdikwaliGcisa eliPhezulu leLebhu, umsebenzi endiwuthandayo nondivumelayo ukuba ndinxibelelane nesayensi. Oko wazalwa unyana wam, ubomi bam buye batshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Ndandisoloko ndifuna ukuba ngumama oselula, yaye ngoku ndiyakwazi ukuphila la mava amangalisayo neqabane lam nentsapho yam. Yonke imihla yi-adventure entsha, egcwele imingeni, ukufunda kunye neemvakalelo. Ndiyathanda ukwaziswa ngayo yonke imiba ekhoyo ngoku malunga nokukhulisa abantwana bethu abancinci. Ukusuka ekutyeni, impilo, imfundo, ulonwabo, ukuya kwingqondo yomntwana. Ndinomdla wokwazi iinketho ezahlukeneyo kunye nezimvo ezikhoyo, kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezilungele iimfuno zonyana wam kunye nosapho lwam.

Molo, ndiyavuya xa ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi ngam. Ndingumbhali ongumama owabelana ngamava kunye neengcebiso zakhe nabanye oomama nootata. Ndathweswa isidanga kwiSociology ndaza ndasebenza ngokukhethekileyo kwizifundo zobuntwana nentsapho. Oko ndandinomntwana wam wokuqala, ndiye ndabona ukubaluleka kokukhetha izinto zokudlala kakuhle ukuvuselela ukukhula kwakhe kwengqondo, iimvakalelo kunye nentlalontle. Ke ngoko, ndigqibe ekubeni ndenze ijelo likaYouTube apho ndibonisa khona iithoyi ezithandwa ngunyana wam nabanye abantwana endibaziyo kakhulu. Injongo yam kukunceda abazali bakhethe ezona zinto zokudlala ezifanelekileyo kubantwana babo, beqwalasela iminyaka yabo, izinto abazithandayo kunye neemfuno zabo. Ngaphaya koko, ndifuna abantwana bonwabe kwaye bafunde ngokudlala, bakhuthaze ubuchule babo, intelekelelo kunye nomdla wabo wokwazi.

Ndingumbhali ongumama owabelana ngamava akhe, iingcinga kunye neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokukhulisa abantwana ngentlonipho, uvelwano nothando. Ukuthanda kwam imfundo kwandikhokelela ekubeni ndiqale ndifunde iMfundo yaBantwana aBasaqalayo ndaza emva koko ndafumana isidanga kwiPedagogy, apho ndafunda iziseko zethiyori nepraktikhali zokufundisa nokufunda. Kodwa ukuthanda kwam ukwazi (kwimida engalindelekanga) kwandikhokelela ekubeni ndiphande ndedwa ngezihloko ezinxulumene nemfundo engokweemvakalelo, isiyalo esihle kunye nokuba ngumzali onentlonipho, nto leyo endiyibona ibalulekile kuphuhliso olubanzi lwamakhwenkwe namantombazana. Ngaloo ndlela, ndafumanisa iindlela ezintsha zokuqonda kunye nokuhamba nabantwana bam, ngokusekelwe kwingxoxo, ukuqonda kunye nokuthembana. Kwaye ndaye ndagqiba ekubeni ndibelane ngeziphumo zam, amathandabuzo kunye namava kunye nabanye oomama kunye nootata abafuna indlela yokufundisa ngakumbi kunye neyobuntu.

Ndingumama onebhongo wenkwenkwe ekwishumi elivisayo, ondifundisa into entsha mihla le kwaye indicengamngeni ukuba ndibe ngumntu ongcono. Ndiyabuthanda ubomi kunye nendalo, kwaye ndiyayonwabela yonke imzuzu endinokuthi sabelane ngayo nosapho lwam kunye nabahlobo. Ukususela ebuntwaneni bam, bendithanda uncwadi, ukufota kunye nomdaniso, kwaye ndiye ndahlakulela ezi zinto zokuzonwabisa ngokuzinikela nangomdla. Ndizithatha njengomntu ozifundisayo ngendalo, kwaye ndihlala ndikulungele ukufunda izinto ezintsha kwaye ndenze iiprojekthi endiphupha ngazo emini. Umsebenzi wam ngumnqweno wam: Ndiyingcali kwisayensi yengqondo yabantwana, kwaye ndizinikele ekuncedeni abantwana kunye neentsapho zabo ukuba boyise ubunzima babo kwaye ndikhulise amandla abo. Bendisoloko ndimangaliswe ngumdla wabantwana wokufumanisa kunye nesakhono sabo sokuyila, kwaye ndiyakholelwa ukuba kuninzi esinokukufunda kubo. Injongo yam kukuba negalelo ekudaleni ihlabathi elonwabileyo nelinemvisiswano ngakumbi kwizizukulwana ezizayo.

Igama lam ndinguAle kwaye ndinguMhlohli waBantwana. Oko ndandisemncinci ndandikuthanda ukunakekela nokudlala nabantwana, yiloo nto ndagqiba ekubeni ndizinikele kulo msebenzi mhle nonemivuzo. Andikabi ngumama, nangona kwixesha elizayo ndingathanda ukuba mnye kwaye ndiqale usapho. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuba ngumama ngamava awodwa kwaye amangalisayo atshintsha ubomi bomfazi. Ndikwathanda ihlabathi lokupheka, ubugcisa nokuzoba, yiyo loo nto ndiqinisekile ukuba ndingakunceda kakhulu kwimfundo yabantwana bakho. Kule bhlog ndiya kukwabelana nawe ngeengcebiso, imisebenzi, iiresiphi kunye nezixhobo ukuze ukwazi ukonwabela abancinci bakho kwaye ukhuthaze uphuhliso lwabo.

Ndingumntu othanda ukwazi, ongaphumliyo nongahambelaniyo, nongonelisekanga ziimpendulo ezilula okanye ezintsonkothileyo. Ndiyathanda ukuphanda, ukufunda, ukufunda kunye nokubuza ihlabathi elisingqongileyo, ngakumbi into enxulumene nokuba ngumama kunye nokukhulisa abantwana, apho kukho iintsomi ezininzi kunye neenkolelo zobuxoki ezinokuchaphazela impilo-ntle yethu kunye neyoonyana neentombi zethu. Ndinomdla wokwazi ingcambu, unobangela, isizathu sezinto kwaye ukusuka apho, senza ngendlela ehambelanayo nehloniphekileyo. Ndiqeqeshelwe ukuncelisa kunye nokuthintela kunye nokukhuthaza impilo yabantwana, nto leyo endivumela ukuba ndinike ulwazi olusekelwe kubungqina kunye neentsapho zenkxaso kwinkqubo yabo ngumama kunye noyise. Ndinomdla wokubhala ngezi zihloko kunye nokwabelana ngamava am kunye neengcinga zam nabanye abantu abajonge indlela ethe kratya neyonwabileyo yokuphila.