Zininzi iinkolelo kunye neentsomi malunga nendlela indawo ahlala kuyo phakathi kwabantakwabo, ichaza ubuntu yabantu. Bekusoloko kuthethwa njalo Bazalwana ezincinci zezona zonakeleyo kwaye amazibulo yeyona ikhethwayo komnye wabazali. Ngokubhekisele kumzalwana ophakathi, kuthiwa ngoyena mntu unobuntu obunqabileyo kwaye xa umntu ekuphela komntwana, ukuba uyamoshakala kwaye akanazinjongo.
Kodwa ngaba ayinyani la mabango? Ngokwesiqhelo le ndlela yokuchaza abantu ngendawo yabo phakathi kwabantakwabo, isetyenziswa ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Kodwa malunga nobungqina bayo besayensi, akukho sifundo siqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ekhankanyiweyo iyangqinwa. Nangona kunjalo, kuyinyani ukuba ezi zengqondo ebantwini zisekwe kwinyani, kwaye oku kungenxa yokuziphatha kwabazali ngokufika kwabantwana babo.
Umyalelo wokuzalwa komntwana unokuphawula ngokubonakalayo iimpawu ezithile zobuntu. Yinto eyenzeka ngokwendalo kuzo zonke iintsapho, ngokufika komzalwana ngamnye omtsha, abantwana bathatha iindima ezahlukeneyo kusapho.
Ukuziphatha kwabazali phambi kokuzalwa komntwana ngamnye
Ngokubanzi, umntwana wokuqala uphawula ngaphambi nasemva ebomini Isibini. Abazali abatsha bajongana nomnyhadala wenoveli, utshintsho kunye nolungelelwaniso lweziganeko. Ngomntwana wokuqala, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukugqitha kuzo zonke izivamvo, ekuthengeni, kwiimvakalelo, ngendlela yokubonisa uthando noloyiko, njl. Kodwa nje ukuba ukukhulelwa kwesibini kufike, kunina akusekho mfihlakalo kwaye kubazali ngokubanzi, nangona bephila ngemvakalelo efanayo, amava anika isidanga.
Ubuntu babantwana benziwa njengoko bekhula, kwaye onke amava anceda ekuchazeni isimilo. Ngokwesiqhelo, xa umntwana wesibini efika, abazali bathambekele ekukhathaleleni umntwana wokuqala. Yindlela yokuziphatha eqhelekileyo, evela kwimfuno yokwenza umntwana akazive enomona kwaye ebaleka ngaphambi kokufika komntakwabo omtsha okanye udade.
Indima yabazalwana ngokwezikhundla zabo
Nangona kungafanelekanga ukuba yenziwe ngokubanzi kuba umntu ngamnye unempawu zabo ezizodwa, iimpawu zabo ezizodwa kunye nobuntu babo, inomdla wokujonga indlela indawo ehlala ngayo phakathi kwabantakwabo, ibonakalisa kakhulu indima edlalwe kusapho.
Izibulo
Ukufika komntwana wokuqala kutshintsha ubomi baso nasiphi na isibini, ngequbuliso, abantu ababini baba ngabazali kunye nalo lonke uthando lwabo, ingqalelo yabo kwaye, ewe, uloyiko kunye nokungaqiniseki kuvulelwe umntwana. Abantwana baziva olo xinzelelo kwaye Isidingo sokukholisa abazali. Oku kunokubangela ukuba izibulo lifune ngakumbi kwaye bazame ngazo zonke iindlela ukungabadanisi abazali.
Ukufika komntwana wesibini
Uninzi lwabazali luthathela ingqalelo yabo epheleleyo ku ubhuti omdala xa umntwana wesibini efika, ukuthintela umona okanye ukubuyekeza ukunganakwa. Umntwana wesibini ke ukhula ekuqhelile ukwabelana nokwabelana kwaye ihlala izimele ngakumbi. Kwabantakwenu abancinci, uxinzelelo luphantsi njengoko umntakwabo omdala elinyathelo elinye ngaphambili kwaye ngakumbi kuye kufunwe njalo kuye.
Ubhuti ophakathi
Ngokubanzi, ubhuti omdala kunye nomninawa omncinci bathanda ukuba nendima ephawuleka kakhulu kusapho, nangona kunjalo, lowo uphakathi akachazwanga ngokucacileyo. Kuqhelekile ukuba amkele iimpawu zabo bobabini ubhuti omncinci kunye nomncinci, ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba ephawuleka kakhulu okanye utsale ingqalelo enkulu.
Unyana okuphela kwakhe
Ukuphela komntwana akufuneki abelane ngexesha, uthando, okanye ingqalelo, ke ayinasidingo sokukhuphisana nabanye abantakwenu ukufezekisa konke oku. Kodwa ukongeza ekukhuleni ngokuqwalaselwa ngokupheleleyo ngabazali, okuphela komntwana kuthwala ulindelo losapho emagxeni akhe.
Njengoko ubona, ayisiyondawo apho kuhlala khona ukuzalwa kodwa, yindlela abazali abenza ngayo kwimfundo yomnye nomnye. Nangona kunjalo, ubuntu bomntu ngamnye bunzima kwaye ichazwa neminye imiba emininzi.