Izenzo ezi-3 zomanyano ekufuneka zenziwe nosapho

ubumbano lusebenza kusapho

Ukuba kumanyano yenye yezona zinto ziphambili ekufuneka ufundise abantwana bakho, yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebantwini nezibalulekileyo bakhule njengabantu abadala abanovelwano nabaxhasanayo nabanye abantu abaphilayo. USuku lwaManyano lwaMazwe ngaMazwe, olubhiyozelwa namhlanje, umhla wamashumi amathathu ananye kwinyanga yeThupha, lwasekwa ngonyaka ka31 ngeenjongo zokudala ulwazi ngezoluntu.

Ukukhuthaza ubumbano kunye nokuncedisana ngenjongo yokufumana uluntu olunobulungisa ngakumbi, Uxolo kwaye uchuma wonke umntu. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantwana bafunde ukwenza Yiba nenkxaso kwasebuncinaneni. Kubalulekile ukuba bakhule bezazi iimfuno zabanye, zabahlobo babo, zabantu abenza isangqa sabo sentlalo kuqala, ukuze balwele ilizwe elingcono kamva.

Imisebenzi yobumbano yokwenza njengosapho

Akukho nto efana nokwenza umzekelo ukuba abantwana bafunde nasiphi na isifundo. Ootata, oomama nabo bonke abo banefuthe ngqo kwimfundo nakukhuliso lwabantwana, ngabo kufuneka babethelele loo maxabiso kwabancinci. Ke ngoko, ukubhiyozela olu suku nabantwana bakho kwaye ubafundise ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba kubumbano, sicebisa ezinye zezinto zomanyano ukuba zenziwe kunye njengentsapho.

Nikela ngezinto ezingasasetyenziswayo

Abantwana bethu banethamsanqa lokufumana zonke izinto abazifunayo, nangaphezulu kunoko kubaluleke kakhulu. Kolu luntu kuhlala kukho ukwanda, kuba ngandlela thile amashumi eminyaka Sifundisiwe ukuba kokukhona kungcono. Ke, abantwana babeke izinto zokudlala, oonodoli, kunye nezinto zokuzonwabisa abangasazisebenzisi, kuba rhoqo bafumana izinto zokudlala ezintsha.

Kodwa ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, abantu abadala bakwanokuqokelela izinto ngenxa yokuba benazo. Izinto ezingafunekiyo, ezingasenzi sonwabe kwaye banokuba luncedo kakhulu kwabanye abantu abanethamsanqa elincinci. Enye yezona zinto ziphambili kubumbano kukuziqhelanisa neqela. Oko kukuthi, rhoqo kufuneka kucocwe ekhaya ukulungiselela indawo yezo zinto zintsha ziza kuza kungekudala.

Khuthaza abantwana ukuba balahle ezo zinto zokudlala bangasazisebenzisiyo, ukubanikela kamva kwabanye abantwana abanokonwaba kakhulu nabo. Ngendlela efanayo, ngalo lonke ixesha ucoca iikhabhathi okanye utshintsha ixesha lonyaka, lungisa yonke into engasasebenziyo ukunikela. Abantwana baya kufunda ukuxhasa ngendlela elula kakhulu kwaye baya kuthatha isiko eliya kubakhapha ubomi babo bonke.

Ukuqokelelwa kokutya

Ukuba usapho lunokunikela ngokutya ukunceda abanye abantu, cinga ukuba yintoni enokuncedwa luluntu lonke. Iibhanki zokutya kuzo zonke izixeko zifuna isisa sabo bonke abantu, jonga amaziko akufutshane nekhaya lakho kwaye cwangcisa ukutya kwindawo ohlala kuyo. Abantwana abaphuma kwindawo zonke ezingingqini baya kuthatha inxaxheba kulo msitho kwaye baya kwazi ukuba ukutya akubikho kuzo zonke izindlu njengoko kukokwabo.

Umxhasi womntwana

Sisenzo esilula kwaye sinokufikeleleka ngokulula kwiintsapho ezininzi. Ukuxhasa umntwana kwilizwe elisaphuhlayo kuthetha ukuphucula iimfuno zabo ezisisiseko ngegalelo elincinci lezemali. Ngale ntlawulo incinci yenyanga, ayizukuphela kwalomntwana oya kuba nakho ukuphucula ubomi bakhe, kodwa nosapho lwakhe luya kuba nakho ukuxhamla. Abantwana baya kuba nakho ukufunda okuninzi ngobomi babanye abantwana kwezinye iindawo zehlabathi, baya kudibana naloo mhlobo mtsha ngeefoto kunye neeleta abaza kukwazi ukuzifumana.

Ngamanye amagama, isenzo esikhulu sobumbano esenziwe njengentsapho kunye fundisa abantwana ukuba umhlaba ungaba yindawo engcono yabo bonke. Ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni bonke abantu bayabaxhasa, bayakwazi ukucinga ngeemfuno zabanye endaweni yokucinga ngesiqu sakho kuphela. Ukuba novelwano, ububele kunye nenkxaso, abantwana bakho baya kukhula benemilinganiselo emihle yokufaka isandla kwihlabathi.



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