Ukudlala sisiseko sokufunda ebantwaneni, yindlela yabo yokufumanisa umhlaba ngokwembono efanelekileyo yobudala. Sisiqinisekiso sokuba banako zikhule ngendlela esempilweni emzimbeni nasengqondweni kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, lilungelo labo bonke abantwana.
Ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, ukudlala ebantwaneni kuyanceda, kodwa ikakhulu kuba ngexesha lobuntwana iziseko zobomi babantu abadala ziya kusekwa. Ubuntwana obugcwele imidlalo, yemidlalo edlalwa apho umntwana angaphonononga kwaye aphuhlise bonke ubuchule bakhe, sisiqinisekiso sobuntwana obonwabileyo. Ihlabathi lifuna abantwana abonwabileyo kwaye oku kufuneka ulwe yonke imihla.
Dlala ebantwaneni, ziziphi izibonelelo zayo?
Ngokudlala, umntwana unokufumana ulwazi ngokulula ngakumbi, kwindawo emnandi, edlalayo apho anokukhulisa kunye nokuphucula izakhono zakhe. Kubonakalisiwe ukuba indawo edlalayo ikulungele ngakumbi ukufunda kwaye ziya zisanda izikolo eziguqula ubume besikolo, ngakumbi ngexesha lobuntwana.
Ezi zezinye zeenzuzo ezininzi del dlala ebantwaneni:
- Ngokudlala abantwana bafunda ukunxibelelana ngokwasekuhlaleni, bafumane imigaqo yomdlalo kwaye banxibelelane noontanga babo. Umdlalo ungundoqo xa kuziwa ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezifana nokulinda, ukujika, imigaqo okanye ukusebenzisana.
- Banokuphonononga inyani ngelixa bedlala ngengcinga yabo. Ukucinga kwabantwana kunamandla, ngokudlala banokuzisa ubunyani babo kwinyani. Bafumanisa into eyinyani nengeyiyo, kodwa banokufunda nokuguqula oko bakucingayo.
- Bakhulisa amandla abo omzimba nawengqondo, ubuchule bokucinga kunye nengcinga ziyaphuculwa.
- Bafunda ukulawula eyabo imizimba, bafumane ukuzimela kwaye baphucule ukuzithemba kwabo.
- Ukudlala kubalulekile ukuze ukuphucula izakhono zakho, ngakumbi izakhono zemoto kunye nokufumana ulwimi.
- Uxinzelelo luyasetyenzwa. Ngexesha lomdlalo umntwana angajonga ingqalelo kwaye ajolise kwinto ayenzayo, lonke ixesha edlala kwaye onwabile.
Ukongeza kuzo zonke izibonelelo zokudlala ebantwaneni, kukho eyona ibaluleke kunayo yonke, ubumnandi, amaxesha okuhleka kunye nexesha lokuzonwabisa nabanye abantwana kunye nosapho. Khuthaza ukudlala ekhaya kwaye uya kuqinisekisa ukukhula okuhle ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo kubantwana bakho.