Abanye abazali bafumanisa ukuba banezimvo ezahlukileyo malunga nokuba ngumzali, nto leyo enokubangela ungquzulwano. Kungalula kumzali ukuba abe "yingcali" kwaye kusingela phantsi ukuthembana komnye.
Kuyanceda ukuxoxa ngezimvo zabanye kwaye uzame ukwenza indlela edibeneyo. Kukwabalulekile ukwamkela ukuba unokuba neendlela ngeendlela zokukhathalela umntwana wakho. Ngenxa yokuba wenza izinto ngokwahlukileyo oko akuthethi ukuba enye indlela ilungile okanye ayilunganga.
Ubudlelwane ngokwasemzimbeni
Icala lomzimba lobudlelwane linokutshintsha kakhulu, ngenxa yokudinwa, xa ujongene nefuthe lomzimba kunye neemvakalelo zokuzalwa kunye neemfuno zobomi nosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Kungathabatha ixesha ukuziva ulala ngesondo kwakhona emva kokuzalwa.
Indlela elungileyo ngumonde, uburharha, ukuqonda, kunye nokuzimisela ukufumana iindlela ezintsha zokubonisa uthando kude kube nobabini. ndiziva ndikulungele ukulala ngesondo kwakhona.
NoNxibelelwano
Unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo noluthembekileyo lubalulekile kulo naluphi na ulwalamano, ngakumbi kubazali abatsha, kubaluleke ngakumbi emva kokubeleka. Ukuba kukho ukungavisisani phakathi kwakho:
- Thatha ixesha lokuthetha xa nobabini nizolile.
- Mamela kwaye uzame ukuqonda imbono yeqabane lakho.
- Kuphephe ukugxeka okanye ukugxeka.
Uxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka lunokuchaphazela oomama nootata, kwaye lunefuthe elikhulu kubudlelwane. Ukuba ucinga ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho unengxaki yoxinzelelo, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nixhasane kwaye nifumane uncedo.
Ulwalamano olubanzi
Ukuzalwa komntwana kunokuzisa ubudlelwane kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho kufutshane kunokuba bekulindelwe, kwaye abanye banokuba kude kakhulu okanye bacelomngeni. Abazali abaninzi bafumanisa ukuba abahlobo babo kunye nosapho baya kunika iingcebiso kunye nezimvo, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphandle kokubuza kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kungqubana nezimvo zabo malunga nokuba ngumzali.
Ukuba awuvumelani nengcebiso oyinikwayo, kunokuba luncedo ukugxila kwinto yokuba uhlala uthetha kakuhle kwaye Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba uwamkele okanye ungawamkeli ingcebiso oyinikiweyo.
Kubazali abaninzi, inkxaso enikwa ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, amanye amalungu osapho, abahlobo kwanabamelwane ingaluncedo kakhulu. Inkxaso kwezentlalo inokuba luncedo kakhulu kwimpilo-ntle yabazali ngexesha lokubeleka musa ukoyika ukucela okanye ukwamkela uncedo.