Ukufika komntwana kwinqanaba lokufikisa lutshintsho olukhulu kusapho lonke. Umfana ufikelela kwinqanaba elibaluleke ngokwenene ebomini bakhe njengoko eqala ukwenza ubuntu bakhe. Kwelabo icala, lonke usapho, njengabazali okanye abantakwabo, kufuneka bamxhase kumaxesha amnandi namabi.
Kwimeko yabazali, ukufikisa ngumceli mngeni wokwenene kubo ukusukela oko imfundo kweli nqanaba lobomi akukho lula konke konke. Kwelo nqanaba lobomi, abakwishumi elivisayo okokuqala bafuna ukuba abazali babo baqonde izinto ezininzi.
Thembela kubo
Ukuzithemba emntwaneni kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekudibaniseni amaqhina eemvakalelo ngakumbi ukongeza ukuzithemba kwabo. Ukufikelela kwinqanaba lokufikisa, le ntembelo inokuthi ibe buthathaka kuba ukuphuma kwezinto kuqhelekile kwaye isihloko sabahlobo kunye namaqabane sibangela ukuthandabuza okukhulu kubazali. Kuya kufuneka uqhubeke ubathemba kuba ngale ndlela ukukhulisa kuya kuba lula kakhulu.
Ukuthelekisa
Uninzi lwabazali benza impazamo enkulu ngokuthelekisa abantwana babo kubo okanye kwabanye abantu. Ukuthelekisa akunakuze kulunge kwaye kwinqanaba lokufikisa kunokubangela ukungavisisani okukhulu kusapho. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, abazali kufuneka baxhase umntwana wabo kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze bathi bakufikisa bazive bomelele ngokwengqondo kwaye ukukwazi ukumelana ngaphandle kweengxaki notshintsho obuza kubuzisa ngobomi.
Abafikisayo kufuneka bafumane indlela yabo kwaye baziqeqeshe ngale ndlela njengabantu abadala. Ukuthelekiswa okuqhubekayo kwabazali kuza kunciphisa ukuzithemba kwabantwana.
Mamela abantwana bakho
Unxibelelwano ngundoqo kulo naluphina usapho kwaye kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ungathetha njani kwaye umamele umntu omncinci. Ngamaxesha amaninzi abakwishumi elivisayo abanalo ithuba lokuviwa kwaye abanako ukuveza indlela abavakalelwa nabacinga ngayo nangaliphi na ixesha.
Intlonipho phakathi kwamaqela omabini kufuneka ibekhona ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukuthetha kunye kuya kunceda umntwana wakho azive eqondwa kwaye azi ukuba angathembela kubazali anokuthembela kubo kuyo yonke into.
Chitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo
Ulutsha kufuneka luqale luzimele geqe kwaye luzimele kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abazali mabadlule kubo. Ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabantwana bakho kubalulekile njengoko kuya kunceda ukomeleza ubudlelwane bosapho kunye nokuphucula unxibelelwano. Kuyinyani ukuba abantwana xa befikelela kubudala obuthile, bachitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabahlobo babo kwaye bafuna indawo yabo yobuqu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ixesha layo yonke into kwaye ubudlelwane nabazali kufuneka bukhathalelwe kwaye bukhuthazwe.
Kufuneka ube nomdla kwizinto ezithandwa ngabantwana bakho
Ixesha lokufikisa lixesha lotshintsho apho abantu abancinci beqhubeka nokuzama de bafumane oko bakufunayo. Ngokunxulumene nezinto ozithandayo kunye nezinto ozithandayo, ngenye imini banokuthi bathande into eninzi kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo banokudlulela phambili kuloo nto uyithandayo. Abazali kufuneka bamkele ezi zinto bazithandayo nokuba ngamanye amaxesha abazabelani ngazo. Abantu abancinci kufuneka bazame de bafumane into ehambelana nobuntu ababukhulayo.
Ngaphandle kokwamkela izinto ezinjalo zokuzonwabisa kunye nezinto ozithandayo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba abazali babe nomdla kwizinto ezinjalo zokuzonwabisa. Le yinto umntwana wakho aya kuyixabisa kakhulu. Intlonipho yabazali kwizinto zokuzonwabisa kunye nezinto abazonwabisa ngazo zibalulekile xa ubudlelwane phakathi kwaba babini buyeyona bhetele kwaye Iimbambano zosapho aziveli rhoqo.
Ixesha lokufikisa lixesha elinzima kuye nawuphi na umzali. Umntwana wakho uya esiba mdala kwaye uza kufumana utshintsho oluninzi ebomini bakhe oluya kumnceda ukuba abe ngumntu omdala oya kuba nguye kwikamva. Abazali banomsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu koku kwaye balandela uthotho lwezikhokelo ukuze umfana akwazi ukumelana nale nxalenye yobomi bakhe ngeyona ndlela ibhetele.