Wonke umntu uhlala efuna ukuba ngumzali kudala ndiphupha nokuba nomntwana. Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba mhlawumbi uyenzile ngokwakho. Ukucinga ukuba awuyi kwenza iimpazamo ezithile, ukholelwa ukuba uya kukwazi ukusingatha iimeko ezithile ngendlela eyahlukileyo, njl., Iingcamango eziqhelekileyo zabantu abangakabi nabantwana.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngutata ogqibeleleyo okanye ukuba ngumama akukho kwaye yinto wonke umntu onabantwana ngenye imini aphela eyifumana. Oku akuthethi ukuba kukho abazali abangcono okanye ababi, into yokuba ukungazi kukhokelela ekuzimiseleni. Ukuba ungutata okanye umama, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuvakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuwe nasiphi na kwezi ngxelo zilandelayo wonke umntu acinga ngazo ngaphambi kokuba ube nabantwana.
Kwimfundo yabantwana
Lowo ungenabantwana akayazi iingozi zokutya ngaphandle nabantwana abancinci.
- Uyokutya? Ewe xa ndinabantwana ndizakuphuma ndiye nabo bayokutya kwaye Ndiza kukusa naphi na.
Ewe, ewe kunokwenzeka ukuba ungaya kudla nabantwana bakho kwaye baziphathe kakuhle, ngamanye amaxesha. Kodwa inyani kukuba abantwana abanakulinganiswaBanokuba nosuku olubi kwaye nantoni na isisizathu esifanelekileyo sokungaziphathi kakuhle. Ukuba badiniwe, ukuba bayadika okanye mhlawumbi abathandi ukuba lapho, nayiphi na indlela yokuphuma inokuba yinto ye-odyssey.
Malunga nokondla
Enye ingongoma eyomeleleyo kwabo bangekabinabo abantwana:
- Bantwana bam soze batye iilekese, Akukho trinkets, okanye nantoni na eqhutyelwe phambili
Ewe, inyani yile iya kuba yeyona icetyiswayo kwilizwe elifanelekileyo, kodwa kumaxesha amaninzi abantwana baya kuthatha ezi ntlobo zeemveliso kwaye awuyi kuba nakho ukwenza lukhulu ukuyiphepha. Ngapha koko, enye yezinto edla ngokucinga ukuba inento yokwenza neli nqanaba.
- Andisoze ndinyoba abantwana bamUkuba ndithe HAYI, HAYI: Ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuba ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye awunakukhetha ngaphandle koku ukubhenela kwisinyobo esincinci, edla ngokumila okwe ilekese, Umdlalo wevidiyo, iselfowuni, njl.
Malunga nolwalamano lwesibini
Izibini ezininzi zicinga njalo Ukufika kwabantwana akuyi kuchaphazela ubudlelwane babo, kodwa inyani yahluke kakhulu. Ubuncinane kangangexesha elithile, kwesi sixhobo sikuxelela olunye lolo tshintsho.
- Abantwana bam baya kulala ebhedini zabo: Ke unokugcina ubudlelwane benu njengesibini, akunjalo? Ewe hayi, kangangexesha elithile (kwezinye iimeko iminyaka) uya kulala nabantwana bakho ukuba ufuna ukulala. Ukwengeza, Uya kuyenza ngovuyo! kuba ukulala nomntwana wakho ecaleni kwakho yenye yezona zinto zimnandi ebomini.
Malunga nomabonakude kunye neekhathuni
Kwakhona kuqhelekile ukucinga ukuba:
- Abantwana bakho abayi kubukela iTV kuba, Umabonakude uyamangalisa!
Kulungile kungekudala kunokuba ufumanise ukuba kuya kufuneka ubeke iikhathuni okwemizuzu embalwa, nokuba kunjalo lide ngokwaneleyo ukuze ndikwazi ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Uya kusebenzisa iikhathuni kwifowuni yakho ephathekayo, xa ukhupha abantwana bakho ukuya kutya, ukuze bathule kwigumbi lokulinda likagqirha, njl.
Imiba yekhaya
Kubantu abangenabo abantwana, kuyamangalisa ukufumanisa oko akukho lula kangako ukugcina indlu ibaleka nabantwana phakathi. Ke ngoko, bacinga ukuba:
- Nokuba ndinabantwana, indlu yam iya kuhlala icocekile, icocekile kwaye izakugcina isitayile sayo esincinci, Nordic, okanye nayiphi na ehambelana
Kungekudala igumbi lakho lokuhlala liza kugcwaliswa ngamathoyizi, Kuya kufuneka ugqume isofa nge-quilt ukunqanda iinyawo, amabala okutya, iipeyinti nokunye. Ukongeza, ukucoca kuya kuthatha isitulo esingasemva, kuba yinto elula yezinto eziphambili. Xa unemizuzu embalwa ukhululekile, kuyakufuneka uphumle, utye, uhlambe njalo njalo, ke ngoko uya kucoca kwaye uqokelele xa abantwana bezimele.
Siyathemba ukuba uthatha la mabinzana kunye noburharha, kuba ngaphandle kwazo zonke iinguqu kunye nobunzima, ukuba ngumzali kuguqula ubomi bakho, kodwa kube ngcono.