Ukufikisa linyathelo eliphambi kokuba mdala, inqanaba elisisiseko apho ubuntwana bushiywe ngasemva kwaye benza isiseko sokuba umntwana uya kuba yintoni njengomntu omdala. Ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantwana bafikelela kwinqanaba lokufikisa ngezinto ezithile abazifundileyo. Nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukubona abantwana njengabantwana abangenakuzinceda, kubalulekile ukucinga ukuba ngaxa lithile baya kukhula.
Kwaye, ukuze inguquko ikhule ngokwaneleyo, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana afike nezixhobo ezifanelekileyo. Ezo zixhobo zikuvumela ukuba usebenze kuyo nayiphi na imeko, onokuyicombulula ngayo iingxaki, unako bajongane nayo nayiphi na imeko kwaye uya kuba nakho ukusombulula imiba yobunzima obahlukeneyo. Ezi zezinye zezinto ofanele uzifundise umntwana wakho ngaphambi kokuba afikise.
Izinto umntwana wakho afanele azifunde ngaphambi kokuba afikise
Nangona ungasoze uyeke ukuba ngumama okanye utata, abantwana bakho baya kuhlala bekufuna, kubalulekile ukuba ubavumele bazimele. Ukufezekisa oku, kuya kufuneka ubafundise imiba ebalulekileyo njenge yinyamekele impilo yakho okanye oku kulandelayo.
Yiba noxanduva
Ukuthatha uxanduva kuthetha ukuzibophelela, kunye nokwamkela nokulandela imigaqo. Ukuba noxanduva luphawu olubaluleke kakhulu kuye nakowuphi na umntu omdala, kuba abanye bayabona ukuba bangathemba amandla omntu. Kodwa ukuba noxanduva kukwathetha baqonde ukuba nasiphi na isenzo sineziphumo, ngamanye amaxesha kubi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kulungile. Ukuthatha uxanduva ngezenzo zabo kuya kubanceda ukuba balungele ukubathatha.
Ukulungelelaniswa
Ukunqongophala kombutho yenye yeengxaki ezinkulu zabantu abadala, kuba zininzi izibophelelo ekufuneka zizalisekisiwe kangangokuba akusoloko kulula ukufumana ixesha lokuzikhathalela zonke. Ukufezekisa oku, kubalulekile ukuba ucwangciswe, kuba ucwangciso olulungileyo luya kukunceda ulabe kakuhle ixesha lakho. Ke ekuhambeni kwexesha, umntwana uya kuba nakho ukutyala ixesha lakhe ngendlela efanelekileyo ngokupheleleyo.
Imibono yokupheka
Bonke abantwana abanabuchule bunye, kodwa uninzi luyakwazi ukufunda ukusebenza kuyo nayiphi na imeko ngokulula. Abantwana abaninzi bayakuthanda ukupheka, nangona ngenxa yokoyika kumaxesha amaninzi le misebenzi incinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukufundisa umntwana ukusebenza ekhitshini sisitshixo sesondlo esifanelekileyo kwikamva lakhe njengomntu omkhulu.
Funda ukulawula uqoqosho
Uninzi lwabantwana lufikelela ebuntwini obukhulu bengakhange bazi ngexabiso lezinto, bengazi ukuba ivelaphi imali, kubiza malini ukufumana kwaye kulula kangakanani ukuphulukana nayo. Ingxaki enkulu abajongana nayo xa kufika ixesha lokuba bazimele. Ke ngoko, ukufundisa ulutsha ukuba luphathe imali yalo, ukugcina, uku ukwahlula iindleko zakho ngokusekwe kumvuzo wakho, kubalulekile kubo ukuba babe nako ukulawula uqoqosho lwabo kwixa elizayo kwaye bazimele ngokupheleleyo.
Impilo yesondo kwinqanaba lokufikisa
Nangona kungelula ukuthetha nabantwana ngesondo, kubalulekile kubo ukuba bafumane isondo ngokwembono esempilweni. Kuya kufuneka kuqala bazi ukuba amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana baziinkosi zemizimba yabo, kwaye mabangaze benze into abangayifuniyo kuba beziva benyanzelekile. Kufuneka bafunde ukwenza hlonipha abanye, kuba impilo yesondo ixhomekeke kuyo.
Ungalibali ukuthetha ngezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo. Nangona abantwana bevile ngabo, mhlawumbi abayazi imiphumo yezi zifo. Kukhethwa ukuba bafunde yonke into abayifunayo ekhayake bayayazi indlela yokuzikhusela xa ilixesha lokuba nobomi besondo obusebenzayo.
Khathalela ucoceko lwakho kwinqanaba lokufikisa
Ukususela ekuzalweni, ootata noomama babakhathalele abantwana babo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi babo. Bayazondla, bazicoce, bazikhusele kwaye bazithenge bakhulela kwindawo entle engenazintlungu. Kakhulu kangangokuba amaxesha amaninzi uyalibala ukuthulula lonke olo lwazi ebantwaneni ukuze babe ngabo bafunda ukuzikhathalela.
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuhlamba ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka uzihlambe njani iinwele zakho, iindawo zokukhusela, indlela yokusika iinzipho zakho okanye ukuhlamba amazinyo. Kubonakala ngathi ithathwa njengesiqhelo ukuba baya kuyifunda ngokwendalo, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi baphela beyifunda ngokungachanekanga, kwizinto abazibonayo kumabonwakude okanye kwi-Intanethi.
Musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba afikelele kwinqanaba lokufikisa engazi ukuba uza kusebenza njani ebomini. Umsebenzi kamama notata ngumsebenzi osisigxina kwaye ngokungenasiphelo. Bona abantwana bakho bekhula kwaye bafumanise ukuba yonke into obabafundise yona inomvuzo, Olunye lolwaneliseko olukhulu lwabazali.