Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukunika iithoyi ezininzi kakhulu ngeKrisimesi kuyafana neKrisimesi egqibeleleyo, awulunganga kakhulu! Nangona uluntu luzama ukusikhuthaza ukuba sisebenzise abathengi kuba ngale ndlela uqoqosho luhlala luhleli nokuba kukho umngxuma weKrisimesi ezipokothweni zenu, inyaniso kukuba njengesiqhelo... okungaphantsi kuninzi.
Oku kuthetha ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuhlamba abantwana (okanye nabani na) ngezipho, kuba ukwenza oko kuya kuwususa uchulumanco lweKrismesi. Kwelinye icala, ukuba endaweni yokuthenga izipho phantse ezingento yanto uze unikele ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha ezincinane ezimvuyisa ngokwenene lowo umamkeliyo, ngoko izinto ziyaguquka yaye iKrismesi inokuba nentsingiselo ebaluleke ngakumbi.
Abantwana abafumana izinto zokudlala ezininzi abazixabisi izinto, yaye abazixabisi kangako, yaye abanyamezeli kangako ukuphoxeka... iingxaki ebezinokuphetshwa nje ngokubabonisa ubungqongqo obungakumbi nokubenza babone ukuba ngaphantsi kusoloko kuninzi. Ulonwabo alufumaneki kwinani lezipho, nokuba sisinye... Into ebalulekileyo kukwazi indlela yokuyixabisa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umntwana oqhele ukuba nezipho ezininzi uya kuhlala enganelisekanga kwaye engonwabanga, kuba akazange afunde ukubulela.
Nangona kusenokuvakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo, inyaniso yeyokuba izipho azibalulekanga yaye akufanele uzibeke kwindawo ebaluleke ngolo hlobo ngexesha leeholide zeKrismesi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwaye kufuneka senze abantwana baqaphele kukuba ixesha losapho, iindibano zentsapho, ukubona abo bantu singababoni unyaka wonke ... Kuba loo maxesha ngawona azalise iintliziyo zethu ngokwenene. Impilo yamalungu entsapho kunye nexesha lokuchitha kunye isipho esona sihle kakhulu ... Kwaye ukuba amadoda amathathu ahlakaniphile okanye uSanta Claus azisa izipho, Kuya kuba yinto emangalisayo, kodwa kungekhona ngenxa yobuninzi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba, nokuba sisipho esi-1 okanye esi-2 kuphela, abantwana baya kuyixabisa.