"Ayisiyonto yabantwana leyo: YINKONZO"Eli libinzana ekufuneka 'silifake' kwingcinga edibeneyo, ukuba bekunokwenzeka ukuba sitshintshe iseti yeengcinga ngendlela eyiyo okanye ecingelwayo engenzi nto ngaphandle kokondla iinkolelo eziphosakeleyo. Kwaye ndithetha into ephosakeleyo kuba xa umntwana ehlaselwa kwakhona kukuhlukunyezwa okanye ukuthotywa ngoontanga bakhe, nangayo nayiphi na indlela enokwenzeka, ufuna uncedo; kanangcono: imeko ifuna uphononongo ukuphelisa ingxaki kwaye wenze izindululo ngamanyathelo othintelo.
Iziphumo zokuxhatshazwa zibonwa ngaxa lithile, njengayo nayiphi na indlela yokusebenzisa ubundlobongela ebantwaneni. Ngapha koko, uphononongo lwakutsha nje luqinisekisa ukuba amaxhoba ayo 'abagqatswa' bokufumana iingxaki zempilo yengqondo ukusuka ebusheni kwaye baya kuhlala bebadala. Abantwana basesichengeni kakhulu, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi baba zizinto zokuxhatshazwa ngabantu abadala okanye oontanga, nangona kunjalo xa abo baxhaphazayo bengabafundi esikolweni, umngcipheko uyanda.
Ndazise ukuba ukuxhaphaza kungazibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ngokufutshane, ndingathanda ukubonisa ukuba ukuhlaselwa ngomlomo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni, ukukhutshelwa ngaphandle kwezentlalo, izoyikiso, kunye-nako-ukungcungcuthekiswa ngokwesondo, kuthathwa ngokuba yi-HARASSMENT
Uphando endilukhankanyileyo luyabizwa Iziphumo zabantu abadala zempilo yengqondo yokuxhatshazwa ngoontanga kunye nokuphathwa gadalala ebuntwaneni: zii-cohorts ezimbini kumazwe amabini ", kwaye ingafumaneka kwiphepha lika-Epreli I-Lancet Psychiatry. USuzet Tanya Lereya noogxa bakhe bakwiSebe lezeNzululwazi kwiYunivesithi yaseWarwick e-UK; kunye nesebe lezonyango lwengqondo kunye nokuziphatha kwezesayensi, iDuke Medical Centre eSheffield.
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, uninzi 'lwezikrokro' ngokubhekisele kwi- ifuthe lobundlobongela ebantwaneni: yintoni eyamkelekileyo abaninzi ngokungathi yimfundiso (ngaloo ndlela bethethelela ubundlobongela), jika ubenjalo Izenzo zokuhlukumeza ezingancedi nto ekukhuleni komntwana, okanye ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana kwamkelekile, nokuba ngubani umhlaseli, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntu ophethwe gadalala abonakalise ixhala, okanye atyekele ekusebenziseni iziyobisi gwenxa.
Ukuxhatshazwa koontanga
Kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha indlela esinxibelelana ngayo nabantwana, kuba bayingcambu yoluntu. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye, kufuneka sigxile kwi Uthintelo kunye nokulwa nokuxhatshazwa kwabafundi esikolweni, njengoko izehlo ezixhalabisa kakhulu (ngokutsho kwakhe Ingxelo yeCisneros X ka-2007 ireyithi ime kuma-24 eepesenti eSpain, ezinye izifundo zisondele nakuloo pesenti). Ayisiyongxaki yokuyijongela phantsi, kuba iipesenti ezingama-24 kufana nokuthi omnye kubantwana abane, kwaye kuninzi oko. Ngapha koko, okwangoku akukho budala bungaphantsi kwabantwana 'abakhuselekile' kuba isimilo sokuxhatshazwa sijongwa nakwimfundo yabantwana yasekuqaleni, kwaye kunjalo kude kube yimfundo yesibini. Uphando kwiLancet luyaqhubeka kwaye lubeka izehlo kumntwana omnye kwabathathu abachaphazelekayo, ngokokuphononongwa kwamazwe angama-3.
Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka siyithathe ngokungathí sina, njengoko ukuxhatshazwa phakathi koontanga kunokukhokelela iingxaki zexesha elide zempilo yengqondo, kwaye igcinwe ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ezi ziphumo zinokuba mandundu kunakwimeko yokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngabantu abadala (ngesiqhelo izihlobo).
Iziphumo zokuxhatshazwa ebudaleni
U-Eva wayesele esazisile kule post, ngoku ndingathanda ukugxininisa ukuba abantwana abancinci abangamaxhoba alolu hlaselo banakho ukukhula Iingcinga zokuzibulala kunye notyekelo loxinzelelo; iziqendu zokuzenzakalisa, kunye noxinzelelo ziye zabonwa. Ukuxhatshazwa kwabafundi esikolweni akwamkelekanga, kwaye ngokwembono leyo, iingxoxo zentlalo kufuneka zenziwe, ezenza ukuba kube lula ukwenza imigaqo-nkqubo ebonakalayo kunye nezenzo ezijolise ekuphelisweni kwayo.
Isifundo endithetha ngaso senziwa kude phakathi kwabafundi ababini abavela eUnited Kingdom naseMelika, kwaye nabazali bathathe inxaxheba ekuphenduleni amaphepha emibuzo. Abathathi-nxaxheba kolu phando, 'babelandelwe' ukusuka kwi-8 ukuya kwi-9 iminyaka, kude kube li-18.
Akufuneki silibale into yokuba ukusukela kwiminyaka esixhenxe okanye esibhozo, indima yosapho njengereferensi iyatshintsha, kwaye umntwana usiya 'ngaphandle' kwekhaya, ke izihlobo, abantu asebenza nabo, kwanabantakwabo ufumane ubunzima obukhulu. Ubuntu bexhoba buye buguquke buxhomekeke kubaluleka ebanamathela ebantwini abona babaluleke kuye ngelo xesha, nto leyo icacisa ukuba kutheni ubundlongondlongo buyingozi.
Kubonakala kucacile ukuba ukuxhaphaza kuye kwaba yingxaki yempilo yoluntu, kwaye kungqinelana neengcali ezisebenza ngokuthe ngqo kulo mbandela, akuyomfuneko ukutshintsha ingqondo kuphela, kodwa nokuqeqesha amalungu osapho kunye nootitshala, ukulumkisa ngeziphumo ezinokufunyanwa. Luluntu kuphela olizimisele luphela ukulusiphula neengcambu, lunokuthatha amanyathelo athotyiweyo, kunye nokunciphisa ukubandezeleka kwamakhulu (kunye namawaka) abantwana kwihlabathi liphela.
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