Kwiveki ephelileyo sikuxelele malunga iintlobo zokukhasa abantwana banazo kwaye ayizizo zonke iintsana ezirhubuluzayo. Uninzi lwabantwana ludlula kweli nqanaba kwaye baye ngqo ekuhambeni, kwaye kukho abanye abadlula kumanqanaba okukhasa kwaye baqale ukuhamba kamva. Makhe sibone ukuba zintoni Izizathu zokuba umntwana angakhawulezi ukuhamba.
Wonke umntwana lihlabathi
Kukho abantwana abakhawuleza kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabo kwaye abanye bayenza kancinci. Ayisiyongxaki iyodwa, Umntwana ngamnye uvela ngesantya sakhe. Akukho mfuneko yokuba kubekho naziphi na iingxaki zonyango okanye isizathu sokukhathazeka. Abanye bayakwazi ukuhamba ngaphambi kweenyanga ezili-10 kunye nabanye abantwana kwiinyanga ezili-18. Ngelixa bephumelela amanqanaba ahlukeneyo alindelweyo ngokobudala babo.
Ngokwesiqhelo kwiinyanga ezi-8 ukuya kwezi-9 baqala ukukhasa, ngeenyanga ezili-11 banokuma ngoncedo lwakho kwaye malunga neenyanga ezili-13 ukuya kwezi-14 bahlala behamba bodwa. Kodwa njengoko besitshilo oku kubonisa, umntwana ngamnye lihlabathi.
Ukuba siyayibona loo nto isantya sicotha kakhulu, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uxelele ugqirha Ukuphononongwa kwaye kugwetywe ngaphandle ngenxa yezizathu zonyango ezinokubakho.
Uyingcali yokukhasa
Njengoko sibonile kwinqaku lethu ku iintlobo zokukhasa, kukho abantwana abarhubuluza kakuhle kangangokuba abanasidingo sokuhamba. Baziva bekhasa ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye bafika apho bafuna khona, ngelixa ukuhamba kungumngcipheko kubo.
Abanye abantwana abarhubuluzi kodwa batsala ezantsi kwabo ukuze bajikeleze. Nangona behamba, iya kubenza bahambe kamva. Sukungxama kwaye wonwabele onke amanqanaba ayo.
Uyoyika
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyoyika, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba kuthabathe ixesha elide ukuhamba. Bayidlala ngokukhuselekileyo ngokukhasa okanye ngokuncamathela kwiindawo ukuze bangahambi. Kwelinye icala kuya kuba ngabona bantwana banesibindi sokuntywila ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle koloyiko lokuhamba, ukuqubha, okanye nantoni na. Isibindi sihlala siqala ukuhamba kwangoko, ewe, sinamaqhuqhuva ambalwa apha endleleni.
Into elungileyo ngabantwana aboyikayo kukuba abahlali befumana izoyikiso ezininzi, kuba imeko yabo eyoyikisayo ibenza ukuba baphephe iimeko eziyingozi de bazive bekhuseleke ngokupheleleyo. Kufuneka ube nomonde ngakumbi naba bantwana, kuba bayahamba kancinci kancinci.
Ungumntwana ozolile kakhulu
Abantwana abazolile Abangxami ukufumanisa okungqongileyo, kwaye banelisekile yinto esesandleni sabo. Bangabantwana abahlala ukuhlala iiyure kwaye bazonwabise kakuhle. Akukho sizathu sokukhathazeka, umdla wakho uya kwanda njengoko usiya ukhula.
Iingxaki zomzimba
Yo ubunzima bayo sana yintoni imilenze yam ibingaxhasi kakhulu ubunzima, yiyo loo nto kuye kwandithatha ukuhamba. Kwenzeka into efanayo naku iintsana ezinde kakhulu, kuba kunzima kubo ukufumana ibhalansi. Akukho sizathu sokukhathazeka, oku kuya kuthatha ixesha elide.
Iintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha
Iintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha bathambekele ekukhuleni kancinci kancinci kunabanye, kungathatha ixesha elincinci ukuqala ukuhamba.
Ayiboni kakuhle
Ukuba umntwana unayo iingxaki zombono, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukoyika ukuhamba. Uza ku nciphisa kakhulu inkululeko yakho yokuhamba.
Ukulibaziseka ngenxa yeengxaki zengqondo
Yilahle nayiphi na kwezi zinto zingasentla, iya kuba yile ugqirha wabantwana oya kuthi ahlalutye izizathu ezinokubakho Ukuchonga ukulibaziseka kwengqondo okunokuthi kuthintele amanyathelo akho okuqala.
Ukuvuselela okuncinci
Umntwana omncinci okhuthazayo osoloko ebotshelelwe kwisitulo sakhe okanye kwiindawo ezivaliweyo yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba angaziva enesidingo sokuhlola umhlaba. Abantwana banokukhuthazwa ukuba bahambe ngokubeka iithoyi zabo kude kancinci ukuze bahambe, besebenzisa iipaseji kunye nemidlalo ukuphucula ulungelelwaniso lwabo.
Kuba khumbula… yonwabela inqanaba ngalinye, bahamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu kwaye abasayi kubuya. Sukuba nexhala malunga nokunciphisa isantya.