Iteknoloji eninzi ithatha indawo ukubukela umabonakude kunye Nangona kunjalo, zombini ziseyingxaki xa zityiwa ngokugqithisileyo. Kusenokucinga ukuba iingxaki zikhokelela kwiingxaki zomzimba, kodwa iingxaki zengqondo zikwakho. Kwenzeka ntoni xa umntwana ebukele umabonwakude kakhulu?
Kukho idatha eninzi eqokelelwe kwiminyaka yakutshanje ukusetyenziswa okugqithisileyo kwezikrini. Abanye abantwana abanasiphelo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo yindlela yabo yokuzonwabisa neyabazali abaninzi. Kubalulekile ukukwazi ukwazi zonke izinto ezingeloncedo zezi zixhobo ukuze intlalontle yabantwana.
Abantwana abancinane bafanele bamphephe umabonwakude nobugcisa
Abantwana okanye iintsana ezingaphantsi kweenyanga ezili-18 Akufunekanga basebenzise naluphi na uhlobo lwesixhobo. Kukho abazali abakhetha ukonwabisa aba bancinci ngokusebenzisa umabonwakude okanye izicelo kwiselfowuni okanye iitafile, kwaye uninzi lwabo sele belusebenzisile. phambi kweenyanga ezi-4 ubudala.
Kule minyaka ingqondo ikwinkqubela phambili nophuhliso oluqhubekayo kunye nokukwazi ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wemifanekiso esiyiqondayo, kubo inokuba engaqhelekanga kwaye ngaphandle kwengqiqo. Ubuchopho beentsana kufuneka bukhule ngokokubona kwabo kubomi babo bangoku, nxibelelana nabantu kwaye ube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wento abayinikwa ngokwemvelo kubo. Ingxaki ayikho ekubukeleni kakhulu umabonwakude nokukwazi ukufunda izinto ezithile, kodwa ku yonke into abayifundi ngokwemvelo ngokubukela umabonakude.
Sabemos ukuba kukho i zicelo eziphucula izakhono ezithile okanye bayabanceda bamamele izandi eziphumlayo okanye iilwimi zesibini, kodwa kwiingcali ezininzi iseyindlela “engekho ngokwemvelo” ngoko ke ayiyondlela yabo yokufunda.
Ngokutsho kwezinye izifundo iyaziwa uphi umonakalo wexesha elide. Umntwana usenokuba neengxaki zokuthetha, oko kuya kuchaphazela inkumbulo yakhe yexesha elifutshane, yaye usenokungabi nabuchule bokufunda obufanelekileyo. Kuya kuba nzima kuwe ukuqonda amagama athile. Basenokuba nabo ingqalelo kunye neengxaki zokulala.
Kwenzeka ntoni emva kweminyaka emibini?
Ukususela kwiminyaka emibini, abantwana banokubukela umabonwakude, kodwa ngendlela elawulwa ngakumbi. Kukho iinkqubo zemfundo apho banokufundisa izibalo, izinto ezingenamsebenzi zenzululwazi, amaqhinga nokusombulula iingxaki, uncwadi okanye iilwimi. Nanjengoko zizinkqubo ezonwabisayo, kulula ukuzifunda kwaye ukuba zikhatshwa nguyise okanye unina ziya kuyithanda ngakumbi. Kufuneka siqhubeke sigxininisa kumda wexesha ukuze sikwazi ukujonga olu luhlu lwezixhobo. Iseyinto eyenziweyo kwaye eyona ndlela yokufunda ngokwemvelo.
Iingxaki ezinokuvela xa kuchithwa iiyure ezininzi kumabonwakude ukutyeba kwakho. Ukuchitha iiyure ezininzi phambi kwesikrini utsiba umthambo Kwaye oko kubaxhobisayo kukunyusa amanqatha omzimba kunye nesinqe esikhulu. Ukutyeba kakhulu kunokukhokelela ekugqibeleni iingxaki zokutyeba kakhulu kunye neengxaki zentliziyo.
Iingxaki zivela kwimibuzo ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo. Abantwana abazimisele ukuchitha ngaphezulu kweeyure ezimbini phambi komabonakude banokubonisa a Ukunqongophala kokuqwalaselwa komntwana, Bangabantwana abangenaluvelwano. Basenokungazazi kakhulu ekuhambeni kwexesha, yaye naluphi na uvakalelo abalunikwayo lunokuba lukhulu kakhulu kubo.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kuya kuba yimfuneko ukukhawulela babukela njani umabonakude. Abafanele babe nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wezinto ezingahambelaniyo nobudala babo. Imiboniso yesini, iziyobisi, utywala okanye ucalucalulo lobuhlanga kunye nesini ayilungile. Nditsho ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweentengiso ingabaphembelela ekubeni babe ngabathengi abanzima beemveliso abangazidingiyo okanye baquke ukutya okungekho mpilweni ekutyeni kwabo.