Kutheni KUFUNEKA ukhathalele impilo yakho yeemvakalelo

Ukwahlukana.

Abazali bayazi ukuba kufuneka bayikhathalele impilo yomzimba kunye neemvakalelo zabantwana babo, bancama yonke imihla ukuze bayiphumeze, kodwa kuthekani ngabazali? Kukwabalulekile kwaye kufuneka bafunde ukujonga ngaphakathi ukuba impilo yabo yeemvakalelo ibalulekile kulonwabo lwabantwana babo. Iimfuno zabantwana zibalulekile, kunjalo… kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula indlela ozigcina ngayo wena yonke imihla.

Ngokwemvelo abantwana bahambelana kakhulu neemowudi zabazali babo. Ukubeka ubuso obukhaliphileyo okanye ukukhanyela ukukhathazeka kwethu akunakuze kuyifihle ngokupheleleyo indlela esivakalelwa ngayo, kwaye ezi Iimvakalelo, ngokuqinisekileyo abantwana bethu abazibonayo, ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kuba nefuthe ekukhuleni kwabo ngokomzimba nangokweemvakalelo.

Ke ngoko, ukukhathalela impilo yethu yengqondo yeyona nto iphambili ekuncedeni abantwana bethu ukuba bonwabe. Nokuba siphatheke kabuhlungu kangakanani, sibakhathalele okanye sibakhathalele, ukuba awanelisekanga sisiqu sethu, kunokwenzeka ukuba senze okubi ngaphezu kokulungileyo ngokwempilo-ntle yabantwana bethu.

Yiyo loo nto thina, njengabazali, kufuneka sizibuze: Ndiziva njani? Ngaba ndifumana inkxaso eyoneleyo kwimpilo yam yengqondo? Iimpendulo zale mibuzo ziyichaphazela njani indlela endibakhathalele ngayo abantwana bam? Ngaba ndijolisa kubo kakhulu okanye kancinci? Ngaba ndiyabanyanzela kakhulu, ndikhangele ukuba bahlangabezane neemfuno zam kunenye indlela? Ngaba ndinxulumene nabo ngendlela yobuqu? Nangona singaxoka sithi ukuzibonisa ngathi kukuzingca, ukujonga nzulu kuthi kwaye sigxile koko kusikhanyisela kuluncedo ngokwenene kwimimoya yabantwana bethu.

Ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho bakhule bonwabile kwaye bezele luthando ecaleni kwakho, ke akufuneki ukuba uziphose ezi ngcebiso ukuze uphile usapho lwe-retro olondliwe ngothando nothando.


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