Ukuba nomntakwenu sesinye sezona zipho zibalaseleyo ebomini onokukunika sona. Abazalwana Bangamaqabane obomi, abahlobo bokuqala kunye nabantu abakufundisa izifundo ezibalulekileyo ezinje ngomanyano, uvelwano, ukwabelana okanye imeko yokhuseleko, phakathi kwabanye. Nangona kwezinye iimeko, ekufikeleleni ekukhuleni abantwana basekhaya bayayeka ukuba nezinto ezifanayo, inyani kukuba, uthando oziva ngalo ngomzalwana okanye udade kunzima ukuthelekisa.
Namhlanje, uSeptemba 5, uSuku loMzalwana weHlabathi lubhiyozelwa, umhla obalulekileyo wokukhumbula ukubaluleka kweli nani kubomi bakhe nawuphi na umntu. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ngeenkcukacha ngalo mbhiyozo? Apha sikuxelela zonke iinkcukacha, ukusukela nini kwaye kutheni ibhiyozelwa kwaye inomdla. Kuba nokuba ubomi buthatha kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo, umzalwana yenye yezona zibalo zibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe nawuphi na umntu.
Usuku lweSibling World
USuku loMzalwana weHlabathi lubhiyozelwa nge-5 kaSeptemba phantse kuwo onke amazwe ehlabathi, ngaphandle kwezinye ezifana neArgentina, ezibhiyozela ngoMatshi 4. Ngale mini wakhethwa ngozuko lukaMama Teresa waseCalcutta, osweleke nge-5 kaSeptemba Ngo-1997. Lo mfazi wanikezela ubomi bakhe ekwenzeni imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yezentlalo kwezinye zeendawo ezihlelelekileyo emhlabeni.
Uzalelwe eAlbania kwaye kamva waba liNdiya, waba ngumseki webandla labathunywa bevangeli eCalcutta ngo-1950. Kunye noodadewabo bebandla, uMama Teresa waseCalcutta wanikela ngobomi bakhe ekuncedeni abanye, ukuzisa uxolo, uthando nokuzola abona bantu basweleyo. Ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-45, wayekhathalela abagulayo, abantwana abaziinkedama, amahlwempu nabantu abaswelekayo, ngelixa besenza umsebenzi wokwandisa ibandla awathi waliseka.
Isizathu sokuba olu suku lukhethwe ukubhiyozela uSuku loSibling kukunika ixabiso emsebenzini abanye abantu abawenzela abanye. Kuba akukho kuphela abazalwana begaziKodwa yintoni, abanye abantu banikela ngothando lwabo, uthando lwabo kunye nobumbano lwabo kwabanye abantu. Kungenxa yokuba abanye abahlobo baba ngabona bazalwana babalaseleyo emhlabeni, nokuba kwaigazi elifanayo aliphumeli kwimithambo yabo.
Ungalubhiyozela njani olu suku
Ubomi bubaleka ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, uxanduva lwemihla ngemihla, umsebenzi kunye nayo yonke imisebenzi ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze uye phambili, ushiye ixesha elincinci lokunikezela kwizinto ezibaluleke ngokwenene. Yonwabela usapho, izihlobo kunye nabantu abanefuthe kakhulu kubomi bakho. Aba bantu ngabo bazisa ngokwenene amaxesha awodwa, zinto ezo eziza kukukhapha kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela kwaye ke, kubalulekile ukuba unikezele ixesha ukomeleza ezo bond.
Abantu abaninzi bayithatha njengenyaniso into yokuba abanye abantu bayayazi indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngeziqu zabo, abahlobo, abantakwenu, nkqu nabantwana. Akusoloko kulula ukubonisa uthando ngamazwi, kodwa komnye umntu kubalulekile ukuba umamele amaxesha ngamaxesha. Ukubhiyozela uSuku loSisi lweHlabathi, akukho mbhiyozo ungcono kunokuthatha nje imizuzu embalwa ukubiza abantakwenu okanye abahlobo abaye baba ngabantakwabo, kwaye ubaxelele ukuba ubathanda kangakanani. Unokuziva ukhululekile ukuthumela umyalezo, kodwa kule meko ayibhekiseli kwintuthuzelo, kodwa malunga nokwenza umzamo wokwenyani wokuvuza omnye umntu.
Nokuba unokubanika ithuba lokuba ubatyelele, bonwabele inkampani yabo ngekofu elungileyo, idizethi eyenziwe ekhaya kunye nemva kwemini yeentetho ukukhumbula amaxesha ahleliyo. Ngokukodwa kula maxesha anzima obhubhane, kubalulekile ukuba uchithe ixesha nabantu obathandayo. Ewe, khumbula ukuthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko, ukuwola ngamehlo, uthathe ithuba lokuba akufuneki uphuze abanye abantu ukuze ukhuseleke ukuveza ngamazwi yonke into oyivayo.