Ibinzana elithi "ukuba nengqiqo" lithetha ukubanakho gweba ngesizathu imibuzo ethile yobomi bemihla ngemihla kwaye wazi indlela yokwenza ngokufanelekileyo. Eli binzana lisetyenziswa mihla le, ukubonisa ulwazi olwenziwe ngokusekwe kwiinkolelo ezithandwayo. Ulwazi ekwabelwana ngalo eluntwini kwaye luthathwa njengelifanelekileyo.
Ekugqibeleni, ukuqonda okuqhelekileyo kuqondwa ngandlela thile njengokuyeka ukucinga. Yeka ukujonga eyona ndlela ifundisayo kwaye Thatha umendo wobulumko. Into ethi kwiinkcubeko ezininzi isetyenziswe kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bemihla ngemihla, ngakumbi kuleyo yokuba ngumzali. Amava abanye abantu basetyhini yeyona nto iphawula eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo ukukhulisa abantwana Kwaye ke ithathwa ngokwemvelo, oko kukuthi, imalunga nokuzala ngengqondo eqhelekileyo.
Ukukhulisa ngengqondo eqhelekileyo
Bonke abantu abanako ukubanakho ukwenza ngokuvisisana nengqiqo. Abo banembono egxeka ngakumbi ngobomi, abo bafuna ingcaciso esengqiqweni yezinto okanye isisombululo sokwenene ngokweencwadi, abanakubamkela ubulumko obuqhelekileyo njengobusebenzayo kuzo zonke iindlela. Xa oku kusetyenziswa kubuzali, kunokuba yimeko yoomama ekufuneka befunde yonke into ngalo mbandela. Abo ukuba sukuthatha inyathelo ungakhange uqale unolwazi kwaye uyifundisise imeko.
Abantu abanesakhono sokwenza ngengqondo eqhelekileyo, banendawo enkulu yokuyisebenzisa kubuzali. Umzekelo, wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ukuncancisa kokona kutya kukufanelekileyo usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Namhlanje le ngxelo isetyenziswa nakwezentengiso zobisi olungumgubo olubonwa kumabonwakude, ngoko ke akukho nzima ukuyikholelwa. Nangona kunjalo, yinto eyenzekileyo ebomini kunye nengqondo eqhelekileyo, kwakusaziwa ukuba ukuncancisa yeyona nto ilungileyo kwiintsana.
Ke ngoko, ukuzala ngengqondo kunokuqondwa njengendlela yokwenza izinto ngokweenkolelo ezithandwayo. Ngokwento esele isaziwa neyaziwa njengelungileyo, esekwe kumzekelo kunye namava abanye oomama. Ayisiyonto yokungahoyi izimvo zeengcali, kuba ingqiqo nayo ikhulisiwe kubo. Imalunga nokumamela izinto ezikuxelela ngokwakho.
Malunga oko umzimba wakho ukuxelela ukuba ukwenze xa umntwana wakho ekhala. Mthathe ngeengalo zakhe ade athobe endaweni yokulandela nayiphi na indlela yokuba ngumzali. Malunga namaxesha ekufuneka uyibeke esifubeni sakho endaweni yokucinga malunga neeshedyuli esekwe kunye nezenziweyo okanye imigaqo engasebenzi kubo bonke abantu ngokulinganayo. Ngamafutshane, yindlela ehloniphekileyo yokukhulisa abantwana, ukumamela kunye nokujongana neemfuno zomntwana ngamnye.