Ukuba ungumama ongatshatanga okanye utata ongatshatanga, unokukhangela iqabane. Ukuba nomntwana akwenzi ukuba uphume "kwintengiso yothando." Ke, ungakhangela iqabane kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ugcine ezinye izinto engqondweni.
Kuyinyani ukuba lo mntu kuya kufuneka abamkele abantwana bakho ukuze bangene ebomini bakho ... Kodwa kuya kufuneka unezinto ezimbalwa engqondweni kumhla wokuqala.
Coca ingqondo yakho ngokulindelweyo
Umhla wokuqala yindlela entle yokudibana nomntu, icacile kwaye ilula. Umntu odibana naye unokuba liqabane lakho elizayo okanye umntu oza kumphepha kwivenkile yokutya. Kungokwemvelo ukwakha amabali ezingqondweni zethu malunga nokuba umtshato uza kwenzeka nini okanye ukuba ubusuku buya kuba bububi kangakanani.
Cinga imihla yokuqala isiganeko esimnandi-ixesha lokudibana nomntu omtsha kwaye nibe nengxoxo enomdla. Ukwenza oku kuyakuphumla kwaye kunciphise uxinzelelo. Sula ingqondo yakho ngolindelo. Thetha ngabantwana bakho ngomhla wokuqala ke uya kwazi ukuba kufanelekile okanye uchitha ixesha lakho.
Cinga ngeendlela zokuqala incoko
Ukungena kwiyure okanye ezimbini kwincoko kunokuba noxinzelelo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukucinga ngemiba kuloo ndawo, ngakumbi ngomhla wokuqala. Mhlawumbi ingqondo yakho iqhwa phantsi koxinzelelo okanye umhla wakho ungenisiwe. Lungiselela ezinye zeengxoxo ezingacwangciswanga kunye nemibuzo ngaphambi kwexesha.
Ukuba nezihloko ezimbalwa ezizezinye onokuthetha ngazo kunokukhawulezisa ukwahlula ukuthula okanye ukuthomalalise imizwa yakho. Ezona zihloko zibalaseleyo zezi zikwenza ube nemincili, ezinjengezinto ozithandayo, izinto onomdla kuzo kunye nezinto ozithandayo… Kwaye ke, kufuneka uzive ukhululekile ukuthetha ngabantwana bakho. Ukuba loo mntu wenza uzive ungakhululekanga ukuthetha ngabantwana bakho, kungenxa yokuba loo mntu akangowakho!