Elo binzana liphuma emlonyeni wabantwana bethu lithomalalisa nabuphi na ububi obukhoyo entliziyweni: "Mama, yonke into izakulunga." Kukho amaxesha apho oomama bengenakho ukuthwala uxinzelelo ngakumbi kulo lonke uxanduva lwabo, banomsebenzi omninzi kunye nomthwalo wosapho, balala kancinane, abantwana bayalwa kwaye ubudlelwane buba nzima ... Ekugqibeleni umntu obhinqileyo uphela elila ephelelwe lithemba kuba engazi ukuba uza kunyamezela ixesha elingakanani.
Yimvakalelo eqhelekileyo kubo bonke oomama emhlabeni, kodwa enye, ngethamsanqa, inokuthomalaliswa. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba loluphi uxanduva lwakho, yintoni ebalulekileyo kukuba ukwazi ukuyenza beka phambili ezona zibaluleke kakhulu namhlanje kwaye ugcine ngomso ezo zinokulinda.
Yintoni ebaluleke ngakumbi? Wola umntwana wakho ngaphambi kokuba alale okanye ahlambe izitya ekhitshini aze umntwana wakho alale kuphela xa efuna ukuwolwa? Impendulo icacile, akunjalo? Abantwana bakho bangamandla akho, amandla akho kunye noncumo lwakho. Bayakudinga ukuba womelele kwaye wonwabe, kwaye ngenxa yoko, kufuneka uzikhathalele. Bona ukuba banako Qonda yonke into ehamba entlokweni yakho, bendiya kukugona kwaye ndikuxelele ukuba yonke into izakulunga.
Kuba inyani yile yokuba, ukuba ngumama kunzima, kodwa ekugqibeleni, xa izinto zenziwe ngentliziyo nangothando, yonke into ihamba kakuhle. Into ebalulekileyo ngumbono wakho ngobomi nokuba ngumama. Ukuba ubona izinto ezilula, ziya kuba lula ... Ukuba ufuna ukubona izinto ezinzima, emva koko, ziya kuba nzima, zintsonkothe, zingabinakwenzeka ...
Ntsasa nganye xa uvuka, cinga ukuba unethuba elitsha lokuqalisa ekuqaleni, ukuphucula okungahambanga kakuhle izolo. Ungazivuselela iziqu zakho zangaphakathi ngokuphuma kwelanga, kwaye kunjalo, thanda abantwana bakho ngaphezu kwezinto zonke umzuzwana ngamnye.