Ukuba uya kuba ngumakhulu okokuqala uya kuvuya kakhulu, unomdla kwaye unomdla ukudibana naloo mntu mtsha oza kuza entsatsheni ukuze ayigqibezele. Oomakhulu bathi ukuba nomzukulwana kukuphila ubumama ngendlela eyahlukileyo, ekhululekile kwaye ekhululekile kwizinto ezimbi zobuzali. Ngenxa yokuba oogogo banokuba ngumama wesibini ukusuka kwimbono engcono kakhulu, nangona bahlala behlonipha indima kamama.
Amaxesha okuqala ahlala egcwele iimpazamo kunye nokufunda, into leyo oomakhulu abangakhululwa kuyo. Kuba ngamanye amaxesha uthando lunokuba likrele elintlangothi-mbini kule meko. Kaloku ukuba ngumakhulu ithuba lokonwabela abantwana, kodwa ikwayindlela yokuqhubeka nomsebenzi kamama, ukunceda umama, ukuba secaleni kwakhe nokubonisa inkxaso nanini na eyifuna.
Ukuba ngumakhulu, isigaba esitsha sokuba ngumama
Yonke into yenziwa ngothando, akukho mathandabuzo ngaloo nto, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha imida igqithiswa enokubangela iingxabano ezithile. Ukuba ngumakhulu okokuqala yinto enomdla, kuba ngexesha lobomi apho umntu unokuziva engasebenzi kakuhle, umntu omtsha ufika ukunika lonke uthando kunye nenkampani. Kodwa ukwazi indlela yokugcina imvelaphi kubalulekile, kuba, nangona wonke umntu ekulangazelela ukumthanda olo sana lutsha, umama noyise ukuba kunokwenzeka ngabantu abanqwenela kakhulu emhlabeni.
Yiba Umakhulu Kuya kuba kuhle, uya kuba nethuba lokubona ilungu elitsha losapho lwakho likhula, uya kukwazi ukumfundisa onke amava obomi bakho kwaye uya kukwazi ukonwabela. Amathuba amahle kwisigaba ngasinye saloo nto incinci. Uya kufuna amandla amaninzi ukuze ukwazi ukulandela loo nyikima incinane nokuqonda okuninzi ukuze uqonde ukuba mhlawumbi abazali bakho abenzi izinto ngendlela obungathanda ngayo.
Le nto yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ibangela iingxaki zentsapho, nangona ziyakwazi ukusombululwa ngokuqonda okuthile kunye nothando oluninzi. Akukho mama uthanda ukuxelelwa ukuba makwenziwe njani izinto, kodwa bonke bayaluxabisa uncedo kunye nenkxaso engenamiqathango. Ezi ngqikelelo zahluke ngokupheleleyo kodwa yiyo eza kwenza umahluko. Unokunikela ngolwazi lwakho kunye namava, ngaphandle kokunyanzelisa, kwaye ke baya kuhlala bethembele kuwe.
Indlela yokunceda ukukhulisa umntwana omtsha
Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna ukuba nomntwana omncinci ezingalweni zakho, umculele iingoma zakho, umkhulise ngalo lonke uthando okhulise ngalo abantwana bakho. Kwaye ungayenza ukusuka ngasemva, bahlonele yonke into eyenziwa ngabazali babo. Kodwa ukunikela ngobulumko bakho ukuze phakathi kwayo yonke into engcono inikwe loo mntwana. Musa ukubagxeka abazali, okanye ubagwebe xa besenza izigqibo, khumbula ukuba ukuba ngumzali akuyondlwan’ iyanetha.
Unako kwakhona Cela ukumnceda kumsebenzi wasekhaya, ngendlela abazali abasenokulufuna ngayo. Kuba ngamanye amaxesha, olo ncedo lusenokubonakala lungenamsebenzi, ngakumbi kwindawo yabucala yekhaya. Into engapheliyo yi-tupperware yokutya kwasekhaya, uhlobo ekunzima ukululungiselela xa unomntwana ekhaya. Ngalo lonke ixesha uphathe isikhongozeli esinokutya kwaye utyelelo lwakho luya kuhlala lwamkelwa kakuhle.
Kakade ke, musa ukuzibonakalisa ungaxelelwanga kuba bonke abazali bafuna ixesha lokuqhelana nezingqisho ezintsha zentsapho. Buza kuqala ukuba lixesha elifanelekileyo na lokutyelela. Rhlonipha iishedyuli zokuphumla kunye nokutyelela umda ngelixa umntwana emncinci kakhulu. Khumbula ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuhlonipha indawo kunye neemvakalelo zabantu, kunye nezona zintanda. Kwaye akukho mntu uneemvakalelo ezikrwada ngaphezu komama wamvanje.
Nandipha eli thuba litsha lokuphila ubomi belungu elitsha ukusuka ngasemva. Lixesha lakho lokuba phila awona maxesha amnandi, ukuhleka, imidlalo, i-whims. Ngaphandle kokuhlupheka ubusuku bokungalali kunye namaxesha amabi kakhulu okuba ngumama. Jabulela elo gama litsha oza kulifumana, kuba ngoku, ukongeza kwigama lokuzalwa kunye nelomama, uya kufumana igama likamakhulu.