Ngenkcazo ecacileyo nengqalileyo siya kukuxelela ukuba usapho olundwendwe lusapho, ngumzali ongatshatanga okanye hayi, apho abantu bangaphandle INkonzo kaZwelonke yaBantwana, baya kujonga kwaye bakhathalele iimfuno zamakhwenkwe namantombazana ezivela ifom yexeshana bade bafumane indawo kunye nosapho olusisigxina nolusisigxina.
Igama eliphambili lidlulile. Intsapho eyamkelekileyo ihlala isuka ubume bethutyana kwaye ivumela umntwana, okanye intombazana, ukuba iqhubeke nokugcina ubudlelwane obusemthethweni kunye neemvakalelo kunye nosapho lwabo lokuzalwa. Umsebenzi wawo kukubonelela ngoncedo kunye nokukhuselwa kwabo bantwana abathi, emva kokophula amalungelo abo, kuthathelwe ingqalelo ngokusemthethweni ukuba babahlule okwethutyana kwiqela labo lemvelaphi kwaye babadibanise nenye into.
Usebenza njani usapho olundwendwe?
Usapho olundwendwe lusebenza okwethutyana nolwexeshana. Ngaba ifayile ye- umgcini wabantwana lide ilungelo lakho lokuhlala kusapho ngokusisigxina nangokuqinisekileyo libuyiselwe, enokuba lusapho lwakho lwemvelaphi okanye eyahlukileyo.
Yiyo indlela yokukhusela, Ivumela umntwana ukuba aphile okwethutyana nabanye abantu ngelixa iingxaki ezijamelene nokusingqongileyo kosapho zisonjululwa. Kukho iintsapho ezibamba iindwendwe kuphela iiyure ezimbalwa okanye iintsuku ezimbalwa ngeveki, kuba abazali babo basebenza okanye ezinye izizathu abanako ukubakhathalele. Eli nyathelo liqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uyaqhubeka nokukhula kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, enoxanduva kunye neemeko ezikhoyo ngokweemvakalelo kwiimfuno zabo.
Usapho olundwendwe ayizenzisi njengentsapho yemvelaphi, kodwa endaweni yoko ixhasa kwaye iququzelele ubumbano nayo. Ukumelwa ngokusemthethweni komntwana kuhlala kusezandleni zolawulo loLuntu ngalunye oluzimeleyo. Kodwa ukugcinwa kusetyenziswa usapho olundwendwe. Oku kuthetha ukuba ithatha uxanduva lokujonga umntwana, mkhaphe, umtyise, umfundise kwaye umnike uqeqesho olubanzi.
Izinto ezifunekayo ukuze ube lusapho olundwendwe
Akukho mfuneko ikhethekileyo yokuba lusapho olundwendwe. Into efunwa ngamaziko kukuba abo bafaka isicelo sokuba lusapho olusingathiweyo:
- Inzala kunye ikhono ukunxibelelana nabantwana okanye abakwishumi elivisayo.
- Amandla ukuhlonipha imbali yabo yobuqu kunye nobudlelwane nosapho lwemvelaphi.
- Izakhono ukuba ngumzali kwiimeko ezinzima.
- Ukungabikho kobundlobongela okanye ezinye iingxaki ezikhokelela kubunzima ekwamkelweni kwamalungu amatsha kusapho.
- Impilo yomzimba kunye nengqondo ehambelana nokukhathalela abantwana.
- Izinto kunye neemeko zokusebenza kwendlu ukwamkela amalungu amatsha.
Nangona isigqibo sokukhulisa umntwana esingaphantsi asikhuthazwa ngumcimbi wezoqoqosho, ukukhuthaza ukukhathalelwa kwabantwana, kwaye ayisiyiyo irhafu Ulawulo lukarhulumente luhlala lubeka isixa semihla esihlawulwa kwiintsapho. Intsapho eyamkelekileyo inokufumana ngaphezulu kwamakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana afikisayo angama-2, okoko i-nucleus yosapho (kubandakanya nabantwana bakho) ingadibanisi ngaphezulu kwabantwana abahlanu.
Zingaphi iindidi zeentsapho ezamkelekileyo ezikhoyo
Kwilizwe lethu kukho Iindidi ezine zokhathalelo:
- Ukukhuthaza ngaphakathi usapho olongezelelwe. Usapho olugciniweyo lugcina ubudlelwane kunye nomntwana kubudlelwane bobuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo
- Ukukhuthaza ngaphakathi usapho lwasemzini. Usapho lokugcina alunabudlelane okanye ukudibana ngokweemvakalelo nomntwana.
- Ukugcina abantwana umntu wangaphandle okhethekileyo. Ezi ziinkqubo apho umntwana, eneemfuno ezizodwa okanye iimeko, okanye amaqela wabantakwabo, akhulele kusapho apho elinye lamalungu akhe linemfundo, amava kunye noqeqesho oluthile lokwenza lo msebenzi, ngokufumaneka ngokupheleleyo.
- Ukugcina abantwana Umphambukeli oqeqeshiweyo. Ziintsapho apho, ukongeza kwiimfuno zabangaphandle, kukho ubudlelwane bobume bengqesho bokwamkela okanye ukwamkela iZiko likaRhulumente.
Ukongeza, iintsapho ezibamba iindwendwe zinokuba njalo likaxakeka, ulwamkelo aluhlali ngaphezulu kweenyanga ezi-6, okanye okwethutyana, ade umntwana abuyiselwe kwakhona kusapho lwakhe. Kananjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba amanyathelo okhuseleko azinzileyo, njengokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu okanye abantu ngokusemthethweni. Kodwa, kubalulekile ukuba ungabhidanisi usapho olundwendwe kunye kwamkelwa ungayiqwalaseli njengenyathelo elidlulileyo.