Ipesenti ephezulu yabantwana inxulumana nesibeleko seentsana kunye nokungazinzi kunye nomsebenzi bayenza ibe yindawo engalunganga nengonwabisiyo.
Umzuzu wokuhamba usuka ebhedini uye ebhedini ngumzuzu ophambili kuphuhliso lomntwana. Masifumanise xa kungcono.
Ukukhula komntu kunye nenqanaba lotshintsho
Ngokwesiqhelo utshintsho ukusuka ebhedini ukulala ebantwaneni lwenzeka phakathi kweenyanga ezingama-24 ukuya kwezingama-36. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana ngabokuqala ukubonisa umdla wokushiya ibhedi. Baziva bekhulile kwaye bafuna indawo engakumbi kunye nenkululeko. Ngamanye amaxesha ngabazali ekufuneka bancede umntwana ukuba athathe inyathelo kwaye baveze izibonelelo zokuba bakwazi ukulala ebhedini yabo, nto leyo ethetha igumbi eliphangaleleyo ngakumbi okanye lomntu ngamnye.
Wonke umzali kufuneka ulinganise ukukhula komntwana wakho kwaye ubheje nokuba uyakwazi na ukujongana neli nqanaba litsha ngomnqweno. Njengayo yonke into, susa ilweyile, yitya wedwa ..., eyona nto ilungileyo kukubona imiqondiso emntwaneni ecinga ukuba ukulungele kwaye akanyanzelisi. Kuyafana ukuba umntwana uhamba inqanaba lokwahluka njengokuhamba kwenqanaba lesikolo… Kubalulekile ukuba ungongezeli uhlengahlengiso kwinkqubo yakhe yesiqhelo enokuthi imzinzise okanye imchaphazele.
Ibhedi: inkululeko yokuhamba
Kwimeko yokufika komntakwenu, into eqhelekileyo ukuba yinto yesiqhelo ukutshintsha umntwana alale ashiye i ukuzalwa kumqeshi wexesha elizayo, kuyaphikisana ukuyenza kunye nexesha elincinci lomda. Eyona nto intle emntwaneni yile qala "ngokuhamba" kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ukuze yenziwe kwikona yayo entsha. Ukuba uhamba ngobusuku obubi, uya kufumana uncedo nengqwalaselo engaphezulu kunaleyo yokufika komntakwabo.
Emva kweminyaka emi-2 ubudala, isidingo senkululeko kunye nenkululeko sinokubonwa kuninzi lwabantwana. Ipesenti ephezulu yabantwana inxulumana nesibeleko seentsana kwaye ukungazinzi nokusebenza kwabo kuyenza indawo engalunganga nengonwabisiyo. Uninzi lwabantwana luxakeke kakhulu ebusuku kwaye ukuba nendawo eninzi kuya kubenza baphumle ngcono.
Umzuzu onzima wotshintsho ebhedini
Umntwana uya kuziva ekhululekile ebhedini evelisa ukuzola kwaye intle, ngaphandle kokuba iintsuku zokuqala zotshintsho zivukile.
Umntwana othanda ukuphuma ebhedini ebusuku uyalumkisa ukuba uziva ngathi unendawo engaphezulu. Eyona nto intle kukuba kwiintsuku zokuqala zotshintsho ibhedi ijikelezwe yimikhosi okanye izithintelo ukunqanda ukuba iwele phantsi. Kananjalo iya kuba yinto ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo ukulawula ukuba uyakwazi ukuphuma ebhedini yedwa, ukunqanda ukuwa. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba ezo ntsuku zokuqala zokuziqhelanisa zityhilwe okanye ukufumanisa kunzima ukulala. Kodwa akukho xesha uyakuziva ukhululekile kwaye uza kubuyela ekuphumleni njengoko uqhele ukwenza.
Umntwana kunokwenzeka ukuba abe namaphupha amabi okanye amaphupha amabi okonyuselwa ngokwahlukana ngokwasemzimbeni kubo bazali ukuba uhamba ukusuka kwigumbi ukuya kwelinye. Mhlawumbi unesibane esincinci, ucango luvulekile kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe emenza azive ekhuselekile ngakumbi kuya kuqinisa umbono wakhe. Abazali banokumenza azive elifanelekile elo wonga, mxelele ukuba uyaluphala kwaye ngoku kuza inqanaba elihle kakhulu kwaye kuyakuba yinto eyonwabisayo kuye. Lonke olo khuthazo luya komeleza ukuzazisa kwakho.
Igumbi kunye nebhedi ukuze zilungele umntwana
Umntwana uya kukhuthazeka ngakumbi kulala ebhedini oyithandayo. Umbhede ngokwawo kufuneka unganyangeki kwaye ube kumgangatho olungileyo, kodwa ukuba unomtsalane kubantu abadala uya kumtsala umntwana. Kukho iibhedi zohlobo lomqolomba, ezimile okweemoto okanye iziphekepheke, okanye zinokuhonjiswa ngamashiti amnandi kunye neebhedi. Ukuba eyakho umkhwa ivelisa ukuphumla kunye nokuphila kakuhle uya kufuna ukuhlala apho. Ukupeyinta iindonga ngemibala ye-pastel kunokukuzisela uxolo oludingayo.
Uhambo oluya ebhedini yakho luya kuba mnandi ngakumbi ukuba uyalala, udlale kwaye ulale phantsi ukuze ufunde okanye umamele umculo. Umntwana uya kudibanisa ibhedi yakhe entsha kunye namaxesha amenza azive ekhululekile. Xa abazali bekubona ukhululekile, kunokwandiswa ngokuhlwa. Kubalulekile ukuba ungamnyanzeli umntwana ukuba akonwabanga. Ukubonisa inkxaso nomonde zezona zikhuthazo zibalaseleyo.