Njengomzali, kulinga ukusebenzisa imbuyekezo, ukohlwaya, okanye izoyikiso ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba baziphathe ngendlela ethile. Ngokwenyani, le ndlela yokwenza kunye nokwenza umhlaba wokulima ayonelanga kwixesha elide. Zintathu izizathu zokuba kutheni umvuzo kunye nezohlwayo kufuneka kuthintelwe.
Okokuqala, imivuzo kunye nezohlwayo azilunganga kubudlelwane bakho nabantwana bakho. Bafundisa ukuba bayathandwa ngenxa yezinto abazenzayo hayi kuba bangoobani. Abantwana abakhulayo abaqinisekanga ukuba bayathandwa ngenxa yokuba beqhele ukwenza izigqibo ezingalunganga kamva ebomini.
Okwesibini, imbuyekezo kunye nezohlwayo kunokuba neziphumo zexeshana elifutshane, kodwa abayihoyi eyona ngxaki iphambili: Kutheni umntwana wakho engakhuthazwa? Kungcono ukujongana nesona sizathu kunokuba usebenzise indlela yokuncedisa ibhendi yomvuzo kunye nezohlwayo.
Okwesithathu, umvuzo kunye nezohlwayo kugcina abantwana bakho bejolise ngokupheleleyo kwiziphumo. Inqanaba lokukhuthaza abantwana bakho lisekwe kwisithembiso somvuzo okanye kwisoyikiso sohlwayo. Imivuzo, ukohlwaya, kunye nosongelo azifundisi indlela yokuphuhlisa inkuthazo yangaphakathi. Abaluhlakuleli uthando lokufunda.
Kungcono ukugxila kwinkqubo hayi kwisiphumo. Ngale ndlela, abantwana bakho baya kukhula ukuzeyisa kunye nemvakalelo yoxanduva. Ke, Kufuneka wenze ntoni endaweni yokusebenzisa imivuzo kunye nezohlwayo? Okulandelayo:
- Thetha nabantwana bakho ngovuyo (kunye nezibonelelo) zokufunda nokufunda.
- Chaza ukuba uninzi lwemisebenzi enomvuzo ifuna ukutyalomali kwexesha kunye nomzamo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukubacacisela ukuba le nkqubo ngokwayo inomvuzo, nangona ibandakanya ukuzincama.
- Thetha nabo malunga namathemba neminqweno yabo.
- Bancede baphuphe kakhulu kwaye babe nesibindi sokungaphumeleli, kwaye ubabonise ukuba wenza njani okufanayo kubomi bakho.
- Le ndlela ivelisa uhlobo lwenkuthazo kunye nokuziphatha okuya kuhlala ixesha elide.