Ubudlelwane bamandla nabantwana bakho bubonisa ukuba ubudlelwane kufuneka buphuculwe

ubudlelwane phakathi komzali nomntwana

Ngokwemvelo abantwana bakhangela kubazali babo ukuze babanyamekele kwaye babakhokele. Ukuba baqinisekile ukuba sikwicala labo, bafuna ukusikholisa. Ke, Ukuba umntwana wakho uyadelela, okanye ukuba uyaqhubeka nokuzifumana usemzabalazweni wamandla, yiflegi ebomvu ekufuneka ubudlelwane bakho buqiniswe.

Abantwana bafuna ukuba nabazali babo ngazo zonke iindlela, bafuna ukuhlala nabo ... ngowona mnqweno wabo mkhulu: ukonwabela abazali babo yonke imihla. Kodwa uqeqesho okanye isimilo esibi sinokulahlekisa. Bantwana, Xa bengava kuqondwa okanye kuva, bayakhathazeka kwaye indlela abaziphatha ngayo iqala ukungahambi kakuhle.

Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba ugxile kwitshizi.Unezinto ezininzi zokulwa ngamandla nabantwana bakho, kuyakufuneka ukuba ufune isisombululo ngokukhawuleza, kuba kungenjalo ubudlelwane bakho phakathi kukabawo nonyana bunokulimala kakhulu.

Kodwa ungayilungisa njani le nto? Ungamenza njani umntwana wakho azive eqondakala nokuba umzabalazo wamandla uphela ngonaphakade? Ukuyihlonipha. Mhlonele ngendlela efanayo ofuna ukuba uhlonitshwe, kuba esi sisitshixo sokuthemba kwaye unxibelelwano oluhle phakathi kwabazali nabantwana.

Isiqingatha seyure sexesha elikhethekileyo, nganye nganye, yonke imihla sisisombululo esisebenzayo. Oku kubonakala kulula kangangokuba uninzi lwabazali luyijongela phantsi impembelelo. Kodwa andikaze ndibone ukuba ixesha elikhethekileyo alibuqinisi ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana, esoloko inceda abantwana ukuba bafune ukusebenzisana ngakumbi.

Ukuhleka kuyakudibanisa nomntwana wakho, kwaye ukudlala ngokurhabaxa yeyona ndlela ilula yokwenza ukuba bahleke. Wonke umntwana ufuna ukuhleka kunye nokuhleka zombini kusasa nasemva kwemini ukuze uhlale unxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo. Xa ubudlelwane buziva bunzima, ukuhleka kuhlala kuyindlela elula yokuqhagamshela kwakhona.


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