Sele sithethile ngokubaluleka koxanduva ngokubambisana xa kuziwa ekubekeni ulungelelwaniso lobomi bomsebenzi ekusebenzeni kokubeleka. Nangona kunjalo, Kwenzeka ntoni xa kungekho mzali angabela omnye umsebenzi? Siza kuthetha ngezinye iindlela, izisombululo kunye nokubaluleka koodade.
Baninzi ngakumbi abantu basetyhini abakhululekileyo nabazimeleyo kwaye bagqiba kwelokuba bakhulise abantwana babo ngaphandle kwenani lotata. Siyakukhumbuza ngokubaluleka kokwenza uthungelwano lwasentlalweni oluvumela ukuba sikwazi ukuzixhasa kwaye siphakamise isizwe.
Uxanduva lokungatshati
Esona sizathu siphambili sokuba kwenzeke Uxinzelelo lokuba ngumama ongatshatanga kukuba ngamanye amaxesha akukho thuba lokudlulisela kumzali. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba nokuba elo nani alikho, ukwabela umntu othile kubalulekile.
Iyavakala into yokuba awukwazi ukuthetha ngayo uxanduva kunye, kuba kule meko nguwe kuphela onoxanduva lweso sidalwa. Kodwa Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungumntu kwaye awufuni ukwandisa ngaphaya kwamathuba akho.
Ngamanye amaxesha uziva unetyala ngokungafikeleli kuyo yonke into.
Olunye uxanduva lwakho kukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uphilile, kuba oku kufuneka uphile, awunakuba noxinzelelo. Kuya kufuneka unikezele ngomnye umntu, ukhetha ukuba lilungu losapho okanye umntu ogcina umntwana. Olunye ukhetho kukushiya umntwana wakho kangangeeyure ezimbalwa kwiziko elikhethekileyo, elinjengegumbi lokugcina abantwana okanye ithala leencwadi, ngaphandle kweeyure zesikolo. Sisigqibo sakho rhoqo, kodwa Kubalulekile ukuba wenze njalo ukuze ubenakho ukuzinikezela iiyure ozifunayo.
Xolelanisa ngaphandle koxanduva
Ukuba sele ikhona kunzima ukudibanisa Xa sinomntu onoxanduva, onokuthi anyamekele umthwalo wengqondo wokukhulisa umntwana, ngaphandle kwale nkxaso ilizwe lenziwe. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba singahoyi icala lobungcali. Ingakumbi ukwazi oko Ukongeza kuxanduva lokukhathalela umntwana, sinoxanduva lwezemali kubo bobabini.
Kuyimfuneko ukwabela abanye, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka, ngenxa yeemeko zethu. Ngamanye amaxesha asinakuthembela kusapho okanye kubahlobo kwaye asinakho ukubhatala ukuze sibanyamekele. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mfuneko yokuncama kungekudala, kuba zininzi iindlela ezizezinye zokufezekisa olo xolelwaniso.
Ezinye iindlela zoxolelwaniso losapho olusebenzayo
Enye yeendlela ezizezinye kukusebenza ngomnxeba, okanye ukusebenzela ekhaya, ukuthengisa iimveliso kwi-Intanethi, njl. Baninzi ngakumbi oomama abakhetha ishishini, Ukudala amashishini akho ukusuka ekhayeni lakho. La mashishini ngamanye amaxesha ziingcinga zoyilo loomama ngokwabo, iinjongo ekusenokwenzeka ukuba zishiyeke kwikona kwaye loo mfuno ibashukumisele ekubeni balandele njengephupha ababekade benalo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, la mashishini ayinxalenye yokuyilwa kwenethiwekhi yoosomashishini, abanombono kunye nenjongo efanayo. Benza iprojekthi esekwe kuhlumo lweshishini ngokusekwe kubumbano phakathi koosomashishini ngokwabo. Akukho gumbi kolu hlobo lwenethiwekhi, ukhuphiswano kunye nokusukuzana, bonke badada baye elunxwemeni olunye.
Kwiinethiwekhi zeshishini, wonke umntu ufikelela ukufezekisa into elungileyo.
Kolu hlobo lweqela leshishini, akukho mntu uya kukubuza ukuba ucwangcisa ukukhulelwa, okanye ukuba bangakanani abantwana bakho, kuba ayinamsebenzi, kukho intsebenziswano phakathi kwabo kwaye babelana ngomsebenzi kunye nezibonelelo ezikuwo.
Kuyinyani ukuba kusekho indlela ende ekufuneka ihanjiwe phambi kokuba imivuzo kunye nezibonelelo zolu hlobo lomsebenzi zinokuthelekiswa nomsebenzi wesintu. Kodwa kuhamba ngesiseko esiya kuxolelwaniso Iifomula ezidibanisa umsebenzi wokukhathalela kunye ne-telework zamkelwa ngokwandayo, umzekelo. Qho ngonyaka, iClub de Malasmadres iququzelela ugqatso loxolelwaniso, ukuze kubonakale ukubonakala kwale ngxaki.