Udliwanondlebe noAlba Alonso Feijoo "Iingcinga zesini zihlasela uncwadi lwabantwana"

UAlba Alonso

Ukuthatha ithuba lokuba u-Epreli sele eqalile, inyanga enikezelwe kwiincwadi (uSuku lweNcwadi yaBantwana, uSuku lweeNcwadi, ii-fairs ezahlukeneyo, ...), iintsuku ezininzi sinika ukufaneleka kwezihloko ezinxulumene nokufunda, kwaye ejolise kusapho, kwaye ebuntwaneni. Yayilithuba elasenza safumanisa iphulo elitsha lokwenza eli nyathelo #soyquiendecide, ikhuthazwe nguAlba Alonso Feijoo. Ngesi sihlandlo, eli phulo lijolise "ekwenziweni ngokutsha" kweencwadi ezijolise kumantombazana, into exelwe kwiRealkiddys, ibhlog eyahlukileyo yeprojekthi yezemfundo apho uAlonso eyi-CEO.

Inyani yile Kucacile ukuba amantombazana awadingi mabali apinki kunye nemibongo, kubonakala ngathi imveliso yeemveliso zabantwana itsala umlenze wethu, kodwa ndiyaqhubeka nenkcazo-ntetho yam. UAlba ngugqirha kwisiNgesi se-philology, utitshala wesikolo sikarhulumente kunye nomama we-2; Kuyamangalisa, kodwa usenalo ixesha lokubhala uncwadi lwabantwana, kwaye usandula ukupapasha "UMartin ngoyena ubalaseleyo". Umntu ekwenziwa udliwanondlebe naye uzibonakalisa eluthandweni ebuntwaneni kunye nomfundi ongadinwayo; Kwaye ukuba ayonelanga, uhlala esebenzisana kumajelo eendaba ohlukeneyo.

I-Realkiddys yindlela ye ukulwa iingcinga ezikhohlakeleyo zesini kunye nokufuna ulungelelwaniso. Ndicinga ukuba niza kulonwabela olu dliwanondlebe, kodwa sonelisekile ukuba niyayazi indlela abathengisa ngayo ukwahlulwa ngokwesini kunye nezinto zokudlala, izinxibo okanye iincwadi esizithengela iintombi zethu noonyana bethu; kwaye iyayithatha inkululeko yabo, kodwa inokuthi ibeke imeko kwindima abayidlalayo.

Madres Hoy: Emva kweprojekthi oyikhuthazayo kukho umdla onokuthi amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe abe ngokukhululekileyo, kwaye ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Oko kuthetha ukuba enye nenye inezinto ezithandayo kunye neempawu ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ayinyanzeliswa yimeko yebhayiloji. Ngaba unayo nayiphi na imbono xa iimveliso zokuzonwabisa ezijolise kumantombazana ziqala "ukuringa"?

UAlba Alonso: I-Rosification iye yabalandeli abahlukeneyo kwimbali. Ngaphambi kwekhulu lama-XNUMX, ukuba sijonga kwimifanekiso yeentsapho zasebukhosini, siya kubona ukuba ookumkani neenkosana bavela ngombala obomvu okanye opinki. Kungenxa yokuba umbala obomvu yayiyeyona dayi ibiza kakhulu, kunye nokubonisa amandla, amandla kunye namandla.

Ukuba sihamba kumashumi ambalwa eminyaka kamva embalini, ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane yama-20, siya kuqaphela ukuba amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana ayenxiba ezimhlophe, nditsho no-pinki okanye nohlaza okwesibhakabhaka, njengoko umbhali-mbali uJo Paoletti esixelela kwincwadi yakhe ethi “Pink and Blue: Ukuxelela Amakhwenkwe aMantombazana eMelika ”. I-White yayisetyenziselwa ukusetyenziswa kwayo ukuba ifakwe kwi-bleach, kwaye ke isuse amabala angathandekiyo aqhelekileyo kwiintsana. U-Paoletti usixelela ukuba ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-XNUMX kwaqala ukwahluka okuthile kwilizwe elipinki / eliluhlaza ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwimeko esizifumene sikuyo, ipinki inokubonakala ngathi ibhalwe ngokungathandabuzekiyo kubafana okanye kumantombazana. EYurophu kwenzeka into efanayo, kuba eFransi amakhaya eenkedama enxibe amakhwenkwe ngombala oluhlaza kunye namantombazana epinki, kodwa eJamani, nangona kunjalo, kwenziwa ngenye indlela, njengoko uPaoletti echaza..

Ngelixa i-60-70s yayilihlabathi eligcwele umbala kunye nokungathathi hlangothi, i-80s yazisa umhlaba opinki / oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ukhangela ukuthengisa okwandileyo, kwaye ilizwe lama-90 kunye neleDisney lenze konke. Inkulungwane yama-XNUMX ibhekisele kuqhushumbo olukhulu lwendalo enemibala emibini, engoyisakalanga kuphela ukufumana i-brake, kodwa eqhubeka “kwi-crescendo” namhlanje..

Okwangoku sisebenza kwiingcinga ezixhaphakileyo ezihlasela uncwadi lwabantwana

MH:Kwenzeka njani #soyquiendecide? Ndicinga ukuba olu lushicilelo lwesithathu lwephulo, ulukala njani ulwamkelo lwangaphambili?

AA: Inyathelo le- # soyquiendecide liyinxalenye yephulo "lokuFundisa ukubakho", umbutho wobuntwana obunyamezelayo, obulinganayo nobulungileyo. Senza eli phulo sisebenzisana neMadresfera, kwaye siyonwaba xa sisamkela ulwamkelo olunalo. Isenzo sokuqala senzeke ngeKrisimesi ephelileyo sigxeka isini esisekufeni kwezinto zokudlala, siqhubekile kwiminyhadala yemiboniso ebonisa ubundlobongela obathi benziwa ngabantwana abathile, kwaye ngoku sisebenza kwiingcinga ezixhaphakileyo ezihlasela uncwadi lwabantwana. Yindlela ecace gca nelula yokuphakamisa ulwazi kuluntu, ngakumbi abazali, malunga nokuba lipinki / luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka lithetha ntoni kwaye neziphumo zalo ezizayo.

MH: Abavelisi bafuna "ukwenza imali" njengoko usitsho, abathengi bayasiwa; ngamanye amaxesha andazi nokuba intengiso yenza iimfuno okanye iyaphendula. Ngaba ii-brand zihlala zithini ukusabela kwingcinezelo yokwamkela umgaqo-nkqubo olinganayo?

AA: Namhlanje sele kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo eziqala ukubandakanyeka kolu hambo lwentlonipho kwiincasa zobuntwana ngaphandle kwesini sabo. Kodwa ke ngelishwa, siyaqinisekisa ukuba uninzi lwezi meko ayisiyonto ingeyiyo iqhinga lezorhwebo, kuba bayenza kakuhle ngeKrisimesi kwaye emva koko abayisebenzisi ithiyori efanayo kwizidlo, umzekelo. Nokuba sisicwangciso okanye hayi, utshintsho olukhulu luyafuneka ziimpawu. Uluntu luqala ukulufuna kwaye sinethemba lokuba uninzi luya "kuthi xhaxhe" kwaye luyeke iindlela ezithile zobudenge.

Udliwanondlebe noAlba Alonso Feijoo "Iingcinga zesini zihlasela uncwadi lwabantwana"

MH: Ngoku uthetha "ngerosification" yamabali "yamantombazana", ayithethi into yokuba ndiyavumelana nawe ukuba amantombazana awadingi kuxelelwa ukuba afunde ntoni, kwaye banokuvula i-adventure okanye iincwadi zentshukumo. Ndiyazi ngeprojekthi efana nale uyiphuhlisayo (Vumela iithoyi zibe ziithoyi e-UK), uyazi ukuba zikhona kwamanye amazwe?

AA: I-Lettoysbetoys yintshukumo entle, kwaye bafeza izinto ezinkulu ngokwenza ingxelo yabo. Ukusuka e-Australia kukwakho ne-PlayUnlimited enephulo ezimbini zeKrisimesi ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ngo "NoGenderDecember". E-Spain ezi holide zeKrisimesi zidlulileyo yayingoomasipala abaliqela ababekhuthazwa ukuba benze amaphulo ngokuchasene nesini kwizinto zokudlala. Kodwa le yinto ekufuneka isetyenzisiwe unyaka wonke, kwaye ayisiyi kuphela kwihlabathi lezinto zokudlala, kuba zininzi iindawo ekufuneka ziphuculwe koku..

Kukho iincwadi ezahlula ngokuthe ngqo ngokwesondo ngokubhalwa kumaqweqwe abo njenge "yamantombazana" okanye "yamakhwenkwe"

MH: Ngoku yinyanga entle ukuba "singene phantsi kwayo" kwaye sibakhulule abantwana kukhetho lwabo lokufunda (uSuku lweNcwadi yaBantwana noSuku lweeNcwadi). Kungenxa yoko le nto ndifuna uncedo lwakho: sixelele ukuba inokuluchaphazela njani ukukhula kwenkwenkwe okanye intombazana esibaxelela ukuba ukufunda kwabo kwakwahlulwa ngaphambili.

AA: Amabali sisixhobo esinomtsalane kakhulu kubantwana abancinci endlini. Ukongeza kwimiyalezo ebhaliweyo, kuninzi lwale misebenzi yabantwana sinemifanekiso, kwaye amandla okubhaliweyo / omfanekiso wesibini ayamangalisa. Ukuba uhlala ubona umama ebalini esenza umsebenzi wasekhaya, kwaye inkwenkwe iqhuba imidlalo, ngelixa intombazana ihleli ithe cwaka idlala oonodoli, imiyalezo efunyanwa yile nkwenkwe okanye intombazana mininzi kwaye icacile. Njengokuba oko kwakungonelanga, kukho iincwadi ezizahlula ngokuthe ngqo ngokwesondo njengoko zibhalwe kumaqweqwe azo njenge "yamantombazana" okanye "yamakhwenkwe".

Kula mantombazana siza kufumana umhlaba opinki wamakhosazana, iikeyiki, amabhabhathane kunye neentyatyambo, kwaye kubantwana kuya kubakho isenzo esingakumbi, ezemidlalo, isayensi, izilwanyana ezinobungozi, amaqhawe ... Kunzima kwintombazana kuye Sifundisa ukuba kufuneka ungenzi nto kwaye ungathandeki, ugqibela ngokuba ngusomashishini ophambili. Kwaye kumntwana onokuba ngutitshala, simxelela ukuba eli hlabathi alonelanga kuye..

MH:Yintoni efunekayo kolu hlobo lwenyathelo lokuchaphazela uluntu? Kwaye nceda usixelele: singenza ntoni thina oomama nootata (ngaphandle kokungathengi ngepinki okanye luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka) ebusweni belo shishini lingena ebomini babafana bethu namantombazana ethu?

AA: Zininzi izinto esinokuzenza. Ukungathengi iimveliso ezahlulahlulwe ngokwesini yeyona nto inokuba nefuthe elikhulu, kodwa ukwabelana ngalo myalezo phakathi kwezihlobo zethu nako kunokufikelela kwinkqubela phambili enkulu. Ukuba lusuku lwakho lokuzalwa lwentombazana yakho kwaye uququzelela ipati, makwazeke ukuba awufuni yonke ipinki okanye yonke "eyasetyhini". Ukuba uya kumhla wokuzalwa komhlobo wentombi yakho, sukufaka elinye iqhawe kwingqokelela yakhe, kwaye uzame ukufumana enye into engathathi cala. Kwaye ukuba badala, ngokuqinisekileyo ukuthanda kwabo kuyahlonitshwa, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke kukho ukwahluka. Ukuba awuzange unike unodoli kunyana wakho, okanye imoto kwintombi yakho, uyazi njani ukuba abayi kuyithanda?

Ndimema oomama noomama ukuba bajoyine #soyquiendecide kwaye babelane ngemiyalezo, ii-tweets, kunye nezithuba ezigxeka eli hlabathi leenkolelo kuzo zonke iintlobo zonxibelelwano ezithi zinciphise ubuntwana bethu.

Kwizikolo sifuna uqeqesho olungaphezulu nangcono lootitshala malunga noku, nangokwesicelo, Ngokufanelekileyo, urhulumente uza kubandakanyeka kwimithetho engavumeli zenzo, ntengiso okanye iinkqubo zikamabonwakude apho ucalucalulo ngokwesondo, kunye nokuqhubeka ngokwesondo kungaphezulu kokucacileyo.

Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku udliwanondlebe noAlba Alonso, isazi esisasazisayo nesingakhathaliyo; Kuya kufuneka ndibulele intsebenziswano yakho. Igalelo lakho libe luncedo kakhulu kum, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba iyakunceda ukuba uqonde ngakumbi ukuba iinkolelo ezikhohlakeleyo zibachaphazela njani oonyana neentombi zethu.

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