Ukulala kunye kuyafana neentsapho, zininzi iindlela zokulala kunye kwaye iintsapho zingafuna ukukwenza okanye hayi,… akukho nto yenzekayo. Ukwenza okanye ukungakwenzi okanye ngumbuzo lowo, okubalulekileyo kukwenza eyona nto ilungele usapho kwaye oko kuphumla yeyona ilungileyo kuye wonke umntu, kunye ne-bond echaphazelekayo.
Kodwa ngoku kufuneka siphile imeko ebalaseleyo. Apho abantu abadala bayoyika kwaye bexhalabile, kwaye bengaqondanga, banokudlulisela olo loyiko ebantwaneni babo. Uloyiko olungalawulekiyo kodwa ekufuneka uzamile ukucinga ngalo kwaye uxanduva kwezentlalo ukuze ukwazi ukuphuma kule ngokukhawuleza.
Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bazive bekhuselekile kwaye bekhuselekile ngalo lonke ixesha, kuba ngale ndlela baya kuba nakho ukoyisa ngcono yonke into eyenzekayo. Ukuba abantwana bakho bafuna ukulala ubusuku obunye, okanye ezimbini okanye nangaphezulu kule meko ikhethekileyo, Kutheni uzokuphika?
Ukuba bayakubuza, kungenxa yokuba bafuna ukuba ubangenise, bafuna ukuba ubaxelele ukuba yonke into izakulunga, bafuna wena ukuba ubange, bafuna ukwazi ukuba uya kuba ecaleni kwabo, kungekudala baya kubona ootatomkhulu noomakhulu babo kunye nabahlobo babo besikolo. Kuba kula maxesha obunzima, umanyano losapho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ikhona.
Abantwana bakho bayakudinga kwaye ukuba bafuna ukulala ecaleni kwakho kule mihla, kutheni uzokuphika? Kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga, amanyathelo angaqhelekanga, akunjalo? Lonwabele abantwana bakho, kuba xa bekhulile abasayi kuphinda bafune ukulala ecaleni kwakho ... Kodwa ngoku, bayakudinga. Nika lonke uthando lwakho!