Umntwana wakho uyatya kwaye ngokukhawuleza ulahla yonke into ebeyityile. Kule meko unokuzibuza ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke ukondla, okanye ukuba ngokuchaseneyo, kufuneka uyeke de kube kukutya okulandelayo. Kufuneka ulinde ixesha elingakanani ukondla umntwana wakho emva kokugabha? Ngumbuzo omhle mhlawumbi bonke oomama nootata baye bazibuza ngexesha elithile.
Ukutshica phantse kuyindlela yokudlula kwiintsana, nakubazali ngokunjalo. Ukugabha komntwana kuqhelekile kwaye kunokwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Uninzi lwaba nobangela abakho nzulu. Ngoko impendulo elula kulo mbuzo iya kuba yeyokuba ewe, usenokuqhubeka ukondla usana lwakho emva kokuba lugabhile. Kodwa masiyibone nzulu le mpendulo.
Unobangela wokugabha komntwana nokutshica
Ukugabha nokutshica komntwana zizinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo, ngoko ke kunokuba nezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ukutshica kuxhaphakile kwiintsana ezingaphantsi konyaka ubudala. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka emva kokutya. ukubuyisela kwakhona kudla ngokuphuma lula ubisi namathe athontsizayo emlonyeni wosana. Ihlala ibonakala kunye ne-burp. Ukutshica kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwiintsana ezisempilweni. Ukuphindaphinda kwe-reflux yomntwana kunokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke ukuba umntwana wakho unesisu esigcweleyo, ngoko qaphela ukuba ungamtyisi umntwana wakho. Ukutshica kudla ngokuyeka xa usana lungaphezu konyaka ubudala.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukugabha kudla ngokuba kukukhupha ubisi ngamandla, okanye nantoni na oyityileyo. Kwenzeka xa ingqondo ixelela izihlunu zesisu ukuba zicudise. Ixhaphakile kwiintsana ezisempilweni, kodwa isenokuba luphawu lokuba bosulelwe yintsholongwane okanye baziva bengaphilanga ngandlel’ ithile. Ukugabha, kunye nokuphinda uhlaziye, sisenzo se-reflex esinokuthi siqhutywe ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ezi zizathu zinokulandelayo:
- Ukucaphuka okubangelwa yintsholongwane okanye usulelo lwebhaktiriya, njengesisu sesisu.
- Umkhuhlane.
- Iintlungu ezibangelwa ngumkhuhlane, usulelo lwendlebe, okanye isitofu sokugonya.
- Ukuvaleka kwisisu okanye emathunjini.
- Imichiza esegazini, njengamayeza.
- Allergens, kuquka ipollen. Oku kunqabile kakhulu kwiintsana ezingaphantsi konyaka ubudala.
- Ukugula okuhambayo, okufana nokukhwela imoto okanye ukujikeleza kakhulu.
- Ukuba nomsindo okanye uxinzelelo.
- Ivumba elinamandla.
- Ukunganyamezeli ubisi.
Ulutyise nini usana lwakho emva kokugabha
Ukugabha kakhulu kunokubangela ukuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni kunye nokuncipha kobunzima kwezona meko zinzima kakhulu. Ukutyisa ubisi kunokunceda ukuthintela zombini ezi ziphumo. Ukuthintela ukuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni kunye nokuncipha komzimba, unokumnika into eselwayo xa egqibile ukugabha. Ukuba umntwana wakho ulambile kwaye ucela ibhotile okanye ibele emva kokugabha, qhubeka kwaye uqhubeke ukondla.
Ukutyisa ulwelo emva kokugabha ngamanye amaxesha kunokunceda ukuthomalalisa isicaphucaphu somntwana wakho. Qala ngokumnika imali encinci kwaye ulinde ukujonga ukuba uyagabha kwakhona. Umntwana wakho unokugabha kwakhona, kodwa kungcono ukuzama kunokuba ungakwenzi. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubuncinane uneenyanga ezi-6 ubudala kwaye akafuni ukutya emva kokugabha, mnike amanzi ngebhotile. Oku kunokunceda ukuthintela ukuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni. Emva kokuba ukhe wasela amanzi, ungazama ukumtyisa kwakhona.
Xa ungamondli umntwana wakho emva kokugabha
Kwezinye iimeko, kungcono ukungondla umntwana ngokukhawuleza emva kokuhlanza. Ukuba usana lwakho luyagabha ngenxa yendlebe ebuhlungu okanye ifiva, kusenokuba kuhle ukuba ulunike iyeza kuqala. Uninzi lwabagqirha babantwana bacebisa iintlungu zeentsana, ngoko buza kugqirha wosana lwakho ukuba leliphi iyeza elilungileyo kwezi meko, kunye nethamo ekufuneka ulithathe. Ukuba emva kokubona ugqirha wabantwana unika usana lwakho iyeza lentlungu, kucetyiswa ukuba ulinde phakathi kwemizuzu engama-30 kunye nengama-60 ukuze umtyise. Ukumondla kwangethuba kakhulu kunokubangela ukuba aphinde agabhe kwaye amayeza asenokungasebenzi kakuhle.
isigulo sokuhamba Ayiqhelekanga kwiintsana ezingaphantsi kweminyaka emi-2 ubudala, kodwa ezinye iintsana zinokuba novelwano ngakumbi kwezi meko. Ukuba usana lwakho luyagabha kuhambo, kungcono ungaluniki into yokutya emva koko.. Ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntwana wakho alale ngexesha lohambo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ungamvusi kwaye umtyise xa uphumile emotweni ngexesha lokumisa okanye sele ukwindawo oya kuyo.