Njengoluntu, kubalulekile ukuba sicace ukubaluleka kokufundisa abantwana kwiindlela zokuziphatha. Ngelishwa, ziya zisanda iimeko zokungcungcuthekiswa ezikolweni kwaye oku -ukongeza ekukhathazekeni kakhulu- kukwabonisa ukuba kukho into engaphumeleliyo malunga nemfundo kwimilinganiselo.
Imfundo kwimilinganiselo ngumsebenzi wokuqala wosapho kwaye kamva iyaqhubeka esikolweni. Nangona kunjalo, kusekuninzi ekufuneka sikuhambile kulo mba, kungoko kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana iinqobo ezisemgangathweni. Ngoko ke, kweli nqaku sinikezela a isikhokelo sokuqhelaniswa koomama nootata ababonisa ezona nqobo ziphambili zokufundisa abantwana babo.
Yintoni ixabiso
Ngaphambi kokuba singene kulo mbandela, into yokuqala ekufuneka sicace ngayo kukuba athini amaxabiso.
Igama elithi "ixabiso" livela kwisiLatini “igorha-valoris”. Ngumlinganiselo weenqobo ezisesikweni nowokuziphatha umntu anayo xa esenza izinto. Inxulunyaniswa nemfundo esasiyifumene kwasebuntwaneni yaye isinceda sikwazi ukwahlula okulungileyo nokubi.
Ngoko ke amaxabiso anjalo imithetho yokuziphatha kunye nezimo zengqondo esiyalela indlela ethile yokwenza, egqalwa njengelungileyo size siphinde phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko. Ngoko ke, amaxabiso sivunyelwe hlala nabanye abantu ngokufanelekileyo unika inzuzo eluntwini njengeqela.
Ngokunjalo, amaxabiso anokufakwa ngokufunda-njengoko kunjalo kwesi sithuba- kodwa anokufunyanwa kumanqanaba aphambili obomi.
Ukubaluleka kokufundisa abantwana kwiindlela zokuziphatha
Ukufundisa abantwana ixabiso kubalulekile kuba nje iya kubenza abantu abangcono kwaye baqhelane ngakumbi noluntu.
Ukufundisa ngexabiso kuku fundisa ngokuziphatha kuba imilinganiselo ifundisa umntwana ukwahlula okulungileyo kokubi nokuziphatha ngendlela. Injongo yalo kukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ufumana iindlela ezintsha zokuqonda ubomi ngendlela emvumela ukuba azakhele imbali yakhe yobuqu kunye neyeqela.
Abantwana xa bezalwa abalunganga kwaye ababi. Yimfundo abaya kuyifumana eya kuthi kamva imisele indlela abaziphatha ngayo. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba abantwana funda ngomzekelo, kungoko indima engundoqo edlalwa ngabazali nabanonopheli kwimfundo yabo.
Kwenzeka ntoni xa sisilela koku? phakathi kwezinye izinto ezininzi, ingxaki ephambili kakhulu ekhankanywe ekuqaleni kwesi sithuba: i ukuxhatshazwa. Kwaye siqhubeka ngakumbi, i ukuxhalabisa. Phakathi kokuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni nasemzimbeni esikolweni nasemsebenzini, ekuphela komgca obahlulayo liqela lobudala kwaye, ngenxa yoko, okusingqongileyo (kwezemfundo okanye emsebenzini). Abo bantwana bangenambeko nabaxhaphazayo esikolweni baya kukwenza oko kwiindawo zokusebenza kwixesha elizayo. Ngoko sikhumbuza ngamandla ukubaluleka kokufundisa abantwana kwiindlela zokuziphatha.
Yiyiphi imilinganiselo yokudlulisela kubantwana
Ngokwemilinganiselo, uluhlu alunakubalwa. Kodwa apha sikubonisa ukuhlanganiswa kwezo zingafanelanga ukuba ziphoswe kwimfundo elungileyo kumaxabiso:
- U velwano: umgangatho ukuba isinceda ukuba sizibeke kwimeko yabanye, ukuqonda into ojongene nayo kunye neemvakalelo ezivela ngenxa yamava akho.
- Umbulelo: "Kuzalwe kakuhle, ukuba nombulelo." I umbulelo luphawu lwemfundo kunye nempilo. Bulelani ngabo bonke ubutyebi esibunikwa bubomi nakwabanye ngemisebenzi yabo emihle.
- Uxanduva: ukuba noxanduva phendula ngokufanelekileyo koko kusikhathazayo ngexesha elithile. Uxanduva lomntu ngamnye kwaye luhlangene, kwaye luhlala luqala kuye.
- Umonde: es ukwazi ukulinda Uluntu lwetekhnoloji lusenze safuna yonke into apha kwaye ngoku. Le yindlela okuzalwa ngayo ukunyamezela okuphantsi kokuphoxeka kwaye oku kufuneka kuphetshwe.
- Ukulunga: yiyo umnqweno wokwenza okulungileyo Nceda, yiba nobubele kwaye ube nolwazelelelo.
- Uthando: Ngomnye weyona mikhosi inamandla esinayo, iyasikhuthaza ukuba sikhathalele oko kunye nabo sivakalelwa kukuba a uthando lokwenene.
- Ukunyaniseka: kuthetha ukuphila kwaye nxulumana nabanye ngokuphandlekungekho njongo zifihlakeleyo. Ukunyaniseka kuqala kwisiqu sakho.
- Uxolelo: ukuxolela akulibali, kukuqonda ukuba omnye wenza kangangoko wayenako nokuba uye wasiphatha ngokungekho sikweni. Kufuna uvelwano nenkalipho ukoyisa umsindo nentlungu ngokuyeka nasiphi na isenzo sokuziphindezela. Sisenzo esikhululayo kuba siyasikhulula kwingqumbo.
- Thobeka: Ukuthobeka kukuqonda ukuba akukho mntu wazi yonke into nokuba njengabantu sihamba ngokweyethu imida nobuthathaka. Yinto echasene ne-narcissism.
- Ubumbano: usihambisa siye nceda nabani na osweleyo kwaye ivumela ukuba sakhe ihlabathi elingcono.