Ukubetha abantwana AKUKHO ndlela ilungileyo: ungamameli umntu okuxelela ngenye indlela

umntwana olilayo

Kungenzeka ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ebomini bakho umntu akuxelele ukuba ukubetha abantwana yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokukwazi ukubafundisa ngendlela elungileyo, ukuze bakunake, ukuze bakuhloniphe ... Xa udibana nabanye abantu abadala abangabazali kwaye kukho ukuthembana, banokukucebisa ukuba eyona nto onokuyenza "ukulawula" abantwana bakho kukuba bohlwaye, ubasongele kwaye ubabethe (nokuba "yinto encinci").

Ukuba ungomnye wabo bantu bakhusela uqeqesho olululo ngaphandle kobundlobongela nangentlonipho, unokuziva ungonwabanga ngezi zimvo, ke ngoko kuyafuneka ukuba ufunde ukuphendula kwezi ntlobo zezimvo ngokuzithemba nangaphandle kwengxabano.

Into yokuqala ekufuneka ubaxelele yona kukuba ubundlobongela budala ubundlobongela kwaye ukuba bayababetha, abantwana abazukubona nto iphosakeleyo ngokubetha abazali babo. Ukuba abazali bayabahlaza ngale ndlela, okanye bangawuhloniphi umzimba wabo kunye nesidima sabo ngokubabetha, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo iqhina elibamanyayo liyakonakala. Abantwana xa befumana olu hlobo "lwesohlwayo" ngokwasemzimbeni, bayakuphela bexoka kubazali babo xa kusenzeka izinto kuba bazokoyika ukubethwa, bazokoyika abazali babo. Kwaye, uloyiko alufani nentlonipho.

Aba bantwana baya kuqala ukubetha abanye abantwana kuba yile nto bayifundileyo ekhaya. Nanini na xa benomsindo okanye bekhathazekile, kanye njengokuba abazali babo besenza kubo, baya kwenza nabanye. Kulula ukuyiqonda, umntwana akangxoli ukuba akafumani zikhalo, umntwana ufunda ukuthobeka xa efundiswa ngokuthobeka, umntwana ufunda ukuhlonipha xa ehlonitshwa kuqala ... Ke ukuba bathetha izinto ezinje kuwe kwakhona, phendula into eqinisekisayo enje: “Enkosi kakhulu ngengcebiso yakho. Imfundo endiyifaka ebantwaneni bam isekelwe kwintlonipho ukuze nabo bandihlonele ”.


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