Ngenye imini unyana wakho uza nombono wokugqobhoza okanye wokwenza itattoo, ezama ukukuqinisekisa ukuba yifashoni kwaye kufuneka azive ahlukile kwabanye. Ukungangqinelani kweencasa kunye nezimvo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kukhokelela ekubeni singasoloko sivumelana nolu hlobo lwefashoni, kuba lusenza sithandabuze ukuhlala ixesha elide kolu luvo.
Ukusetyenziswa kokugqobhoza kunye neetatos kulutsha Ngumbono kwisithuba sexesha lotshintsho, kubo luvelisa umdla omkhulu kwaye kuthi le nkcazelo iguqulela kuyo Ikhonkrithi kunye neengcinga ezigabadeleyo kubo, apho bengekabinazo izimvo ezicacileyo.
Indlela abazali abafanele benze ngayo
Kufuneka ucinge ngaphambi kokuba uphendule. Impendulo ekhawulezileyo inokuba neziphumo ukuba siyazivumela ukuba sithwalwe ziimpembelelo zethu. Ukuthi "hayi" kwangoko kusenza ukuba sicinge ukuba sisenzo semvukelo kwaye mhlawumbi uninzi lwabakwishumi elivisayo bajongene nolu hlobo lokuphendula bagqibela ngokwenza ngaphandle kwemvume yabazali.
Siyazi ukuba yinto eza kuhlala ihleli ezimileyo kwaye ziya kuhlala ixesha elide, ukugqobhoza ingashiya amanxeba ukuba banako nokuba zingabi nakuguqulwa. Ngenxa yako konke oku, eyona nto sinokuyenza kukuhlala phantsi sithethe nonyana wethu, simbuze ukuba kutheni efuna ukwenza umvambo okanye ukubhoboza, yenza ukuba ucinge ukuba kude kangakanani ubukhulu wento ofuna ukuyenza kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke bonisa umdla wokuba kutheni unomdla kuwe.
Ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo unamathela kolu luvo, amathuba okuba lixesha elininzi kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi uyakuhamba nayo. Kule meko Kuya kufuneka sifunde zonke iziphumo ezinokubakho.
Ukuba siyavuma umbono wakho
Kuya kufuneka uchaze yonke ingozi enokuthi ibandakanye, Kuya kufuneka umazise ukuba yinto esisigxina kwaye oku kunako ukwenzakala njengendlela yobungcali yekamva lakho. Yenza loo nto Cinga ukuba linganjani ikamva lakho ngayo emzimbeni wakho.
Cwangcisa ubungakanani, imilo kunye nendawo oza kuyibeka kuyo. Mxelele ukuba oku kuya kuthetha iintlungu kunye nokungonwabi okwethutyana, ukuba uyamvumela athathe iinyanga ezimbalwa zokucingisisa angakwazi kuthathelwa ingqalelo ngcono isigqibo. Okokuqala, mbulele ngokuthemba akubeke kuwe ngokummamela.
Kwezi ntlobo zezigqibo ezibalulekileyo kungcono ungabhatali iindleko zawo, kungcono uyenze ngemali yakho, ke ubuncinci uya kucinga kabini.
Ungasithatha njani isigqibo esifanelekileyo kwaye uye phi
Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokumxhasa kwisigqibo sakhe, kuya kufuneka umncedise khangela indawo epheleleyo. Qinisekisa ukuba kunjalo indawo esemthethweni nezempilo kwaye apho kungakhange kubekho matyala alo naluphi na uhlobo lwesifo. Usulelo onokuvezwa seso hepatitis B no-C, isifo sephepha, isifo sokuqina kwemihlathi okanye i-HIV.
Kule ndawo kufuneka bathathe onke amanyathelo ezempilo, Kufuneka ibe yindawo ecocekileyo, enocwangco kwaye eqaqambileyo apho ingcali iya kusebenzisa khona iiglavu ezilahlwayo kunye nezixhobo ezisetyenziselwa ukubhoboza kunye neetattoos zintsholongwane kwaye zitywinwe kakuhle. Ukutywinwa kufuneka kwenziwe phambi komthengi, iinaliti kufuneka zibe inzalo kwaye ilahlwe nee-inki ezishiyekileyo komnye umthengi akufuneki zisetyenziswe kwakhona.
Imingcipheko enokwenzeka ukuba yakha yenzeka
Ngenxa yoko baya kuthi ube yinxalenye yomkhondo ophawulweyo awuyi kubuya umva. Kanye njengokuba inokuba yinto edlulayo, kufuneka ikhunjulwe ukuba basisigxina kwaye banokufuna ngenye imini ukuzisusa.
Kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ngaphambi kokwenza ukuba banako ukuvelisa i-allergies ngenxa yezinto kunye nezo zizakwenziwa, usulelo olosasazwa ngexesha lokuzenza okanye usulelo olulandelayo ngenxa yokungabi nococeko olwaneleyo. Elinye ityala linokubakho umothuko ubangelwe njengoko inokuthi ikhubaze izicwili, yenzakalise imithambo-luvo, intlala okanye umthambo, kuxhomekeke kwindawo apho yenziwa khona.
Kubalulekile ukuba wakuba uwenzile umsebenzi owenzileyo ubuziwe ukuba enze njani yenza inkqubo yezempilo kunye nokuphilisa.