Ukudikwa kwabantwana: ukudikwa akukubi

isithukuthezi ebantwaneni

Ngexesha lobuchwephesha obutsha, ukoyisa okungaphezulu, ulwazi ngalo mzuzu ... kubonakala ngathi ukukruquka akuvumelekanga. Kodwa inyani kukuba isithukuthezi siluncedo ebantwaneni nangona isenokubonakala ingenguye. Masibone kuba yena ukudikwa ebantwaneni kulungile Kwincinci encinci yendlu.

Mama kaTata. Ndiyadikwa, ndingenza ntoni?

Ngokuqinisekileyo eli binzana liya kuvakala njengelikhulu kuwe, ubukhulu becala ehlotyeni kuxa abantwana benethuba elikhululekileyo namaxesha okuba nesithukuthezi. Ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo baneeklasi ezininzi, imisebenzi yangaphandle kunye nomsebenzi wesikolo abanaxesha lincinci lokuba badikwe.

Abanye abazali baziva benetyala xa abantwana babo bebaxelela oku, ngokungathi kufuneka bagcwalise iiyure zabantwana babo ngemisebenzi eliwaka ukuze bangazibonakalisi ekukruquleni. Kodwa inyani kukuba ayisiyomfuneko ukuba uzive ungalunganga, kodwa Ukukruquka kuza kuba luncedo ebantwaneni. Ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni? Qhubeka ufunda.

Ukudikwa kwabantwana

Akukho mntwana ungenakuxhamla ekukruqukeni. Ngemihla yam xa obu buchwephesha butsha bahlasela yonke into bebungekho, kwafuneka wenze iwaka kunye nendlela enye yokonwabisa wena wedwa kunye nabahlobo bakho. Isithukuthezi siphucule ubuchule bethu bokucinga, ukucinga, ukunxibelelana neziqu zethu, ukukwazi ukusombulula, ukunyamezelana kunye nokuba bhetyebhetye. Uyalukhumbula olo hambo lweemoto zanaphakade apho besikhangela khona iindlela eziliwaka zokuzonwabisa? Khange siphelelwe ngumonde okanye sixhalabile, siye saziqhelanisa ngcono noko bekukho kwaye siwukhangele umdlalo ngayo nantoni na. Njengoko ubona isithukuthezi sinezibonelelo ezininzi kunamalungu amabi.

Ukongeza, ingqondo yakho ifuna ukuphumla kukhuthazo lwangaphandle, kwaye uqalise ukusebenzela ukukhula kwayo okufanelekileyo. Ngokucacileyo, ubuchwepheshe obutsha bunezinto ezintle kodwa asinakubavumela bazalise iiyure zabantwana bethu ukuze bangadikwa. Ukugxininisa kuneziphumo ezibi ekufundeni kwabo. Abanye abantwana baba noxinzelelo njengoko befuna ngakumbi nangakumbi inkuthazo yokuvelisa ulwaneliseko olufanayo.

isithukuthezi abantwana

Abantwana bafuna ukukruquka

Indlela esibone ngayo ukuba isithukuthezi ayilunganga kuphela ebantwaneni kodwa kufuneka badikwe amaxesha ngamaxesha. Ukubanceda basasaze amaphiko obuchule babo, nazi ezinye iingcebiso:

  • Ukuphonononga izinto onazo ezandleni zakho. Nantoni na enokubangela ukonyusa imeko iya kuthatha ingqalelo yomntwana wakho kwaye kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kubo ukuba bafumane ezinye iindlela zokuzonwabisa ngokwasempilweni. Sebenzisa usetyenziso kunye nezixhobo ezifuna kwaye zikonwabise ngaphandle kokwenza nantoni na kuya kwenza ukuba kube nzima kuwe ukuba uzenzele wedwa. Ukuze ube nakho ukuyila ngakumbi, bona ukuba unezinto ezandleni zakho ezikuvumela ukuba usebenzise ukucinga kwakho (Imidlalo yokudibanisa iziqwenga, ukwahlula ngokwamaqela, ukwahlula, ukudala, ...)
  • Chitha ixesha ngaphandle. Sele sithethile kwizihlandlo ezininzi malunga nemimangaliso yokudlala ngaphandle kwabantwana, njengakwi Oku kubhaliwe. Kulapho badibana khona nendalo, bafumana ilizwe elibangqongileyo, baphanda ... kunzima kakhulu ukuba udikwe kwindawo enentabalala kwaye igcwele izinto ezinomdla zokufunda.

Ukukruquka akulunganga

Kuyenzeka nakubantu abadala, siqhele ukusetyenziswa ukunciphisa ixesha lethu lokulinda ngeselula, i-youtuve, ipodcast, imidlalo ... ukuba sishiya ixesha elincinci lokukruquka kwaye sigxile kuthi. Siyafana ukonwabisa ingqondo ukuba ungayiphulaphuli kwaye ujongane nenyani okanye iingxaki zethu.

Kwenzeka into efanayo nakubantwana. Bafumanisa kunzima ngalo lonke ixesha ukunxibelelana nabo, ngeemvakalelo kunye neengcinga zabo kuba ingxolo yangaphandle inkulu kakhulu. Ukuthula ngaphandle, Ukungabinayo into yokuqhushumisa rhoqo inkuthazo kusivumela ukuba siziqwalasele, siye kwiingxaki, sifune izisombululo, senze izinto, sonwabe kwaye sifune izizathu zangaphakathi. Kuya kufuneka silinganise phakathi kwezibophelelo kunye nexesha lokukhulula kubantwana bethu.

Kuba khumbula ... ukukruquka akukubi, into embi kukungabinalo ixesha lokudikwa.



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