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Enye yezona nkumbulo zibuhlungu emntwaneni kukukhumbula umfanekiso wabazali bakhe besilwa okanye bephikisana phambi kwabo. Kuba ukongeza kwimemori ebuhlungu, kuyabazinzisa ngokweemvakalelo. Xa kufuneka nixabane njengabantu abatshatileyo kufuneka niyenze bucala kwaye ukuba isibini asivani Ngenxa yabantwana, esona sigqibo sihle kukuhlala ngolonwabo, kodwa elowo ekhaya.
Abazali bakhona ukukhusela abantwana babo kwaye xa kukho ukungxola okanye ubundlongondlongo abantwana bazinzile, ungabathemba njani abantu ababini abaphathana kakubi? Uziva ungenamandla kwaye uyoyika kakhulu. Iingxabano kubantwana zishiya isilonda esinzulu ebantwaneni ... kwaye Oku kuya kubenza bangakwazi ukulawula okanye ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo.
Ixesha elininzi abantwana abalichitha bevezwa kolu hlaselo, kokukhona kuya kubakho ubunzima ekulawuleni ezabo iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ezinje ngosizi, ukulahlwa okanye uloyiko ... ngokufanayo njengoko beza kuva ubunzima njengabantu abadala ukuba bayaqhubeka nokuvezwa kolu hlobo lwendalo.
Kuyinyani ukuba ukuphikisana kuyinto eqhelekileyo kubazali, kodwa kunyanzelekile ukuba uyazi ukuba uzilawula njani kwaye uyenze ngasese. Kuya kufuneka uzibeke endaweni ka abantwana kuba bengaziqondi izizathu kwaye bacinga ukuba banetyala okanye boyika okuza kwenzeka emva koko.
Ukubafundisa ukulawula ukungqubana yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubazali kwaye, ukuba kukho nakuphi na ukungavisisani, kufuneka baqinisekiswe. Unxibelelwano sesona sixhobo sibalulekileyo sinaso nangaphezulu, xa kuziwa ebantwaneni. Ukuba abantwana bakho babona ukungavisisani, cela uxolo ngento ekufuneka beyiphile kwaye ungazami ukuphinda yenzeke. Ukuba iingxabano ziqhelekile ekhaya, ukufuna uncedo lobuchwephesha kukukhetha.