Kwizihlandlo ezininzi ekhaya unokuva abantwana bakho bethetha amazwi anenzondo anokubenzakalisa abanye abantu. Amazwi enzondo anokwenzakalisa ngakumbi kunokwenzakalisa emzimbeni. Ungaze uvumele abantwana bakho baziqhelise ukuthukana okanye ukuqhuqana ngamazwi, kuba amazwi anenzondo anokwenza inxeba elinzulu leemvakalelo ekunzima ukuphola.
Kufanele ukuba kube ngumthetho ekhaya ukuba awudingi silumkiso ukuba usilandele, kodwa kwimeko apho abantwana bakho basebenzise amagama anenzondo, lixesha lokuba uyenze icace into yokuba ekhayeni lakho akukho kunyamezelana kwamagama anenzondo. Ukuba umzali uva ulwimi olunenzondo okanye olonakalisa olunye usapho, kuya kubakho isiphumo esikhawulezileyo. Bayakhawuleza bafunde ukuba amagama amabi awanyamezelwa ekhaya.
Kuyimfuneko ukuqala ukuthathela ingqalelo oku ekubeni bengabantwana abancinci kakhulu kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ngumzekelo olungileyo njengabazali, ube nengxoxo ehloniphekileyo kwabanye. Kuyimfuneko ukuba baqale besebancinci kuba njengoko abantwana bekhula kunokuba nzima ngakumbi ukwenza njalo kuba bakrelekrele ngakumbi, banobuqili kwaye banamagama amabi ngaphakathi ... nangona kungenakwenzeka.
Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuthetha omnye komnye ngamagama akhuthazayo kwaye amnandi. Ukuba banomkhwa wokuthetha izinto ezingafanelekanga, bavuse. Yenza ixesha lesidlo njengethuba lokuba wonke umntu eze ngakwitafile kwaye ancome umntu ongasekhohlo emva koko umntu ongasekunene. Kuyanceda ukudala iintliziyo neengqondo ezinobubele xa amagama athethwayo ethetha ngokuvakalayo komnye nomnye.
Ukuba awufuni ukuba kuthethwe, ungayenza ngebhokisi yamagama amnandi apho wonke umntu aza kubhala izinto ezintle ngabanye. Ungayenza kube kanye ngeveki ukuze ingabi ngumsebenzi oomatshini ngakumbi nangaphandle kwentliziyo. Iya kuyidala isiphumo sentliziyo yakho ukuva amagama aqinisekileyo avela kubantakwenu.