Unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo lubalulekile kuqeqesho olufanelekileyo kuba abantu bayinxalenye yeqela kwaye sithanda ukuziva ngaphakathi kwalo. Abantwana, njengabantu abadala, nabo bafuna ukuziva benxibelelene kwaye banxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo nabantu ababangqongileyo. ngaphezu kwako konke, kwaye okona kubaluleke ngakumbi, enabazali bakhe.
Ukunxibelelana nabantwana akukho lula kodwa kuyafuneka. Ukunxibelelana nabantwana bakho kuthetha ukuyenza ngothando olusulungekileyo nentlonipho ekhoyo kwaye nangona kukho ungquzulwano, imfihlelo kukukwazi ukuzola uzolile. Uxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla lunokuba nzima, ukudinwa ... kodwa Imvakalelo yokuphila ngoku inokukunceda kule nto.
Sonke sinemihla emibi, kodwa ezo ntsuku zibi zezona zibalulekileyo ekufumaneni unxibelelwano oluhle. Ukwazi ezakho iimvakalelo nokwazi ukuzilawula kubalulekile, umzekelo, xa abantwana bakho benomsindo esitratweni okanye Uziva ngathi usuku alupheli ngenxa yokudinwa ophetheyo.
Ukujongana nezi meko zinzima ngakumbi, kuxa abantwana bafuna kakhulu ukuba ubabonise uthando lwakho ngeyona ndlela inyanisekileyo kwaye unxibelelane bobabini kunye neemvakalelo zabo. Ukufezekisa oku, kuya kufuneka kuqala unxibelelane nawe, wenze umthambo wokuphumla. Xa ufuna ukunxibelelana nabantwana bakho, gobela phantsi ujonge emehlweni abo…. Kungenxa yokuba olo jongeko yeyona nto imsulwa onokuyazi.
Qinisekisa iimvakalelo zakho, kodwa nezakhe. Menze akubone ngamazwi kunye nezenzo zakho ukuba uyayiqonda indlela avakalelwa ngayo kwaye uyazi ukuba uhlangabezana nexesha elibi. Bonisa uvelwano kunye nokuzithemba kwaye uyakumangaliswa yindlela yokuziphatha kwabo okunokuphucula ngayo ngaphandle kwexesha. Xa ndithetha nawe, mphulaphule ngenene kuba ukumamela ngenkuthalo kuyafuneka ukuze akhule kakuhle.
Khumbula ukuba unxibelelwano olululo lweemvakalelo luza kuzisa izibonelelo kuphela kuba niya kuhlalisana kakuhle, akusayi kubakho mizabalazo yamandla kwaye konke kungcono ... uya kuba nolwalamano olusekwe kwintlonipho nothando ngendlela eya kumacala amabini. Ithemba, unxibelelwano kunye nokunyaniseka zezona ntsika zisisiseko ukuze usapho lusebenze.