El umxholo ye machiza Ukugxila kuyo umntwana, yinto tata, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bayazi, kuba akufuneki silinde de babe kwinqanaba lokufikisa ukuze baqhele le nto isifundo esibuthathaka. Xa umntwana efuna ukwazi ngaso nasiphi na isihloko, ukuba abadala abasecaleni kwakhe abamniki ukuzithemba okuyimfuneko, uya kukhangela iimpendulo kwenye indawo, apho banokuthi banike impendulo engeyiyo okanye bangachazwa kakuhle njengabazali ingayenza. Kungcono ukuba wazise umntwana ngale micimbi ngokukhawuleza, kwanakunyaka wesikolo sabantwana abasaqalayo (iminyaka emi-3 ukuya kweli-6). Awunyanzelekanga ukuba uthethe intetho ekruqulayo ongayi kukwazi ukuyiqonda, kodwa ulungiselela indlela yolunye ulwazi oluphambili oya kuthi uyazi kamva, okokuqala, kufuneka ubeke iziseko zokuzithemba kwakho.
Ithuba linokuba xa egula kwaye bamisele amayeza athile. Oku kunokuba yimeko efanelekileyo kuyo, umzekelo olungileyo wokubonisa ukuba amayeza angabangela ntoni kumlinganiselo olungileyo okanye kubungakanani obugqithisileyo.
Indlela elungileyo yokubafundisa ngemicimbi yezempilo kukuba bahambe nathi ukuya kutyelela isigulana esaziwayo, iinkonzo zasekuhlaleni ... ngale ndlela, umntwana uya kuzibonela ubunyani kwaye azenzele izigqibo.
Abantwana bajonge kakhulu kwaye ngeeposta, banokufundiswa, umzekelo, abo bephulo lokulwa necuba. Lo ngumgaqo wokuthetha ngeziyobisi.