Mhlawumbi umxholo weli nqaku unokukothusa, kwaye ungazi ukuba yintoni la Ukwahluka ngokwesondo Sele idlalwe kumaziko amaninzi emfundo ngaphakathi koqeqesho. Ngokubanzi, izihloko ezigutyungelweyo zezokwabelana ngesondo, ezinxulumene ngokuthe ngqo nokunganyamezelani ngokwesini, ukuthanda ngokwesondo, isazisi kunye ne-LGTBI
Iminyaka ekuhlala kuxoxwa ngayo ngezi zihloko eklasini ukusuka kwibanga lesi-5 ukuya kwisikolo esiphakamileyo, nangona ootitshala benomdla okanye kufanelekile ukuba banikwe uvakalelo kubantwana.
Ukwahluka ngokwesondo kubafana nakumantombazana
Mhlawumbi unyana wakho eneminyaka emine sele ekuxelele ukuba uyayithanda inkwenkwe, okanye intombi yakho uyayithanda intombi. Asifuni ukungena kwimpikiswano malunga nokuba uza kuzalwa okanye uza kuba ulifanasini, kodwa sifuna umbuzo uphakanyiswe kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuya kufuneka ujongane nawo. Amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana aselula abanayo indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo, kodwa banayo Ukuchaza izinto ozikhethayo.
Iingcali zengqondo zingqina ukuba ekuqaleni, xa abo bantwana beqaphela ukuba bakhetha okwahlukileyo kuninzi, kunjalo Wukhanye lo mahluko. Abanye kwaye abanye bayithatha njengemeko yexeshana (kwaye kunokuba njalo). Inyathelo elilandelayo ngu umbhobho kunye nokuphikisana nawe malunga nokwamkela. Lo ngumzuzu obalulekileyo apho usapho kunye nokwala okanye ukwamkela isimilo kubalulekile.
Ukuba amakhwenkwe namantombazana afundiswa ukuhlonipha nokwamkela iyantlukwano ngokwesondo, kwaye ukuba abazali bayayiqonda kwaye bayayazi le nyaniso, uluntu luya kwabelana kwaye lwamkele ngcono, kwaye ngentlonipho engakumbi, abo bantu banolwazelelelo ngesondo ngaphandle kwesini esahlukileyo. Ubungqingili yindlela yokuphila, kodwa malunga ne-3 ukuya kwi-5% yabemi behlabathi batsaleleka kubantu besini esifanayo okanye kuzo zombini izini.
Ukuziphatha ngokwesini komntwana, kukho kwaye kuya kufuneka uthethe ngako
Kukho abantwana abathi, besebancinci kakhulu, babonakalise ukungavumelani ngesondo abakubo ngokwebhayoloji, kunye nokuzazi kwakho ngokwesini. Yinkqubo ebalulekileyo apho inkwenkwe okanye intombazana ifuna umzimba ngokungqinelana nesazisi sayo. Ufuna ukwamkelwa njengomntu wesini oziva ungowakhe. Ngokutsho kweengcali, imiqondiso ihlala ivela phakathi Uneminyaka eli-2 nama-3 ubudala. Kukuloo minyaka ke apho amakhwenkwe namantombazana aqala khona ukukhulisa ubuni bawo.
Olunye lweempawu ezenzeka rhoqo zezi ukwala uhlobo apho uphathwa khona. Bavakalisa ukungavumelani kwabo ngokuchaza ngokuthe ngqo ukuba bayinkwenkwe okanye intombazana, okanye ngokwamkela igama lomntu obhinqileyo okanye eliyindoda kwimidlalo yabo. Kwiimeko ezininzi banyanzelisa ukubizwa njalo. Kukwenzeka rhoqo ukuba bafuna ukunxiba iimpahla zesini esahlukileyo.
Amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana e-Transgender aqhelekanga ukuhlala ngokwamaqela amakhulu, yiyo loo nto uzibeka wedwa ngokwakhoOkanye, unokukhululeka ngakumbi kunye nabahlobo besini ochonga.
Ngabantwana abathandanayo nabakwishumi elivisayo, akukho mgaqo olandelwayo. Kukho abo bafuna unyango lwehomoni ukuze bazive bonwabile, kodwa kukwakho nabo bangalufuniyo. Ityala ngalinye lahlukile emntwini.
Iingcebiso kwiintsapho nakwizikolo
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali kunye nabantakwabo benkwenkwe okanye intombazana ababonisa ukwahluka kwabo ngokwesondo, kwaye batsaleleke kubantu besini esifanayo, bakufumane oku ukulingana. Yiyo ke loo nto ukuba inkwenkwe okanye intombazana ayizukufumana ukwaliwa kwesona sangqa sikufutshane nesibalulekileyo Ukongeza uyakuziva yomelezwa phambi koogxa babo nootitshala.
Kulungile ukukunika iimbekiselo yabantu abanolu hlobo lokuthambekela ngokwesini, ukuze ungaziva wahluke kakhulu. Iziko lemfundo kunye nabazali banokuthembela kwinkxaso yeengcali, kodwa ayisiyongxaki yenkwenkwe okanye intombazana eguqukayo okanye intombazana, kodwa kunokuba lula ukwamkelwa kwabo kuninzi loluntu olungqingiliyo.
Kwi-intanethi nakwiilayibrari sele uzakufumana incwadana ezinceda ukujongana nalo mba unzima, ngokobudala boonyana neentombi zakho.