Kungenzeka ukuba ekhayeni lakho kukho umabonwakude kodwa awukhe ume ucinge ngendlela abantwana bakho ababukela ngayo umabonwakude. Xa abantwana bakho bephambi kwesikrini, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba bazibona njani izinto kunendlela abazibona ngayo ixesha elide. Nangona ukulawula ixesha kubalulekile ukunqanda ukuhlala uhleli kwaye oko abantwana nabo bazinikezela kwezinye izinto, ukwazi indlela ababukela ngayo umabonwakude kubalulekile.
Hlala phantsi nabantwana bakho babukele iinkqubo zabo abazithandayo kwaye ubabuze imibuzo malunga noko bakubukeleyo ukuze babandakanyeke ngakumbi. Ukongeza, baya kuba nakho ukwandisa uvelwano kunye nesigama enkosi kunxibelelwano abanalo kumajelo eendaba. Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukongeza ekubancedeni bacinge, abazali balawula kakuhle umxholo abawubonayo abantwana babo kumabonwakude, ngale ndlelae uya kuba nakho ukunqanda ukujonga umxholo ongafanelekanga kubudala kunye nokuqonda kwabantwana.
Ikwangumbono olungileyo ukuba abantwana banxibelelanise oko bakubonayo nobabo ubomi. Umzekelo, ungathetha izinto ezinje: "Ubonile? Banomsindo. Wenze ntoni ukugqibela kwakho ukuba nomsindo? " Oku kunceda abantwana bafunde ukuthetha, bahlangabezane neemvakalelo, kwaye babaqonde ngcono abanye.
Ngokufanayo, Abazali kufuneka bandise kwinto ethethwa ngabantwana. Phinda ulwazi oluvela kumboniso okanye izinto abantwana bakho abakuxelele zona, unxibelelanise iinkcukacha nobomi bakho, okanye ufake ulwazi olutsha. Zonke ezi ziindlela zokuphucula izakhono zencoko, ukufundisa abantwana malunga nehlabathi, kunye nokomeleza unxibelelwano lwabo. Yitsho izinto ezinje: “Ingxolo enkulu yayiyothusa loo nkwenkwe. Andiyithandi ingxolo enkulu. Uziva njani xa usiva ingxolo enkulu? "
Nantsi imfihlo omele uyazi: Abantwana bayathanda ukuthetha ngemithombo yeendaba, kakhulu. Thatha ithuba loku, kuba kuya kuvula zonke iintlobo zamathuba okufumanisa izinto ezinomdla kubantwana bakho, izinto ezibalulekileyo kubo kwaye kwenzeka ntoni ebomini babo. Unokumangaliswa apho incoko zikhokelela khona ...