Xa singabantwana kubonakala ngathi abazali baya kuhlala behleli ecaleni kwethu, ukuba ulusu lwabo aluyi kubuna kwaye iingqondo zabo ziya kuhlala zicacile ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngelishwa le ayisiyonyani eyenzeka kubomi babantu. Yonke into ezelwe, ikhule, indala kwaye iyafa. Kananjalo ootata noomama. Kuyinyani ekungekho mntu ufuna ukuyamkela kodwa oko kubonakala ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kodwa oku akukho lula ukuyiqonda nokuba yeyabantwana okanye yabantwana abadala.
Ukuguga kuyindalo ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa kuyabenzakalisa iintliziyo zabantu abakubonayo ngamehlo abo. Ukwaluphala kuthetha ukusondela ekufeni, kwaye ekufeni akukho namnye usindayo. Kodwa, Ungayicacisa njani le nto ebantwaneni ukuze bangayiboni iyinto embi?
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bathethe nabantwana babo ngonaphakade kwaye ngokwendalo malunga nokwaluphala kunye nokuhamba kwexesha. Ukuguga akwenzeki ngobusuku obunye, ayisiyonto yenzeka ngesiquphe, kuyinkqubela kwaye iminyaka emininzi kufuneka idlule ngaphambi kokuba ifikelele kubomi babantu.
Kuyimfuneko ukuhlonipha iimvakalelo zabantwana kwaye uqonde ukuba yonke into inomjikelo wobomi, hayi abantu bodwa. Ukuba abantu abadala bafanelwe yintlonipho kunye nalo lonke uthando nothando emhlabeni, kuba umzabalazo wabo ebomini babo bonke ufanelekile ukuba uxabiswe kwaye uvuzwe ngandlela thile. Musa ukuxoka kubantwana Kuya kufuneka ubaxelele inyani malunga nokuguga, ubaxelele inyani ngaphandle kokubakhanyela.
Cinga ngamagama owasebenzisayo ukuze abantwana bakho bazive ukuba uyakholelwa kwinto oyithethayo, ukuba ukuguga yinto yokwemvelo ekungekho mfuneko yokuba woyike. Kwaye, umama uya kuguga naye.