Umama okhulelweyo: ukhathalela umntwana ngelixa ulinde omnye

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Ngaba sele mama kwaye ukhulelwe? Eyona nto ikhuselekileyo kukuba ucinga ukuba ngekhe ukwazi ukuyenza, nokuba woyika "ukuyeka ukuthanda" omnye umntwana wakho. Akukho nto iqhubekayo kwinyani. Ngoku unezinye amava, kwaye unokucwangcisa ezinye izinto kwangaphambili.

Umbuzo wokuqala onokuthi uvele ngowokuba umntwana wakho uza kukuthatha kanjani ukufika komntakwenu okanye udade, kufuneka ubaxelele nini, ukuba uzilungiselela njani emva koko. Sikunika ezinye iingcebiso enokukukhokela.

Ngaba abantwana banokuziva ukuba umama wabo ukhulelwe?

ukulunyulwa komntwana

Kukho oomama abakhulelweyo abathi abantwana babo bababuza, nangaphambi kokubaxelela nantoni na, ukuba banomntwana na ngaphakathi. Asazi ukuba bayayiqonda na okanye hayi, kodwa inyani kukuba xa unamathele kunyana okanye kwintombi yakho kwaye uqala ukukhathazeka luvalo okanye ngezinye izinto ezicaphukisayo kuqinisekile ukuba uyakuqaphela. Nangona usenokungazi ukuba kutheni.

Uninzi lwethu linda ikota yokuqala ukuya ingxelo, xa isisu siqala ukuqaphela. Inkwenkwana akanalo uluvo lwexesha Ayinamsebenzi ukuba umxelela ukuba ubhuti uza kuzalwa ngeenyanga ezi-6 kunangesi-9.

Vumela umntwana wakho chukumisa isisu okanye uthethe nomntwana. Ungamsa kudinga lwakho ngaphambi kokubeleka, jonga kwi-ultrasound kwaye umamele ukubetha kwentliziyo yomzalwana. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana akazukuyazi indlela obuza kutshintsha ngayo ubomi bakhe emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe, ke sukuzama. Gxila ekwenzeni ubudlelwane obunothando phakathi kwabantakwenu.

Ngelixesha ndingumama wakhe okhulelweyo ndimphatha njani

Indima yootatomkhulu emva kokubeleka

Kuba ixesha elide wena ungumama wakhe okhulelweyo umenze athathe inxaxheba kwizigqibo ezibalulekileyo, isitya somntakwabo, ukuba bazokwabelana igumbi elinye okanye bazakuba nelabo, igama. Ungalisebenzisa eli xesha ukonwabela ngokupheleleyo ubudlelwane bakho naye. Ungambonisa iividiyo kunye neefoto zokuba wayesesiswini sakho, xa wayezalwa, kwaye wayemlungiselela njani yonke into (njengobhuti) kuye, kuphela awunaluncedo lwakhe!

Lixesha elilungileyo lokufumanisa ukuba uqhuba njani nabantu abazakumgcina ekubelethweni nasekuzalweni komntakwabo. Vumela chitha ixesha elininzi noomawokhulu bakho, oomalume, oomalume okanye abahlobo abaza kukunceda.

Inkwenkwe nentombazana nganye yindalo iphela. Kodwa iingcali zithi abantwana bakowenu abadala (nokuba ziintsana) banamava abanzi iimvakalelo. Bahamba besuka ekukhohlisweni baye kumona, okanye ingqumbo kulowo ufikayo. Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu abanako ukuthetha iimvakalelo zabo, ngenxa yoko indlela abaziphethe ngayo inokutshintsha. Banokubuyela kubhontsi, befuna ukuthatha ingono okanye ibhotile, okanye banxibelelane besebenzisa intetho yabantwana. Ufuna ibango lakho, musa ukuba nomsindo okanye uphelelwe ngumonde kuye. Ukuba kuyenzeka, sisenzo esiqhelekileyo.

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Uya ku badinga usapho kunye nabahlobo Bazimisele ukukunceda, ke iinombolo zabo zefowuni zilungile kwaye ubafundise nokuba bafuna ukuxelelwa ukuba umntakwabo uzelwe okanye usendleleni. Kukho izibini ezithi zigqibe kwelokuba zabelane ngalo mzuzu wokuhanjiswa kunye nomnye umntwana. Kukwakho namadoda, abazali abakhetha ukukhathalela abanye abantwana, kuba ngumzuzu wonxibelelwano oluchanekileyo.

Eyokuqala iiveki ezintandathu ukuya kwezisibhozo ziya kuba nzima ngakumbi kwaye zidinise. Yabelana neqabane lakho, kwaye musa ukuba neqhayiya xa ucela uncedo. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ungqine nantoni na. Usengumama obalaseleyo, yehlisa okulindelweyo.

Unokwenza ukuba olona mntwana wakho mdala athathe inxaxheba kolu ncedo, ukuze azive ngathi uthatha inxaxheba kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo. Ungajonga ubushushu bamanzi, uzise ilweyile, ukhethe iipijama okanye iimpahla eziza kunxitywa lusana. Ungade umcele ukuba akuculele ukuze wehlise umoya!


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