Amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana kufuneka bafunde ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Kuyimfuneko ukuba bazenze kuba ukongeza ekukhuthazeni ucoceko kunye nocwangco ekhaya (nasezingqondweni zabo) baya kuba bafunda amaxabiso amahle kunye nezifundo zobomi. Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba ingaba abantwana babo bamele benze imisebenzi yasekhaya na okanye kungcono ukuba bangathethi nto kubo ukuze baphephe iingxabano ezingeyomfuneko. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayiloxanduva lwabazali ukuqhuba ikhaya? Kwaye ngaba abantwana abadingi thuba lokuba 'babe nje ngabantwana'?
Uninzi lwabantwana namhlanje baneeshedyuli ezixakeke kakhulu, abanalo ixesha phakathi komsebenzi omninzi wesikolo kunye nemisebenzi yangaphandle. Xa befika ekhaya badiniwe kakhulu… Ngokwenyani ukubeka izinto ezininzi zangaphandle zezinto zabantwana kuyinto enkulu kakhulu kubo, Kuya kufuneka babe nexesha elingakumbi lokuba ngabantwana ngaphandle kweembopheleleko ezininzi zolu hlobo.
Endaweni yoko, umsebenzi wasekhaya awunakuthethathethwana kwaye akukho xesha lifanele ukugcinwa phaya. Abantwana abenza imisebenzi yasekhaya bafunda uxanduva kwaye bafumane izakhono zobomi ezibalulekileyo ezinokubanceda kulo lonke ukukhula kwabo.
Izibonelelo zomsebenzi wasekhaya wabantwana
Abantwana baziva bekwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wabo wesikolo. Nokuba benza iibhedi zabo okanye bayatshayela, ukuncedisa endlini kubanika imvakalelo yokufeza okuthile. Ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya kunceda abantwana bazive beyinxalenye yeqela. Ukunceda amalungu osapho kulungile kubo kwaye kuyabakhuthaza ukuba babe ngabemi abalungileyo.
Uphando olwenziwe kwisifundo esaziwayo seminyaka engama-75 saseHarvard esivavanye ukuba zeziphi izinto eziguquguqukayo ngokwasemphefumlweni kunye neenkqubo zebhayiloji kwasekuqaleni ebomini ukuqikelela impilo kunye nokuba sempilweni kamva ebomini. Abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba abantwana abanikwa umsebenzi wesikolo baba ngabantu abadala abazimeleyo.
Akukaze kube kudala ukuba abantwana bakho benze imisebenzi yasendlini, kwaye akukaze kube semva kwexesha ukuba abakaze bayenze ngaphambili. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukubaluleka kwazo ukuze ubethelele ezi nqobo kubantwana bakho. Emva koko uya kufumanisa imisebenzi efanelekileyo yabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo, kuxhomekeke kubudala abakubo ngoku.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya wabantwana abafunda kubantwana
Abafundi besikolo (abaneminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwe-6) banokunikwa imisebenzi elula engabandakanyi ukulandela emva kokuba befunde ukuyenza. Owona msebenzi uqhelekileyo uquka ukuthatha iithoyi zakhe yonke imihla. Banokuqalisa nokufunda ukucoca igumbi labo nokubeka izitya zabo emva kwesidlo. Olu hlobo lwemisebenzi luyabafundisa ukuba kufuneka babe noxanduva ngezinto zabo.
Abantwana abancinci baphendula kakuhle kwiitheyibhile zamachaphaza kuba ziyabakhumbuza ukuba umsebenzi wesikolo ufanele ukuba yintoni. Abafundi abasaqalanga esikolweni abafundanga, iitshathi zomsebenzi wemifanekiso ziluvo olulungileyo lokwenza ukuba kube lula ukuzikhumbula. Isitikha esinobuso obunoncumo sinokuba sisikhuthazo esihle kubantwana abancinci, nangona abantwana abadala beza kufuna isitikha ukongeza, Abanye umvuzo ukunyusa inkuthazo.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya wabantwana abahamba isikolo
Xa abantwana bekwiminyaka yokuhamba isikolo (iminyaka emi-6 ukuya kweli-12 ubudala), uxanduva lwabo kwimisebenzi yasekhaya luya kukhula ngokuthe ngcembe njengoko bekhula. Abantwana abakule minyaka yobudala kufuneka baqhubeke nemisebenzi yabo yasekhaya. Iya kusebenza ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwabo, ukuba nemvakalelo yokuphumelela, ukuhlala ngokwazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani kwaye yintoni ekufuneka eyinxalenye yeqela (usapho) noxanduva lomntu ngamnye. Kuya kubanceda ukuba bazive bonelisekile ngomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle kwaye baya kukuqonda ukubaluleka kokuphila ngolungelelwano kwaye beshiye isiphithiphithi (nengqondo) ecaleni.
Fundisa abantwana bakho ukubeka izihlangu, oobhaka, iimpahla zabo, ukucoca igumbi labo lokulala, njl. Njengoko imisebenzi iya isiba nzima, bafundise inyathelo ngenyathelo indlela yokwenza umsebenzi ngamnye. Umzekelo, ukuba ulinde umntwana ukuba asuse iimpahla zakhe, mbonise indawo yokubeka iimpahla kwaye uthethe ngezinto azilindeleyo. Vuyisana nabantwana bakho kwimizamo yabo kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba baqhubeke nokuziqhelanisa. Musa ukulindela ukugqibelela, lindela nje umgudu.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya weTweens
Phakathi kweminyaka eli-11 ukuya kweli-13 kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqhubeka nomsebenzi wasekhaya. Eli nqanaba liyangaphezulu ngesiphelo sangaphambili kodwa kubalulekile ukuyigcina engqondweni. Akukho sidingo sokuvuza phakathi kwawo wonke umsebenzi owugqibileyo. Ukuthatha nokucoca igumbi lakho, umzekelo, kuyinxalenye yokunceda usapho kwaye kule minyaka akufuneki ukuba uphinde uvuzwe, kude nayo. Kufanele ukuba ibe yinxalenye yemini yakho, ibe yinxalenye yemihla ngemihla.
Imivuzo inokubakho xa usenza imisebenzi ukongeza kowakho owabelweyo njengesiqhelo. Umzekelo, xa ukhupha inkunkuma iveki yonke kwaye usika ingca. Inkqubo yoqoqosho lwethokheni ilungele le minyaka. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba afumane iichips kwaye xa eqokelela inani elithile, angazitshintsha umzekelo: chitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabahlobo, ixesha elongeziweyo kunye nezixhobo ze-elektroniki, imiboniso bhanyabhanya yentsapho emva kwemini, njl
Umsebenzi wasekhaya wolutsha
Ulutsha lufuna izabelo ezilungiselela ilizwe lokwenyani, kwaye kufuneka lifunde ukuzenzela lona. Banobuchule obukhulu kwaye abazali kufuneka bakukhuthaze ukuzimela, nangona ekuqaleni benqabile ukubaphumeza. Nika imisebenzi enjengokulungiselela ukutya, ukucoca igumbi lokuhlambela, ukucoca ingca okanye ukuhlamba impahla. Ezi zakhono zobomi ziya kubaluleka emva kwesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ukuze umntwana wakho aphile ngokuzimeleyo ... Unokubafundisa nokupheka!
Ungamnika isibonelelo esincinci ngeveki sokwenza imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo njengokupheka, kodwa ungaze umnike yena ngokwenza izinto zakhe ezifanelekileyo njengokucoca igumbi lakhe lokulala, ukuhlamba izitya, okanye ukucoca iindawo ezahlukeneyo zendlu ngokufanelekileyo njengoko kucwangcisiwe kusapho . Esi sibonelelo sincinci sinokukunceda ukuba ufunde ukuphatha imali.