Xa kuziwa ekukhuliseni abantwana abanobubele nabacingayo, le yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu esinokuyenza. Asikwazi ukulawula indlela abaziphethe ngayo, Kodwa sinokukhangela iindlela zokubonisa isimilo sobuntu ngokwethu.
Ngethamsanqa, abantwana bakulangazelela ukusikopa besebancinci, ke kuya kufuneka ubonise ububele ukusukela xa beseziintsana. Emveni kwakho konke, Ufuna umntwana wakho oneenyanga ezili-18 azi ukuba ungamwola njani umntu olusizi.
Njengokuba bekhula, abantwana bakho baya kuyibona indlela obaphatha ngayo abantu, kunxibelelwano olufihlakeleyo, njengokubeka phantsi umnxeba ukuze ujongane namehlo uthi enkosi, kwizenzo ezibonakalayo zobubele, njengokumema umntu onesizungu ukuba aye ekhefini. , ndizisa ukutya kummelwane ogulayo, bathuthuzele abo baxhwalekileyo kwaye banikele ngexesha nangemali ukukhathalela abo basweleyo.
Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba sibaphathe njani abantwana bethu. Intuition yethu isixelela okuninzi malunga nobubele. Oku kuthetha ukuxhomekeka kuvelwano malunga "nomsebenzi" ekufuneka uwenzile. ukuba ngumzali kusentloko yakho.
Oko kunokubonakala ngathi kubambe usana lwakho ezandleni zakho kuba efuna nje ukuthathwa okanye ukubuyela evenkileni ayokuthengela umntu ipensile yomlinganiswa abawuthandayo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayikuko ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhala, nangona ewe, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ungakhange uyiqonde indlela ebaluleke ngayo kuye. Ububele bukwathetha ukunika abantwana bakho, ngakumbi xa kukho abantakwenu kumxube, imvakalelo yokuninzi, ukuba kukho uthando olwaneleyo, indumiso, ukuhleka, kunye nokuqwalaselwa komntu wonke.
Kukwabalulekile nakubantwana bakho ukuba bakubone uzenzela ububele. Oku kuthetha ukuba iintlobo zemveli zokuzinakekela, njengokulala ngokwaneleyo kunye nokufuna inkxaso ukuze ungakhuli ngokudinwa. Kodwa kukwathetha ukuba uzinike isibonelelo sokuthandabuza, ngendlela efanayo onokuyinikela nakomnye umntu. Ukuba wenze impazamo, endaweni yokuzithethisa, yithi: «Kulungile, kulungile, sonke siyazenza iimpazamo.