Ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho iyagula uya kuba ngowokuqala ukwazi, hayi ngenxa yengqondo yakho kuphela, kodwa ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho uya kukwazisa. Ukunyamekela umntwana ogulayo kuthetha ukukhathazeka nokudinwa kubazali, ke zama ukuthembela kwiqabane lakho kwaye niphumle. Ukongeza kunyango olifunayo, kubaluleke kakhulu, ngexesha lokuchacha kwakho uyakhathala ulale esofeni, okanye ebhedini kunye naye, kwaye umphewule.
Njengoko besitshilo kwizihlandlo ezininzi, akufani nokukhathalela umntwana kunokuba nomntwana oneminyaka emihlanu, umzekelo, okanye oneminyaka eli-5 ubudala, nangona wonke umntu uza kukufuna sele ndimangalele. Ukongeza, ubuzaza besifo nabo buya kwahluka ukhathalelo lwethu. Sikunika izimvo ngokubanzi kunye neengcebiso malunga nezi ntsuku xa umntwana wakho egula.
Utshintsho olwenzeka rhoqo kuba umntwana uyagula
Xa umntwana wakho egula into yokuqala Utshintsho ziindlela zakho kunye nezakhe. Sithetha nje jikelele hayi ngelixesha lokuvalelwa. Ukuba umntwana uya esikolweni, uza kuyeka ukuya, kwaye ukuba uyasebenza, kuya kufuneka wenze umsebenzi wakho ekhaya, okanye wena neqabane lakho kuya kufuneka nikhangele ezinye iindlela zokukhathalela umntwana.
Olunye utshintsho olubalulekileyo zezi iiyure zokulala. Usenokungalali ngokwaneleyo ebusuku, okanye unokuzivusa rhoqo ukuze ufumanise ukuba unjani. Nokuba umntwana akanafiva, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhetha ukulala emini. Umzimba usisilumko kwaye ukuphumla lelinye lawona mayeza aphambili. Musa ukumvusa, nokuba angatya, kwezi meko.
Las ukutya Ziya kutshintsha, kungekuphela ngenxa yeeshedyuli, kodwa ngenxa yokuba kufanelekile ukuba usele ulwelo kwezi ntsuku ukuze ufumane amanzi. Kulungile ukuba uhlala unamanzi, ubisi, iijusi zendalo, umhluzi okanye ukumiliselwa esandleni. Ngaphandle kokuba sisifo sesisu, awunyanzelekanga ukuba utye ngokungqongqo, kodwa yazi ukuba awuzukutya kakhulu, okanye incasa yokutya inokutshintshwa.
Yenza umntwana ogulayo akhululeke
Ukwenza umntwana akhululeke kuya kuba negalelo ukuchacha ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ukuyifumana yeyona nto inzima. Ukuba ulusana okanye umntwana omncinci kakhulu into oza kuyifuna yile ube nonina, ukuba umfundele amabali, uthethe naye, umculele okanye nantoni na ayifumana njengononophelo. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba akayazi into eyenzekayo kuye, kwaye akanakukwazi ukuyithetha okanye ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe. Yiba nomonde ke ukuba ukufowunela rhoqo egumbini lakhe.
Ukuba uza kuhlala kwifayile ye- Eli gumbi kufuneka lingene umoya, kodwa sukucinga malunga nokwenza nomntwana ngaphakathi. Lungisa igumbi lokuhlala okwemizuzu embalwa, coca kwaye ubeke umoya egumbini lakhe emva koko umenze ukuba abuye. Umntwana unokukhetha ukuba segumbini lokufundela okanye atshintshe phakathi kwaba babini.
iliso! Gcina ulawulo kumabonwakude okanye ezinye izikrini, Nokuba uyabuza. Ngeli xesha udinga indlu ethuleyo nezolileyo yokuphumla kwaye uyenze ngomgangatho.
Ungakukonwabisa njani ngeXesha lokuGqitywa
Ngenxa yeemeko ezikhethekileyo zokuvalelwa esinazo ukuba umntwana uyagula ekhaya, ii-alamu ziyacima kwangoko. Into yokuqala kukuya kumanani e iifowuni ezifanelekileyo. Ayizizo zonke iimpawu ezinxulumene ne-COVID19.
Ukuba umntwana ogulayo uhlala egumbini elinye, kwaye tshintsha uye kwenye eyahlukileyo, ukwenzela ukuba abantakwabo bangayibambi. Ingqele inokusasazeka, kwaye ikunike ukuphumla okuphezulu. Kuxhomekeke ekubeni bangaphi ekhaya tshintshisana ukumkhathalela, echazela abanye abantwana ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuye.
Imidlalo yeBhodi, iincwadi, izinto ezithandwayo, iseyindlela efanelekileyo, kwaye apha Sikunika abanye, ekuphela kwento ayikokumnyanzela ukuba adlale xa engafuni. Njengoko sisazi kakuhle, olona phawu lubalaseleyo lokuchacha kuxa umntwana eqala ukudlala kwaye eziva elambile.