Ukusekwa kwemithetho ekhaya kubalulekile ekusebenzeni kakuhle kwemihla ngemihla. Abantwana kufuneka bakuqhele ukuba nemithetho, kuba ubomi eluntwini benziwe luxanduva oluthile, uxanduva kunye namalungelo ekufuneka sonke siwathobele. Ngale ndlela, impilo-ntle yomntu wonke iqinisekisiwe, kuba ukuba lonke usapho luyahlangabezana nemigangatho yakho, abanye baya kuxhamla yabo.
Ukunceda abantwana baqonde ukubaluleka kwemithetho, ungabanika imizekelo elula. Umzekelo, wonke umntu kufuneka athathe uxanduva lwezinto zakhe zokudlalaNgale ndlela, ukuba kukho nayiphi na elahlekileyo okanye eyonakeleyo, umntu onoxanduva akayi kuba ngomnye umniniyo. Kubazali, akusoloko kulula ukuchaza imiba efanayo, ke ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uza kujongana njani nalo mbandela, ungaphoswa ngala macebiso alandelayo.
Kutheni imithetho yasekhaya ibalulekile?
Abantwana abawuqondi umxholo wexesha ngendlela efanayo nabantu abadala. Kubo, intsasa xa bavukile kwaye ubusuku kuxa belele, ngokusisiseko. Ingqondo yexesha elinje, utyalo-mali lwelo xesha, ukuzinikela kunye nokwenza ngcono kwelo xesha, ziikhonsepthi ezihambelana nexesha. Ke ngoko, kubantwana kubalulekile ukuba babe nemithetho kwaye Iindlela ezakha usuku lwakho nosuku.
Ngale ndlela, Ndiziva ndikhuselekile ngakumbi ngokwazi okulandelayo, uza kuba yintoni umsebenzi olandelayo. Ukuba le mithetho ayikho, abantwana bakwimeko yokungaqiniseki okuhlala kuhleli, nobunzima obukhulu kubo bokuqonda ukuba mabenze ntoni okanye baziphathe njani ngokulandelayo. Ukufunda ukulandela imigaqo ekhaya linyathelo elibalulekileyo lokuba abantwana baziphathe ngokufanelekileyo kuzo zonke iintlobo zobume bendawo.
Ngale ndlela, baya kuyazi indlela yokuziphatha xa besesikolweni kwaye baya kuba nakho ukuthobela imigaqo esekwe apho. Kodwa baya kuyazi nendlela ekufuneka baziphathe ngayo xa besemakhayeni abanye abantu, xa kufuneka belinde kwi-ofisi kagqirha kwaye naxa ufuna ukubasa ezivenkileni. Ukuba abantwana ekhaya benza unothanda, mabaqonde njani ukuba kumakhaya abanye abantu abanakwenza okufanayo?
Ukuhlalisana kungcono ukuba kukho imigaqo yabantu bonke
Ilungu ngalinye losapho kufuneka lithobele imigaqo emiselweyo, ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba Abadala bahlala bethobela ukuba ngowona mzekelo ubalaseleyo yabantwana. Kwangokunjalo, kufuneka uqine ebantwaneni kwaye ubafundise ukufezekisa uxanduva lwabo. Ukuze abantwana baqonde ukuba ithini imithetho ekhaya, kufuneka ubacacise ngendlela abanokuyiqonda.
Ungasebenzisa izinto ezibonakalayo ukuze kungabikho namnye olibalayo ithini imigaqo yokuhlalisana ekhaya, kubandakanya nabantu abadala. Kodwa ukuba abantwana bancinci kakhulu kwaye abakwazi ukufunda, kuya kufuneka wongeze iigrafikim ukubanceda baqonde. Lo inokuba yinto efanelekileyo ukuyenza njengentsapho, ufuna kuphela ikhadibhodi enkulu kakhulu kunye neepensile ezinemibala.
Bandakanya abantwana ekumiseleni imigangatho ngokunjalo Bazakuva ukuba iimfuno zabo ziyafezekiswa ngamaxesha onke. Qinisekisa ukuba uluhlu alukho ngaphezulu kwe-10, ukuze kungabi nzima kakhulu ukulufeza. Nayi eminye imizekelo yemithetho ekhaya:
- Kuya kufuneka usoloko ubulisa xa ufika ekhaya kwaye kufuneka uphinde uvalelise xa umntu ehamba.
- Kufuneka ukuba thetha ungakhwaza, behlonipha amathuba abanye.
- Sicela izinto nceda kwaye siyabulela.
- Sinceda ukugcina indlu icocekile kwaye icocekile.
- Siyabelana izinto zethu.
- Ukufika kwethu ekhaya, sabeka oobhaka bethu kwaye iingubo ezibekwe kakuhle.
- Senza umsebenzi wethu wasekhaya ngaphambi kokuba sidlale.
- Sabeka itafile sonke phambi kokuba sitye kwaye umntu ngamnye uqokelela izinto zakhe xa sigqiba.
- Asikwazi ukuphakama etafileni ade wonke umntu agqibe ukutya.
- Yonke imihla kufuneka Senze sihleke ngaphambi kokuba silale.