Yonke imihla amakhulu izilwanyana zasekhaya, ngakumbi iikati nezinja, ziyashiywa kwisiphelo sabo. Izilwanyana okwethutyana ziye zabelana ngemfudumalo yekhaya, yosapho ukuthanda nokukhapha, ngequbuliso ngenye imini bazibona besesitalatweni, bengakuqondi okwenzekileyo. Into ebeka ubomi besilwanyana emngciphekweni omkhulu, kuba isilwanyana esisetyenziselwa ukuhlala endlwini, nosapho, asinamathuba afanayo okusinda esitalatweni njengesinye isilwanyana esibhadulayo.
Kwiminyaka emininzi, kuye kwakho into ebalulekileyo Iphulo losasazo lokuphakamisa ulwazi malunga nokushiywa kwezilwanyana. Kuba kubalulekile ukuba bonke abantu bayazi le ngxaki, kuba izilwanyana zinamalungelo. Fundisa abantwana ukuba Khathalela izilwanyana zakho, linyathelo lokuqala lokudala uluntu olungcono, oluzinikeleyo kunye noluntu oluzayo.
Imisebenzi yokubhiyozela uSuku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe lwesilwanyana esingenakhaya
Zininzi izinto ezinokwenziwa ukubhiyozela uSuku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe lwesilwanyana esingenakhaya kunye nabantwana. Nazi ezinye izimvo zokuba uqalise, kodwa khumbula ukuba lo ngumsebenzi wexesha elide. Kuba funda ukuthanda nokuhlonipha izilwanyana kunye nezinto eziphilayo ngokubanzi, lixabiso elifunyanwa kusapho nakubo bonke ubomi.
Intetho yosapho
Hlela intetho nabantwana malunga nokubaluleka kwe- Cinga ngononophelo ngombono wokwamkela isilwanyana ngaphambi kokuba usenze. Abantwana ngokubanzi bayayithanda ingcamango yokuba nomntwana, ikati, okanye nasiphi na isilwanyana sasekhaya. Kodwa kubalulekile ukubacacisela ukuba esi silwanyana siza kufuna inkathalo, ingqalelo kunye nothando oluvela kusapho luphela. Ukwamkela isilwanyana sasekhaya sisenzo esinoxanduva, ke yonke intsapho kufuneka ikwazi oko ngaphambi kokuba iqale ukonwaba kwesilwanyana ekhaya.
Buza imibuzo efana nale ilandelayo:
- Siya kuba nayo ixesha elaneleyo suku ngalunye lokuhamba injana?
- ¿Sinokucoca ibhokisi yesanti yekati rhoqo?
- Ngaba sinakho ukuhlawula yisa isilwanyana kugqirha wezilwanyana rhoqo?
- Siya ku unalo ixesha lokudlala, ukutofobala nokukhathalela kwisilwanyana sasekhaya njengoko kufanelekile?
Le mibuzo kufuneka ibuzwe kuye wonke umntu, kuba lonke usapho kufuneka lubandakanyeke ekunyamekeleni isilwanyana sasekhayakubandakanya abantwana. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungasihoya na isilwanyana esidinga unonophelo olukhulu, njengenja ekufuneka iphume phandle kathathu ngemini, ungakhetha ukwamkela olunye uhlobo lwesilwanyana esifana nentlanzi.
Ukuzisa ukutya kwindawo yokuhlala izilwanyana
Iindawo zokuhlala ezingenamakhaya zihlala zizele abantwana abalindele ukwamkelwa lusapho olunoxanduva. Olu hlobo lwenkathalo lufuna umgudu omkhulu kunye nemali, kuba zininzi izilwanyana zokutya nokhathalelo lwezilwanyana ekufuneka lusetyenzisiwe kubo. Umsebenzi wale mini kunye nabantwana ukuba bazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni xa isilwanyana sishiyiwe, kukunceda ikhusi ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo. Unokuzisa ukutya okukhethekileyo kwizilwanyana, kuya kwamkelwa kakuhle kwaye abantwana baya kuba nakho ukubona izilwanyana kwindawo yokuhlala.
Hlela ingqokelela uxhasa isilwanyana esingenakhaya
Iindawo zokukhusela izilwanyana zifuna uncedo oluninzi lwezezimali ukuze zikhathalele zonke izilwanyana ezingenamakhaya. Usapho olunye alunakho ukwenza igalelo elikhulu lezemali, kodwa linokuququzelela ingqokelela yokunyusa ingxowa mali. Ungalungiselela abafundi ipowusta ukuze babone, yenza amaphecana athile uhambise amashishini asekuhlaleni kwaye ukhethe usuku lokunyusa imali.
Nciphisa izilwanyana zakho
Ukuvalwa kwenzalo kuphela kwendlela yokulawula ukukhula okungakhethiyo kwezilwanyana zasekhaya, izilwanyana ezinokufunyanwa zingenakhaya kwaye ziphelele esitalatweni nazo zonke iingozi ezifunekayo. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuthatha isilwanyana sasekhaya ukuba sikukhaphe ngemihla yakho kwaye uphucule ubomi bakho, kufuneka ube noxanduva kwaye uyibulale. Kukwabalulekile ukuba isilwanyana sakho sikhathalelwe kakuhle, sifumane ugonyo oluyimfuneko, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, sifumane lonke uthando nokunyaniseka okuya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo sikunike usapho lwakho.