Kunyaka omnye iiholide zeKrisimesi sele zidlulile, nazo zonke izipho, imicimbi yosapho kunye nolonwabo oluthethwa yiKrisimesi ebantwaneni. Ezi holide zokuqala zonyaka wesikolo zikhethekileyo kuzo zonke ezi zinto zibandakanya zona. Bobuphi ubunzima obongeziweyo, ukuze hlambuluka indlela yesiqhelo yabantwana ziqhelo.
Kubalulekile ukuba lonke usapho lubuyela esiqhelweni ngokukhawulezangakumbi abantwana. Ukuze bakwazi ukubuyela ngokulula kwiindlela zabo zemihla ngemihla kwaye bathathe eli nqanaba litsha lonyaka wesikolo. Kungenzeka ukuba nawe unengxaki yokubuyela esiqhelweni, ngenxa yoko akufuneki uphoswe zezi ngcebiso zokufumana kwakhona inkqubo yesiqhelo yabantwana emva kweKrisimesi.
Qalisa kwakhona iishedyuli
Iishedyuli zibalulekile kumbutho yobomi babantwana. Ibavumela ukuba bacwangcise usuku lwabo kwaye bazi ukuba yintoni elandelayo eza kwenzeka, ukuze bazive bekhuselekile ngakumbi njengoko kungekho kungathandabuzeki. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukubuyela kwiishedyuli eziqhelekileyo ngokukhawuleza. Ngokubanzi, ngexesha leholide abantwana bavunyelwe ukuba balale kwaye bavuke kamva okanye batye ukutya kwabo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo nangendlela eyahlukileyo.
Ukubuyela esiqhelweni ngu ezisisiseko kubantwana ukuba iiyure zokulala zigutyungelwe, ukuze bakwazi ukwenza yonke imisebenzi yabo ngokulula kwaye batye ukutya okusempilweni, okwahlukeneyo kunye nokutya okunesondlo okusasazwa imini yonke. Into ekunzima ukuyiphumeza ukuba abanazo iishedyuli kunye neendlela.
Nokuba ucinga ukuba izakubabiza buyela kwisiqhelo ngesiqhelo, uya kumangaliswa ukuba bayikhawuleze kangakanani ukuyiqhela kwiiyure zabo eziqhelekileyo. Ewe kunjalo, okoko nje bekukho iishedyuli ebezisekiwe ngaphambili kwaye abantwana sele beqhelile kubo.
Jonga yonke into enxulumene neKrisimesi
Nokuba ucinga ukuba ayibuchaphazeli, jonga uhombiso lweKrisimesi oluqhelekileyo ekhaya ibangela ukudideka okuninzi kubantwana ngaphandle kwexesha leKrisimesi. Ukubona umthi weKrisimesi kwigumbi lokuhlala kuya kuba njengesikhumbuzo sabo bonke ubumnandi abaye banabo ngale mihla kwaye ngenxa yoko baya kuzama ukugcina imeko yemibhiyozo yeentsuku ezingaphezulu. Ke ngoko, nokuba uyonqena kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuba ususe yonke imihombiso yeKrisimesi ngokukhawuleza.
Kwa kunjalo, Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana basebenzisane nalo msebenzi, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo bakuncede wabeka yonke imihombiso. Ngale ndlela, banokuthi "bahle" ngokusesikweni kwiKrisimesi kwaye bagcine zonke izinto eziqhelekileyo kude kube ngunyaka olandelayo. Esi siko silula siya kukunceda uvale eli nqanaba ngaphandle kwedrama, nangona kunjalo ngokomfuziselo.
Imisebenzi emitsha yosapho
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngexesha leeholide zeKrisimesi uya kuba uzenzile imisebenzi yosapho. Ngexesha lasimahla kunye nomoya weKrisimesi, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuphuma ngakumbi kwaye wonwabele ixesha lasimahla nabantwana. Nje ukuba amaqela agqitywe, kubalulekile ukuba uphinde uqalise ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi ukwenzela ukuba abantwana bangamangaleli ukungabikho kwexesha elifanelekileyo. Zama ukuhlela izicwangciso zosapho ngeempelaveki, ezinje ngeehambo zasentsimini, apho abantwana banokuchitha khona ixesha lokunxibelelana nendalo.
Nayiphi na indlela yokuphuma ekhaya inokuba yinto entle, kuba kunye ninokulungiselela ipikniki kwisidlo sasemini ebaleni. Unokulungiselela imidlalo ukuba wonwabe kunye kunye nokwenza iinkumbulo eziya kuhlala ngonaphakade kwimemori yabancinci. Ngale ndlela, abayi kuphoswa yiKrisimesi okanye iiholide kakhulu, kuba baya kuhlala bezinikele kumgangatho wabazali kunye neentsapho zabo.
Ukufumana kwakhona isiqhelo emva kweKrisimesi akukho lula kuye nakubani na, kuya kufuneka ubuyele emsebenzini, yitya usempilweni ukuphelisa ukugqithisa sizibophelele emathekweni, kwaye siqale ngazo zonke iinjongo esizenzayo sonke. Kodwa ukuba yenziwa njengentsapho, ngothando, ukuqonda kunye nomonde, yonke into iya kuba lula kakhulu kuye wonke umntu, ngakumbi abantwana, abahlupheka kakhulu kolu hlobo lotshintsho.
Musa ukulibala ukuzixhobisa ngokuqonda, abantwana bafuna ixesha labo lokuhlengahlengisa kwaye kungekudala baya kubuya babuyele kwiindlela zabantwana obamisileyo ngomzamo omkhulu kuyo yonke ikhosi.