Akukho mzali ukulungeleyo ukufumana iindaba zokuba umntwana wakhe unomhlaza. Umntwana onomhlaza wenza isiphithiphithi iintsuku zakho zokuqala, nto leyo Awukwazi ukuyilinganisa into eyenzekayo kwaye yonke into ibonakala ilusizi kwaye isoyikeka. Inkxaso inikezelwa ngokukodwa kubazali ukuze babe nesikrweqe esaneleyo ukuze bakwazi ukomeleza umntwana wabo baze bazi indlela yokumelana nesi sigulo sibaluleke ngolo hlobo.
Yiyo loo nto, ngononophelo olukhulu ukuzama ukujamelana nemeko eya kuchaphazela ngokweemvakalelo onke amalungu entsapho kwaye ngakumbi unyana wakho onomhlaza. Abazali baza kuqalisa ukutyhubela ixesha elinzima kwaye kuya kufuneka batsale amandla abo amakhulu okujongana nobunzima. Kodwa kwakhona, Baya kufumana ihlabathi elizele umanyano olukhulu kunye nenkxaso ngabantu abahamba kwimeko efanayo kwaye ngoncedo lweengcali ezinkulu, abahlobo kunye nosapho.
Ukunyamekela nokukhuthaza umntwana onomhlaza
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo Indlela abasabela ngayo ichaphazela onke amalungu entsapho. Iimvakalelo zinokuguquguquka kwaye zihluke kakhulu, kuya kubakho abazali abaziva benxunguphele kakhulu, besoyika kakhulu, kwaye abanye baya kuziva benetyala bekholelwa ukuba yimeko ebebenokuyiphepha.
Ngokubanzi Nayiphi na kwezi mvakalelo ayikho ngcono okanye imbi kunabanye, Bakho nje, kwaye kufuneka ufunde ukuhlala nabo. Abazali baya kuba ngabokuqala ukujongana nale meko yeemvakalelo kwaye iya kuba yindlela yokunceda umntwana wakho ogulayo, kunye nabo bonke abanye abantwana abaphilileyo abenza intsapho yethu.
Amaxesha okuqalisa kunye nokuguquguquka ukukwazi ukunciphisa le ntlungu kubalulekile ukukwazi ukunyamekela umntwana ofuna inkxaso eqhubekayo yabazali bakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana aziswe ngesigulo kwakuba wonke umntu elungile., njengayo yonke intsapho.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ujikelezwe ngabantu obathandayo, yindlela yokubonakalisa kunye nokwabelana ngentlungu kunye neemvakalelo., ekubeni akuyomfuneko ukuba ugcine nantoni na. Ngale ndlela kusenokwenzeka ukuba yonke loo nkxaso iya kufunyanwa enokuthomalalisa imeko yethu yeentlungu kuthi sonke.
Ukhathalelo lwemihla ngemihla
Kufuneka sijongane novavanyo oluninzi lwezonyango kunye nokulinda ixesha elide esibhedlele. Kufuneka wenze umntwana aphazamiseke kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngamaxesha onke, Unokuzisa izinto okanye izinto eziza kukugcina inkampani ngelo xesha lokuhlala okanye ucwangcise ezinye zezinto ezenziwa esibhedlele kunye neenkonzo zokuvolontiya (ucweyo kunye nemisebenzi yezandla).
Ukutya kubalulekile, isigulane kunye nabantu abamngqongileyo; ukwenza umthambo nako kunokunceda ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ukuthobela amaxesha okuphumla.
Umntwana kufuneka anikwe ixesha lokuvakalisa lonke uloyiko lwakhe kunye nokuxhalabisa. kwaye ubone ukuba loluphi uhlobo loncedo lobuchwephesha onokulufuna. Akufanele uzame ukuhlala umkhathaza ngemibuzo malunga "nendlela aqhuba ngayo" kwaye kufuneka umnike ixesha lokuphumla, ukuphumla kunye nokuzonwabisa nanini na xa efuna.
Ngeentsuku zokulala esibhedlele
Amaxesha anzima: Ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana wakho akaqhelanga ukuphila nenkqubo yokuya kuvavanyo oluninzi kunye nokulaliswa esibhedlele, Mhlawumbi uziva ungakhuselekanga kwaye usoyika ngenxa yokungazi kwakho. Kufuneka ulungiselele umntwana ngokuthe ngcembe nangengqondo ngoko kunokwenzeka.
Musa ukusebenzisa ubuxoki: xa kufuneka ulaliswe esibhedlele musa ukukhohliswa, kuba okunene kuya kunidanisa. Musani ukwenza izithembiso zobuxoki. Ungaze umxelele nezinto ezingenakuzaliseka kamva.
Zama ukumenza akhululeke ngalo lonke ixesha: Vumela umntwana abe nenkululeko eqhubekayo, azive ejikelezwe ngamathoyizi abo abathandayo kwaye abe noqhagamshelwano oluninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Oku kuya kukunika ukuzithemba ngakumbi xa kufuneka uqalise kwakhona imisebenzi yakho yokuqala esikolweni kwaye Uziva uxhaswe ngakumbi kwaye ukhuselekile.