Umntwana wakho oneminyaka emi-4 unyusa isigama sakhe ... kwaye ke namagama akhe amabi ayanda!

Umsindo kubantwana abancinci

Abantwana abaneminyaka emi-4 banesakhono esikhulu sokwandisa isigama sabo, bafana neziponji ezincinci eziphinda-phinda yonke into eziyivayo. Kodwa njengokuba befunda isigama esitsha, bafunda amagama amabi kwaye bahlala bewasebenzisa xa benxunguphele, benomsindo, bedanile okanye bengenamdla, bengazi ukuba bathetha ukuthini ... Kodwa xa abantu abadala bebaphulaphula, baxelisa la magama kwiimeko ezifanayo. .

Xa abantwana abaneminyaka emi-4 bandisa isigama sabo kubaluleke kakhulu kubo, kodwa xa besebenzisa amagama amabi, kufanele ukuba kujongwane njani noku? Kukho abazali abangabahoyiyo, abanye abasebenzisa iziphumo behlutha amalungelo, abanye bacacisa ukuba ngamagama angafanelekanga ukuba athethwe kuba amabi ... Kodwa kumaxesha amaninzi nangenxa yokungakhuli kwabantwana kule minyaka, Ukuziphatha ngamagama amabi kuyaqhubeka, ke kunokubonakala ngathi kuyenzakalisa kwaye akuhloniphi.

Abantwana abaneminyaka emi-4 banzima

Abantwana abaneminyaka emine badume ngokuba nzima. Ngokwenkqubela phambili, bakwindlela enqamlezileyo. Izakhono zakhe zolwimi, kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukunxibelelana neemfuno kunye neemfuno zakhe, ziyaqhuma ngokupheleleyo. Banokuhoya imiyalelo emininzi kwaye bayiqonde. Izakhono zabo zeemoto zibavumela ukuba bajikeleze umhlaba ngokulula kwaye oku kunokukwenza ukuba ubeke iwaka kwamehlo kubo ukuphepha iingozi (ezingaboniyo).

Ngezi zakhono zolwimi zandisiweyo, saqala ukubona abantwana abaneminyaka emine besuka kumsindo nobundlobongela ukuya emagameni ukubiza kunye nokutsalela umnxeba phezulu. Ngoba? Kuba umntwana uyakhathazeka xa into ingasebenzi okanye ingahambi ngendlela abafuna ngayo. Ukungafumani sweet ngaphambi kwesidlo sangokuhlwa ngumzekelo omkhulu. Umntwana wakho akanakho ukukhula ukuze aqonde ukuba iswekile ngaphambi kwesidlo akunampilo. Xa umntu efumana uxinzelelo, zimbini iindlela onokukhetha kuzo: tshintsha into ekhathazayo okanye yamkele kwaye uyilungelelanise. Oku komntwana oneminyaka emi-4 kunzima kakhulu.

Intombazana eneminyaka emi-4 inomsindo

Veza ukungonwabi kwakho ngamazwi

Xa abantwana abaneminyaka emi-4 besebenzisa ulwimi olubi ukuze bakuthathele ingqalelo, kungenxa yokuba banomsindo. Umntwana, emncinci kwaye engekavuthwa, unokusebenzisa isithuko ukuveza umsindo wakhe kwaye anyanzelise umonde wakho umda. Kuyafana naxa usithi 'hayi' kumntwana oneminyaka emibini obetha enye okanye othatha into yokudlala ... Uya kukhala kwaye akhwaze kuba kuphela kwendlela anokuwubonakalisa ngayo umsindo wakhe. 

Ukuba umntwana wakho ukuxelela ukuba uyakucaphukela, kungakukhathaza, kodwa khumbula ukuba akazi ukuba athetha ntoni loo magama kwaye akayiva le nto ayithethayo. Ungothuka kancinci, okanye xa ekuxelela ukuba ungumntu ombi ngokungayifezekisi iminqweno yakhe. Jonga ngoluhlobo: ulungiselela iminyaka yakho yokufikisa.

Sukuyithatha buqu

Hayi, sukuyithatha buqu kuba ayisiyiyo. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka emi-4 ufunda ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe kunye nokuhambisa ezona mvakalelo zinzulu, kodwa kufuneka ukuba uyiqonde indlela avakalelwa ngayo kwaye ukwazi ukubeka amagama afanelekileyo kwiimvakalelo zakhe. Kananjalo, ukuba kukho izinto ekufuneka zilungisiwe ukuze bazive bebhetele, kuya kufuneka ubancede bafumane ezona zisombululo zilungileyo kule meko.

Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba kukho amanyathelo onokuwathatha ukunciphisa ezi ngxaki kwaye xa umntwana wakho oneminyaka emi-4 esebenzisa ulwimi olubi, Ungamnceda ukuba afumane ezona zibalaseleyo kwaye, unokuqonda ukuba uziva njani. Ke xa uyayiqonda into eyenzekayo kuwe, awuyi kuba nesidingo sokusebenzisa ubundlongondlongo.

Yintoni omele uyenze ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha amagama amabi

Musa ukuwela emgibeni

Xa umntwana wakho ekubiza ngegama okanye ekuthuka, ucinga ukuba ubona ukuqhuma konxunguphalo kwaye usebenzisa ukucinga okunengqiqo ... Ukusebenzisa isohlwayo okanye ukunyoba kuyonyusa ukukhathazeka komntwana wakho kwaye ingxaki iya kunyuka. Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukubamba le meko ngaphandle kokuzama ukunyusa usizi lomncinci ... Enye indlela yokwenza oku kukungahoyi elo gama kwaye uncede umntwana wakho alawule ezo mvakalelo zinamandla. 


Kufuneka ulawule iimvakalelo zakho

Ukuba uwela kumgibe wokuba nomsindo ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho esebenzisa intetho engcolileyo, okanye ukohlwaya ngokwenza oko, uyakonyusa unxunguphalo lwakhe kuba akasiqondi kakuhle isizathu sokuba azive ngolu hlobo kwaye uya kukubona kuphela ukuba ukungamqondi. Umzekelo, Ungamxelela umntwana wakho ukuba ngekhe uye epakini ngenxa yesimilo esithile, kodwa hayi ngenxa yamagama asetyenzisiweyo ukubonisa umsindo wakhe. Mncedise amagama ezo mvakalelo kwaye ufumane izisombululo kunye.

Nciphisa ukukhathazeka kwabo xa kunokwenzeka

Ukunciphisa unxunguphalo lwabantwana akuthethi ukuba akufuneki ube namaqondo athile onxunguphalo kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Ukudana kubalulekile kuphuhliso olulinganayo lwabantwana, iidosi ezincinci zokudakumba ziya kubanceda bafumane izisombululo kwiingxaki zabo kwaye bazithembe.

Xa unokulindela iimfuno zabantwana bakho kwaye wazi ukuba bafuna ntoni ngaphambi kokuba babuze, uya kuziva ukhululekile kodwa ube namandla ngakumbi xa bejamelene nokudana. Kodwa ungaze unikezele kwiimfuno zakhe xa enomsindo kuba uya kufunda ukuba kufuneka umntwana ukuba afumane into ayifunayo.

Unxunguphalo olulungileyo yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokomelela

Unxunguphalo oluncinci kunye nokukhangela izisombululo kunokunceda abantwana ukuba bakwazi ukwamkela ukusilela okanye izithintelo zobomi kunye nokulwa nabo. Njengoko uqhubeka ukugcina imida kunye nemithetho ekhaya, umntwana wakho oneminyaka emi-4 uya kuqhubeka 'ukutsala umtya' Ngokuziphatha kwakho kunye namagama, kodwa ukuhlala uqinile (ukusuka kuqeqesho olululo) kuya kukunceda uqhubeke nendlela yomelele, ebalulekileyo kwimpumelelo kwikamva lakho.

Ukuhloniphana kubudlelwane phakathi komzali nomntwana kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze abantwana bazive beqondwa kwaye bekhuselekile ngalo lonke ixesha.


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