Ukutshintshwa kwamanabukeni ukuya kwindlu yangasese kuhlala kunzima ngexesha lokukhulisa umntwana. Xa kufikwa kumba wokujongana nesi sigaba sokufunda somntwana, abazali banokujamelana nezithintelo ezahlukeneyo, omnye wabo kukuba umntwana wabo akafuni ukungcolisa. Ngaphandle kokuba yingxaki eqhelekileyo, kungcono ukuyilungisa kwangoko kuba inokuvelisa ezinye iingxaki kwixa elizayo.
Ukwala ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kungakhokelela kwintlungu esiswini ekufumaneni isitulo, okanye ukuqhina. Kodwa nokuba zithini iimeko, Amaxesha amaninzi ngabazali abahlupheka kakhulu kwintlungu yomntwana. Ngethamsanqa, le meko inokuthintelwa, inyangwe, kwaye ilawulwe ixesha elininzi. Ngokuziqonda iimpawu, ungathatha amanyathelo kwaye umenze umntwana onwabe, esempilweni kwaye angabi nazintlungu.
Kutheni ungafuni unyana wakho ukuba enze poop
Ukutshintsha ilweyile kwigumbi lokuhlambela Iqala malunga neenyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-3. Ngexesha lale nkqubo, into yokuba umntwana angafuni ukungcolisa inqanaba liqhelekile. Oku kunokuba ngenxa yotshintsho kwindlela otya ngayo, enokubangela intshukumo enkulu kwaye inzima. Xa oku kusenzeka, Umntwana udibanisa iintlungu kunye nokukhutshwa kwesitulo kwaye ngenxa yesi sizathu baqala ukuzigcina. Amava abuhlungu afunekayo ukuze abe ngumjikelo oyingozi.
Abanye abantwana banokungavumi ukungcolisa kuba ingekakulungeli ngokwasemoyeni nangokwasemzimbeni ukusebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela. Abanye abantwana balufumanisa lisoyikisa olu tshintsho ngenxa yobungakanani bendlu yangasese, isandi, indawo ekuyo… Olu lutshintsho olukhulu kubo. Banokwala utshintsho kwaye balusebenzise "njengomdlalo wamandla" ukubuyisa ingqalelo ababenayo xa babesebancinci. Kukho iimeko ezithile zonyango ezibangela oku kuziphatha, kodwa ezi meko zinqabile kakhulu.
Kungcono ukusombulula ingxaki ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala
Ukuba umntwana wakho uqhubeka nokugcina isitulo ngaphandle konyango olufanelekileyo, kuya kuvela ezinye iingxaki eziza kwenza izinto zibembi. Xa umntwana engasebenzi okwethutyana, isitulo sabo siyakha kwaye siba nzima. Ngelixa oku kusenzeka, ezinye izitulo ezithambileyo okanye ezingamanzi zinokuhla emacaleni kwaye zingcolise iimpahla zakho zangaphantsi.
Ngelishwa, uninzi lwabantwana alunakuyiphepha le ngxaki ngenxa yokuba phulukana nolawulo lwezihlunu ezilawula ukuhamba kwamathumbu. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba abantwana abagcina ilindle labo banokuba nazo iingxaki nomchamo ovuzayo, oya kuthi ubangele ukuba bamanzise ibhedi. Ukuba ingxaki iyaqhubeka okwethutyana, banokuba nayo usulelo lomchamo.
Iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo zomntwana wakho ukuba afune ukungcolisa
Elona cebiso libalulekileyo elinokunikwa ayikokunyanzela umntwana ukuba asebenzise igumbi lokuhlambela xa kuqala olu tshintsho lubalulekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba ikulungele ngaphambi kokuthatha ingqalelo ekususeni amanabukeni. Ngaphandle koko, unokuhlakulela uloyiko olwenza ukuba ungafuni ukuphosa. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ukhululekile ekufundeni ukwenza poop "njengabantu abadala" kubalulekile kwimpumelelo. Ngale nto, qiniseka ukuba:
- Iinyawo zomntwana wakho zikumphakamo ofanelekileyo ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese
- Kukho isitulo kumagumbi okuhlambela nakwizindlu zangasese
- Izihlalo zangasese zikhuselekile ukuze umntwana wakho angacingi ukuba anokuwa ngaphakathi
Ukwenza utshintsho kwindlela otya ngayo umntwana wakho okanye ukusebenzisa izongezo zefayibha okanye izitofoli zesitulo kunokunceda apha. Nangona kunjalo, kungcono ukuba soloko ulandela izikhombisi okanye imiyalelo kugqirha wabantwana. Ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni ukungcolisa kwaye iba yingxaki kwimpilo yakhe ngenxa yeentlungu zika ukomelela, utyelelo kugqirha womntwana kunyanzelekile. Dibana nogqirha wakho ngazo naziphi na ezinye iingxaki ezinxulumene nokugabha, iingxaki zokutya okanye utshintsho kubunzima bakho.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uziva enexhala xa usebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela, mbuze ukuba yintoni emxhalabisayo kwaye ususe inkxalabo yakhe, ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekhaya. Abanye abantwana abafuni ukuya kwiindawo zangasese zikawonkewonke, ngoko ke lungiselela loo nto nawe. Umonde kunye nokuqonda zizixhobo ezisisiseko zokujongana nale ngxaki. ixhaphake kakhulu ebantwaneni. Xa sele ekulungele ukutshintsha, umntwana wakho uya kuthi kancinci kwi-diapers.