Ukulutha kwimidlalo yevidiyo kuyinyani kwaye abantwana abancinci ngakumbi nangakumbi bayachaphazeleka. Kule minyaka yedijithali apho kukho izixhobo zombane ezingenakubalwa, Kulula kakhulu ukufikelela kuso nasiphi na isixhobo onokonwabisa ngaso. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantwana banazo zonke iintlobo zokuzonwabisa kwezobuchwephesha kwisandla kunye neziyobisi kumdlalo wevidiyo esiba yingxaki enkulu ekufuneka isuswe.
Nokuba ulikhoboka lohlobo lomdlalo, umatshini womdlalo wevidiyo okanye isixhobo esiphathwayo esinokuzonwabisa ngaso, kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana ukuba bazisebenzise ngendlela efanelekileyo ezi zixhobo. Ngaphandle koku kuba yingxaki, ngelishwa, iya isiba yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye sele inyangwa yodwa ngokubonisana neengcali zezempilo.
Unokwenza ntoni ngomntwana olikhoboka lemidlalo yevidiyo
Ukuqala kuyimfuneko ucinga ukuba umntwana uneziyobisi, into engekho lula kwaphela. Xa uthetha ngeziyobisi, umntu uhlala ecinga ngezinto ezindala kunye nezinto. Kodwa nayiphi na imeko okanye isenzo esiya kuthi sinyanzeleke, ethintela umda kubomi boluntu kunye nokutshintsha kokuziphatha, inokuba likhoboka, nakubantwana.
Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho ulikhoboka lemidlalo yevidiyo? Cinga ngexesha olichitha wedwa, udlala imidlalo yevidiyo, kunye neselfowuni okanye ikhompyuter yakho. Ngaba uyacaphuka xa ususa umdlalo ukuya kwenza enye into? Ukuba uyekile ukwenza ezinye izinto obukade uzithanda, ukuba ukhetha ukuhlala egumbini lakho ngaphambi kokuba uphume uye kudlala esitratweniUkusebenza kwesikolo sakho kuyehla okanye uneemood swings, unokuba ubona iimpawu zomdlalo wevidiyo.
Iindlela zokulawula iziyobisi kumdlalo wevidiyo
Abantwana kufuneka bazibonele ngawabo amehlo into abayenzayo engalunganga, ngendlela ebonakalayo necacileyo abanokuthi baqonde ngayo ukuba ingxaki iphi. Xa umntwana echitha iiyure ezininzi ngosuku edlala imidlalo yevidiyo, baphoswa lithuba lokwenza ezinye izinto. Yiloo nto kufuneka umenze abone, kuba, makadlale iintsuku ezininzi okoko efuna. Bhala phantsi iiyure ozichitha udlala nini.
Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, hlala phantsi nomntwana wakho kwaye umbonise ixesha alichithe nomdlalo wakhe. KUNYE umbonise yonke into ngewayenze ngela xesha, njengokuphuma uyokudlala, ukubona abahlobo bakho, uphethe into emnandi, uphume uyokwenza izinto ezonwabisayo okanye enye into enokubangela umdla kuwe. Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukumenza aqonde ukuba imidlalo yevidiyo imnandi kuphela xa idlalwa ngokufanelekileyo.
Ezi ndlela ziya kukunceda ulawule ingxaki ukuba unomntwana olikhoboka lemidlalo yevidiyo:
- Cwangcisa iishedyuliUmzekelo: imizuzu engama-30 emva kwemini emva kokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya. Emva koko kuya kufuneka wenze omnye umsebenzi.
- Cebisa ezinye iindlelaNgaphambi kokuba umxelele ukuba ayeke ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo, khangela izinto ezinokuba nomdla kumntwana wakho. Oku kwenza ukuba kube nzima kuwe ukwala isicwangciso.
- Dlala imidlalo yevidiyo nomntwana wakho: Ukuthintela umntwana ekuzihlukaniseni kubalulekile kwaye ngubani onokudlala naye ngcono kunawe. Mcele akubonise ukuba yintoni, indlela yokudlala kunye nokwabelana ngomdlalo njengentsapho. Izinto ezimbini zinokwenzeka, nokuba uyayithanda kwaye ufuna ukudlala nawe, okanye uyakruquka kukufundisa aze ayeke ukudlala. Ngayiphi na imeko iya kuba sisisombululo esihle.
Ungathandabuzi ukudibana nengcali ukuba uziva ukuba imeko iphuma ngaphandle kwaye awunakukwazi ukulawula ukuba likhoboka lomdlalo wevidiyo womntwana wakho. Sele zibhaliwe iimeko zabantwana abanomlutha kwimidlalo ethile yevidiyo ukuba baphumelele ekupheliseni ngonyango lwengqondo. Phambi kokuba isiyobisi siba sibi, funa uncedo lobuchwephesha, kokubini kwingxaki yomntwana kunye nokusombulula imeko yosapho enokuba nzima.