Namhlanje lusuku lwehlabathi ngokuchasene nokuSebenza kwaBantwana kwaye ngelishwa amanani namhlanje asadimaza. Ngokwengxelo ezikhutshwe namhlanje yiUNICEF, zizigidi ezili-121 zabantwana abaza kuqhubeka bengamaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ngo-2025. Izigidi zabantwana emhlabeni ziya kuqhubeka nokuphila amava angalunganga yonke imihla yobudala babo, ngaphandle kokonwabela yonke into abantwana bakho abanokuba nayo yonke imihla.
Nangona oku kubonakala ngathi ngumlo onzima, kwaye inyani kukuba kufuneka yenziwe kwizinto ezinkulu, inyani yile elowo unoxanduva lokulwa le nkcubeko kwimihla ngemihla. Umntu ngamnye ngokwamandla akhe, kuba sonke sinoxanduva lokulwa silwele abo bantwana bangenabuntwana. Unokucinga ukuba ungumntu omnye kwaye akukho nto unokuyenza kubo, kodwa akukho nto inokuqhubeka nenyaniso.
Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni onokuyenza ukulwa nokuqeshwa kwabantwana?
Zonke iinkozo zesanti zibalulekile kumlo obaluleke ngolu hlobo. Zonke izimbo zomzimba zibalulekile, ngakumbi leyo ichaphazela ngokuthe ngqo abo baya kuba ziinkokheli zangomso, abantwana. Njengomzali, impembelelo yakho ibalulekile kuphuhliso lwabantwana bakho. Yonke into oyifaka kubo, nokuba ubafundise yona okanye oyinika umzekelo ngayo, iya kuphawula umendo wabo kwixesha elizayo.
Ke ngoko, eyona ndima yakho iphambili kumlo wokulwa ukusetyenziswa kwabantwana iqala ekhaya, kwimfundo yabantwana bakho nakwindlela ophila ngayo okanye ukuphucula imikhwa yakho. Nayi eminye imizekelo yendlela onokunceda ngayo kweli dabi.
Yazisa abantwana bakho
Ayisiyo malunga nokuzifundisa ngabo bonke ububi obugcweleyo emhlabeni, kodwa imalunga nokubenza bathathe inxaxheba kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo engaphaya kokukhuselwa likhaya labo. Ngendlela efanelekileyo, abantwana kufuneka bazi ukuba zikho ezinye abantwana abaninzi ehlabathini abangakwaziyo ukudlala ngenxa yokuba ixesha labo linikezelwe emsebenzini. Kungenxa yokuba ukuba uyichaza ngendlela elula, ezolileyo kunye nembeko, abantwana bakho baya kuqonda ukuba banelungelo kwaye baya kukhula ngexabiso lombulelo.
Kungenzeka nokuba kusapho lwakho kukho iimeko zezalamane ekuye kwafuneka ukuba zenze umsebenzi othile zisengabantwana abancinci. Uninzi lwethu abazali okanye ootatomkhulu baphila le meko kwaye eli inokuba libali elihle ukuxelela abantwana bakho. Kungenxa yokuba ayikho enye indlela ebhetele yokubona inyani kunaleyo unayo ebusweni nangomntu.
Ukukhuthaza ukusetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo
Uluntu lwehlabathi lokuqala luxinene nokuxhamla kwabathengi, apho wonke umntu efuna ukuba nezinto ezingaphezulu kommelwane olandelayo. Ngelishwa, ukuze uhlangabezane nale mfuno, kuya kufuneka Phindaphinda umsebenzi kumazwe asakhasayoOko kukuthi, amazwe apho amalungelo abantwana anyhashwa.
Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukukhuthaza ukusetyenziswa okuthembekileyo, ukunqanda abathengi kunye ukukwazisa kakuhle malunga neemeko zokusebenza elizweni apho into ivela khona okanye ingubo. Phinda usebenzise iimveliso zakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ungasoloko uhlala zinike ubomi besibini iimpahla zakho nge-DIY okanye yenza iithoyi ezizodwa kunye neengcali ezikhuthaza ukusetyenziswa kwakhona.
Sebenzisana nemibutho
Mininzi imibutho ezinikele ngokukodwa ekulweleni amalungelo abantwana. Ngangoko unako, ungasebenzisana negalelo elincinci lezemali eliya kuba luncedo olukhulu kubantwana abangenanto. Nawe unokwenjenjalo ukufaka isandla emsebenzini wakho wokungazingci, ukufaka isandla kulwazi lwakho, amava akho okanye nantoni na enokuba luncedo kubantu abaququzelela umbutho.
Sisonke singenza eli lizwe lingconoYonke igalelo elincinci liyimfuneko kulo mlo. Abantwana abakho kubemi abakudidi lwesibini, ngaphandle kwento yokuba uninzi lwabantu olungenantliziyo ehlabathini luyabalibala. Balwele njengoko ubuya kubenzela abantwana bakho, kuba ngelishwa abanalo ithuba lokwenza njalo.